WhiteOwl

Does "being" the world a different way than what you do right now make you experience it exactly that way? Sounds like i have the power over all persons. Of course there is no me and no persons. But without framing it like that, how do does wanted change happen?

It was just one example that came to mind that was recent, the thread was about other situations also, i thought it was a bit similar. I am surely not uncomfortable sharing here at all, i would say obviously lol. I am not completely clear what i am asking though. Will get back if it gets

I did want to help and encourage him of course. I tried. Also didn't feel superior in that moment. Maybe i think i should feel some discord when feeling into people, which wouldn't make sense actually.

Is there anything which is not a presumption? Contemplating anything there must be a difference between the things you contemplate, otherwise what is the point? What is "honesty", What is "The body". There is a directly different experience of the mentioned things? So in that sense they must exist

I was talking with someone random yesterday at a club and he was expressing to me and someone else that he didn't feel so good for some time. I just didn't really feel anything for him. Maybe thats fine. I don't want to brush peoples things off.

Should is not necessary, but because it feels good, and you can connect with the person.

I notice a tendency to not feel very compassionate when hearing about others suffering. Thought of being a bit superior arises. Thought that they should know, or they should do things differently. Does compassion arise naturally without beliefs in the way?

This might be what they call classic depression, but here its called classic self-referential thoughts and the resulting feeling that comes from believing them. And honestly, its really the truth, stick to the latter. Try expressing jealousy. Take your power back and talk about all the things you see others have or do. There is some comparison happening for you express these things. What does others have that you don't? You are not falling off track, thats not possible. You are believing thoughts about it and feeling the corresponding off-ness. On your picture with sobriety, clean home etc. Maybe start with just one of them and take small steps towards that and don't mind any of the others. If they happen thats great, but maybe see it more as a marathon than a sprint right now. You can change your situation around completely with small steps. Doing all at once rarely works. Never did for me at least. You got this mate. What you are doing is fundamental for the rest of your life. Its not always "easy" but its deeply worthwhile. There is no failure, keep it up ❤️

I don't think any more "studying" will do the trick. Truth has to just be seen now all the time and acknowledged. Jump in both legs sort of. "I" didn't start this whatever it is just to intellectualize Thanks!

Has to be just acknowledged because it fucking is true. Why act any other way.

It resonates and seems very clear your whole message. Thank you. So its about acknowledging every thought of the separate self or other separate selves when it occurs. I guess there is nothing else to be done

Contenytment is also felt. Also hugger emotions. Just some of the lower have taken a lot of space previosly

Feeling closely into emotions how do you even know which is which? Just seems like the same energy. Guilt/shame who knows, thats just what we label the energy

Being a working musician. Right now i dont perform which makes it a bit lonely maybe. But working on that. else i am not sure. Worth thinking about

@MandyI studied biology, ecology. Some of the knowledge i also find a bit useless now as its quite opposite of whats being taught here. Conflicts. A lot of beliefs about how the world works. That puts me off a bit

Othering, competition. I believe all of the mentioned emotions are coming from that.

When i was studying i didn't really care about it. I quit because i have no idea what kind of job i want in that direction. So i would rather finish it when i had some vision in mind. Would be nice to do it for the safety and maybe something comes up a long the way. I think you are right. I "need" something on the side.

Nice read 😂 Sounds like a great mother also

I need some change in regard to how i feel about the music project that i want to create. Right now i feel a lot of worry, discouragement, shame, guilt, blame, frustration, impatience, boredom, pessimism. I put studying on hold because i want to produce more music and focus a bit on becoming an artist. I released my first EP and have next one coming out next month. I practice mixing a lot these days so i also feel confident getting the chance to get booked (had 1 gig so far). The "problem" is all the negativity that surrounds it. I want to laugh and enjoy and not take it so seriously. I want to feel excited and joyful and not feeling shame and being afraid of being judged. How do i find that place. I need a complete paradigm shift here. From garbage to just laughing and enjoying it

Could it be that this fact/belief stands in the way of attracting abundance? Do you really know the truth about our planets abundance? Like really. Im in the same boat btw.

Sounds amazing. The worse/the better, if you feel and allow. It doesn't really matter what you label the emotion, its just energy-in-motion. At some point you will start to love the feeling of it.

Best feeling ever. The more intense it gets now the more i just know jackpot is hit. Can you elaborate?

Credit to God probably feels most aligned as there was no doing. Maybe the willingness. I think its still believed there is something to achieve in all this. Thats what has to be dropped.

I work with adults with autism and putting them in a group together makes little sense to me. They "function" quite differently each one of them. Some seem to percieve the world very basic like a child maybe, and some a lot more complex seeing patterns and remembering things i don't at least.

Many ways to go about describing what changes. Getting rid of the conditioned self of beliefs/reactions/emotions, which makes room for something else to shine. Emotions, some very deep rooted, has been coming up and out basically all the time last 3-4 month and honestly i feel remarkably changed from that. Baseline feeling is just quite great and i feel at ease around people in a completely new way which was very much longed for. And nothing has happened other than just emotion/energy being felt. Still believe there was someone doing this.. namely me. If i didn't sit and stare at the wall for countless nights connecting with deep emotions/trauma i guess i would still feel the same as before. Same with anyone in any field. The separate self cant be pointed to, but still.. Someone/something/nothing was responsible.