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@Adeptus Psychonautica Welcome! đđ»
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Appreciating clarity. đ€
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@DMT Elf It might be missed or underestimated, just how âstickyâ conceptual âteachingsâ (rhetoric of ego / spiritual ego) can be⊠is. That there is a you which can or canât, does or doesnât, will or wonât âescape beliefsâ is the belief. Beliefs are the veil, the activity of thought. Of course it âmustâ be said âimoâ đ ⊠but âitâ is most definitely not about âhaving the right or best or highest quality beliefsâ⊠beliefs are beliefs. By definition beliefs arenât true. There arenât âlevelsâ of beliefs⊠âlevelsâ is a belief. As was said, jump into the mirage (inspect) to see it is actually the desert, vs calling the desert by the mirage. There is no difference between âthe highest quality greatest beliefs of all timeâ lol, and believing the thought ant is perception, or that there is âperceptionâ. There is literally no such thing as an accurate model of reality; the âmodelâ is reality âtooâ. That is thought attachment. That in & of itself is rhetoric. This is the âcultâ factor, and beliefs are why no one âinâ a cult can hear that. âItâ really is âthisâ. (Thereâs no one âinâ a cult, itâs just group / shared belief, which is a not noticing of this factor, which is non inspection). âValueâ (and purpose & meaning) is a real âsticklerâ imo. Not in an âadminâ or âmoderatingâ sense⊠in an if youâre interested sense⊠reference the section from The Buddha in the forum principles. The Truth really is the end of a suffering which never really transpired. âTwo centsâ but⊠Iâd pay much more attention to what Veganawake âsharesâ.. âover thereâ. đ đ€ Thereâs no âgreat guyâ âover hereâ lol. Explained that when we hung out. Was not received. No âteacherâ. No ârelative and absoluteâ to âconflateâ, no âconflationâ or âconflatorâ, no âconspiracyâ, no âcontroversyâ, no âcorrective messages sent over the yearsâ, no âneo advaitaâ, lmao, at all. There wasnât a single pm from âNahmâ to a member. None. Thatâs what manipulative rhetoric / defending spiritual ego / defending thought attachment & ideology is. I hope these comments find you well and lead to much laughter, and appreciate âyourâ participation âhereâ. Also, if interested⊠Itâs about what the bubbles are made of, not about replacing bubbles with someone elseâs âbetterâ bubbles. That is what conjecture is. Illustratively, the bubble on the left is filled with beliefs, the bubble on the right is clarity or, âseeing reality as it isâ. Actual wakefulness, nonduality. Notice the sphere on the left can barely even be seen through. Whatâs seen there (left sphere) is the bubbles - not âreality as it isâ. âVapidâ, âLacking in social acuityâ, âhis big heartâ, âthe problemâ, âfailureâ, âlackâ. đ Seeing âitâ? The manipulation? See why & how âtrustâ is employed / used? Notice private messages shared without consent⊠yet not a single âpersonâ asks to see these Nahm to members alleged messages. đ€ŠđŒ Inspect yall! If anything said here seems âvagueâ and or isnât understood⊠one can always simply⊠ask and further the discussion. I wouldnât dream of asking you to leave alternatively. Whoâd of guessed incompatibility could be so resonating. đ€ (Gets back to âtrauma bondingâ with Chris Rock) đ
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Well, IMO đ itâs a âwhere youâre at on your pathâ really. Not right vs wrong. The implied duality of a knower and a known is like the implied duality of a âone who is ready or not readyâ, or one who could lack or be lacking. I wouldnât say meditation âgetâs one readyâ, itâs more of a falling away of thought attachment, namely, about âthat separate selfâ. âThe oneâ who could know or not, or be ready for some thing or not. A recognition or seeing through the thought narrative of. But please donât take that as any implication that thereâs a rush, or that âwhere youâre atâ is anything other than divine & perfect. There are infinite âways to goâ. One, is using the emotional scale, and realizing why loneliness isnât on there. I would suggest itâs because itâs a self referential concept, and not an emotion. The key difference is in the feeling of the guidance. If loneliness is âheldâ to be an emotion, what getâs potentially missed, is⊠which emotion am I feeling in regard to this concept, âlonelinessâ.
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Reading List Sharing Center
Phil replied to Llurendt's topic in Recommendations: Books, Videos, Courses, etc.
