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12 minutes ago, Orb said:

@Rose Whatever I dont give a shit anymore, youre right. You havent done a single thing wrong. Clearly it’s just the men that are neurotic. 

I don’t look at the binary world of males vs females. Symptoms might be different but issues are the same. 
 

If I were you I would focus on befriending women, before trying to date them. 
 

Although it is true, it does annoy me more when men whine compared to women. Probably because in my life I see men whining a 100 times more than women do. Probably because of the time I spent on actualized. 
 

It is crazy because men keep saying how they are not allowed to express their emotions, but all I see is them whining and expressing their emotions. 

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1 minute ago, Lester Retsel said:

Try listening to some female musicians.  Wach some movies made by women.  Maybe try to read some female authors.  If that one weak paragraph is a reflection of the level of your appreciation of women, you have a long way to go.  How do you expect to to be appreciated by them when that's all you've got good to say about them? That's asking a bit much.  

The thing is I don't wanna listen to female only stuff just to prove I'm a good person or something. 

 

One of my favorite videogame characters is Samus from metroid, Sigourney weavers one of my favorite actors and I loved the alien movies as a kid.

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4 minutes ago, Orb said:

The thing is I don't wanna listen to female only stuff just to prove I'm a good person or something. 

 

One of my favorite videogame characters is Samus from metroid, Sigourney weavers one of my favorite actors and I loved the alien movies as a kid.

It's not to prove you're a good person, it's to learn.  That's how you'll gain a deeper appreciation.  You may be surprised what you discover.

Otherwise you are expecting something from someone that you aren't giving yourself.  That's not going to work out.

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Just now, Orb said:

@Lester Retsel now I gotta write a list of all the female artists I appreciate so you guys know I'm a good person. I feel like I'm on trial trying to prove my innocence. Wait judges look at the evidence!

Because you keep saying stuff that makes it look as if you see women and men as fundamentally different. 

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Just now, Orb said:

@Lester Retsel now I gotta write a list of all the female artists I appreciate so you guys know I'm a good person. I feel like I'm on trial trying to prove my innocence. Wait judges look at the evidence!

You seemed to be asking how you can learn to appreciate women more, and not be angry or resent them, right?  That's how you started this off?  

It's not about proving anything, it's expanding your horizons, in order to accomplish the goal you stated.

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@Lester Retsel yea I started it bc the anger came out ever since not using porn to suppress it and wanted to vent about how I feel. I should've just stayed

quiet a couple hours ago lol. 

 

@Rose I don't like you or agree with you.

 

Okay fine I'm sorry, I like you a bit, you're just mean and hypercritical like me and I hate it. Self hate.

 

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1 hour ago, Orb said:

@Lester Retsel yea I started it bc the anger came out ever since not using porn to suppress it and wanted to vent about how I feel. I should've just stayed

quiet a couple hours ago lol. 

 

@Rose I don't like you or agree with you.

 

Okay fine I'm sorry, I like you a bit, you're just mean and hypercritical like me and I hate it. Self hate.

 

I am not like you, I am not saying this to be mean or hypercritical to you.
 

I am saying the truth about you, you just don’t like it. Seeing this truth will help you a billion times more than hearing how poor of a victim you are. I am doing you a favour. 

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2 hours ago, Rose said:


This is objectively false to say that the two careers require the same amount of effort. I can do my own gel nails and cut my own hair, but the other way around wouldn’t be possible. One is low skill trade other is high skill trades. Because it’s a low skill trade though, doesn’t mean it doesn’t have its own challenges.

 

Education was not just means to an end. But the end is also very important.

 

It’s just that in the era of instagram nails and hair are more valued in our society than intellectual things. One of my friends paid 100$ for a manicure a few days ago 🤯

I hear you for sure, but it's a feel good experience, which is also partly why it attracts appreciation in the form of money. How can you bring appreciation into what you do? Are you passionate about it? 

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4 minutes ago, Orb said:

@Rose okay Rose, just drop it lol, ive seen all your posts about men and it’s hilarious how you dont see how hypocritical you are. 


Have you seen me getting this butt hurt when people commented under my post? Do you not see the difference between my post and your post? Do you see me attacking other people under that post when they criticize me? 
 

You’re also being very dramatic and exaggerating which is common of people your age. I don’t have multiple posts about men, there was just one post. And I want you to objective read it and compare it to your post. 

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