Great thread! +1 for Kung Fu Panda đ -
Bliss is about as close as description can get. Might be a helpful distinction⊠with psychedelic trips, there are typically âglimpsesâ which are then âheldâ to be an experience in a past with notions (activity of thought) as to what âitâ was or is, or what I am⊠and thus âspiritual egoâ or, âthe knower ofâ⊠whereas with cessation, typically from the practice, there isnât experience, notions, psychedelic trips, glimpses, a ânew egoâ, knowerâ, or ânew knowledge / metaâ⊠(because these thoughts donât arise). If consciousness is prior to anything, is fearsome, is loneliness, is memory, can feel something, if there is something to know, etc, then consciousness isnât infinite. Practically speaking, two cents⊠if loneliness is of concern donât focus on dualistic activity of thought like self & other, existentialism, etc.. develop a creative talent, such that time alone is a joy and a blessing. âConnectionâ is a duality that falls away as well, but so to speak, that is what is most connective, as that is expression. Likewise, when anything is said about consciousness, such as consciousness is lonely, look at the life and at least consider it could be thought attachment & projection. Not to judge, more⊠not to be mislead & influenced.
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@fopylo That difference inevitably falls away too. Crazy at first. đ Considering that perspective can help you see everything added to it, and extract all the juice & clarity with respect to what youâre actually wanting. Also consider, your original perspective isnât true either. But one resonates with infinite intelligence (and not so much with the ego). Can always use more of that in life. đ€
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Awesome. Could add âthe one who is writing this, here, nowâ⊠to the beliefs, narratives, about a me-self category too, in noticing this is also the activity of thought. Yes. đ Infinite can not know finite. Pure innocence. Put slightly different ways⊠knowingness can not know any thing⊠awareness can not be aware of any thing. If that is noticed, then âexceptionsâ to this are noticed to not be exceptional at all, but to be the activity of thought⊠compassion naturally then arises in regard to deception, delusion, narratives of separate selves, etc, as itâs recognized in direct experience as no more than⊠thought attachment or, the believing of thoughts. đđŒđ€
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Reading Reality
Phil replied to Llurendt's topic in Nonduality, Consciousness, Awakening, Enlightenment, Self-Recognition
đ âFirst time you feel it, it might make you sad. Next time you feel it, it might make you mad. But youâll be glad when you've found, That's the power makes the world go 'round.â HL & âŠThe News. -
Your beliefs, alignment & discord, and your beliefs, alignment & discord. đ Your beliefs, alignment & discord, and your beliefs, alignment & discord. Can you find a middle a ground⊠with you? Can an equation made of middle ground be solved such that a middle ground is reached or found? What if love, pain & suffering are common sense? A practical solution given the belief in separation and thus the rarity of siddhis, might be life swapping. Like that old tv show Wife Swap, but just someone elseâs life for a month. Not a tv show, just doing all their stuff. A critique, that higher than & lower than / above or below thinking can be a stickler. If I raised my kids telling them all criticism is untenable, and criticized them daily, Iâd go broke from their therapy.
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The Who. đ€đŒđœ
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Powerful. đđ»
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Feeling of truth and inspiration doesnât come & go. This is your own true nature. Thoughts, come & go, and can of course seem to obscure the true nature. Receive the emotional guidance of doubt & insecurity. Look to the thoughtsâŠâwhat am Iâm thinking which doesnât resonate?â The discord is with the thoughts about, and not with the books, content, or what anyone says or wrote. With specific regard to the thought âI feel like am I bullshitting myselfâ, nonduality / not two, is a much better pointer than âOnenessâ. In receiving the pointing of not two, that thought is inspected for validity. That might sound like, âam I the I bullshitting⊠or am I the myself being bullshitted?â The âpointâ is to notice that is a thought about âtwo meâsâ, and that is not actually âtwo meâsâ. Also, it might be most effective to put those books on hold and research / read info on insecurity and address that directly. Favor attention on the âI donât knowâ and remain open minded⊠vs projecting onto books and or illusion, as if asserting upon you, âkeeping you from actual truth & peaceâ. Since you are what actual truth & peace is, that thought / thinking will feel off to you. The thought âmy beingâ can also be inspected in the not-two manor. Question the underlying belief; that there is a me and this book(s). The scientific investigation - âwhat is a body, brain & book made of most fundamentallyâ might be fruitful. Also, notice the plurality of âif these books are illusionsâ, and consider singularity & not-two. âIf the body, brain & book are illusory⊠what is real? What is it which is appearing as all of this, the whole or entitirety of experience?â If Oneness is The Truth, then there are these thoughts of these âthingsâ⊠yet there are not actually separate things. In the same sense all of the things mentioned there are included in reality, âtheyâ are included in Oneness, or, Nonduality. Consider the approach of neti neti, ânot me, not meâ, for every âthingâ⊠and also favor thoughts of inclusion. Analogously⊠imagine all of what youâre mentioning, including the thoughts and the expression of, are made out of legos. Then⊠âwhat is the truth, the true nature, of, legos?â. Also, are you trying these things out? Directly experiencing vs only reading about? Maybe try a Reiki class & some crystals, see how it is. Maybe a retreat and or trip, etc. Direct experience(s). đ Inspect, see through, and therein dispell & relinquish the insecurity & doubt⊠by receiving the guidance, and acknowledging the discord is about the thoughts focused on about this. Pick thoughts which resonate more. If at a loss - be humble and acknowledge what is true for you so to speak⊠âI donât knowâ. Let any âfiguring outâ go. The Truth is not figure-out-able. Rather than looking to something to make you feel better - notice thoughts which donât feel good. This is like the ever present empty clear sky⊠and the passing clouds. Good feeling does not come & go. Discordant & aligned thoughts come & go. Thatâs a thought, which is an expression of what you want to experience. Create those experience which you want. Schedule them, order them, etc. Then this is a self referential thought. Inspect perception & feeling⊠âwhere is the I which is said to be bullshitting⊠and where is the myself which is said to possibly be being bullshitted?â. More specifically⊠what, where, who is this âIâ which isnât what good feeling and peace is⊠which canât feel itâs own true nature without an âitâ? Inspect for actual separation. Actually, really, try to find actual separation⊠such as an actual separation between perception (seeing, hearing)⊠knowing there is seeing & hearing⊠and awareness of this knowing. âLookâ in direct experience, as compared to âfiguring it outâ in thoughts. It can be most helpful to recognize the thought that there is separation as a belief which has not yet been inspected⊠and to physically point to the actual separation. Iâd also consider, from a most zoomed out / biggest picture viewâŠ. Is something coming up & out from daily morning meditation & using the scaleâŠ. But I am trying to âgetâ the truth from books etc⊠vs allowing whatever it is to come up & out, to be seen, understood, healed, and dispelled. It is true on all fronts, logical, rational and literal⊠âwhen all beliefs are inspected & dispelled; only The Truth could remainâ. Also, for whatâs itâs worth (as you read this, itâs acknowledged here it only amounts to opinion / suggestion / a pointing)⊠everything & anything youâve heard about Truth which is scary, negative, concerning, discordant, âhard to swallowâ, etc, etc - is utter ignorance, arrogance & complete horseshit. âSomeoneâsâ neglected shadow work âmade intoâ a âteachingâ. Namely, for money, and or sex, and or self image, and or a surface level self esteem.
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@Forza21 Youâre unthinkable goodness. đ Itâs a weird conundrum. Seek on, until there is absolutely no doubt. Suffering disappears under the light of inspection, without exception. When there is thinking there is suffering, check perception & feeling, actually find it, literally. Find the self which suffers, and or inspect directly into the feeling which thought labels suffering. If it sounds like horseshit & smells like horseshit, just step over it. Let people work their own horseshit out. If they donât want to inspect⊠then that is what is, and it is perfection. Helping others is a thoughtless đ€ thing to do.
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All that's left is to have a good laugh!
Phil replied to Faith's topic in Laughter, The Best Medicine
@Faith Just seeing the thumbnail of that first one, it already got me. đ đ đ -
đđ If it resonates, brings about clarity in these mattersâŠ. âWhat is projectionâ, and âwhat is deflectionâ. In short âthe discord is because of âyouâ, vs simply⊠what Iâm thinkin, what Iâm sayingâ. As always, feedback is appreciated if you have any suggestions.
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Everything is Love
Phil replied to Zeroguy's topic in Nonduality, Consciousness, Awakening, Enlightenment, Self-Recognition
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Wait, are you actually suggesting we could all be loving and helping each other!? This is outrageous! đ€
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âA meditation technique of enlightenment, i.e. "self realization". By realizing âwhoâ you are, the bonds of suffering are broken. Besides realization, self-inquiry delivers many of the same benefits as other meditation techniques, such as relaxation, enhanced experience of life, greater openness to change, greater creativity, and a sense of joy and fulfillment. Focus on the feeling of being "me," to the exclusion of all arising thoughtsâŠâ Self Inquiry đ€
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Family
Phil replied to Wayne's topic in Friendship, Dating, Relationships, Family, Parenting & Sexuality
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