Emotional Bypassing Is A Sign Of Intelligence.

[Phil]

Joy/Appreciation/Empowerment/Freedom/Love:

Bypassing thoughts of limitation and separation, the expression and allowance of joy, appreciation & empowerment is the unlocking or self-inherent boundless potential, fostering a profound realizations of the truth & beauty of self, as well as the abundance and profundity of the miracle of being. 

 

Passion:

By bypassing thoughts of hesitation, uncertainty & second guessing, the allowance and expression of passion inspires and propels never before experienced ideas & actions aligned with the reality of creator-ship infusing every moment and endeavor with the pure energy of being.

 

Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness:

Bypassing separate self referential concepts of hesitance, reservation & intimidation, the allowance of enthusiasm, eagerness and happiness is a renewed welcoming & open-hearted engagement with present moment experience which reveals new possibilities as new adventures ensue, inherently infusing the body-mind with excitement, anticipation and the simple pleasure of having fun. 

 

Positive Expectation/Belief:

By bypassing cynicism, the allowance of the expression of positive expectations and beliefs pave the way for the realization of desired outcomes and opportunities,

 

Optimism:

Bypassing the ostensible mental action of presumption, the expression of optimism effortlessly aligns thought with the inherent goodness of being which allows the potential for manifestation of preferences and positive change strengthening momentum & allowing solutions in moments of adversity. 

 

Hopefulness:

By bypassing false assumptions & conclusions, the expression of hopefulness fuels the courage, bravery, intrinsic curiosity and resilience, unfettering infinite possibilities and boundless potential.

 

Contentment:

By bypassing self referential thought patterns of loathing & cravings, the allowance of contentment reveals the truth of peace and inherent fulfillment, allowing the beauty of being to shine, the otherwise ordinary to be seen clearly as extraordinary and the mundane remarkable as being basks in the inherent abundance of the present moment.

 

Boredom:

Bypassing self referential concepts of bored & judgmental thoughts of boring, the expression of boredom dispels beliefs of stagnation, stuckness, shortage, lack, inability & assertion and revitalizes curiosity, wonder & exploration paving the way for new invigorating ideas & experiences by naturally allowing creativity and the manifestation of preferences to be.

 

Pessimism:

By bypassing concepts of sadness, anxiety, hopelessness & depression, the allowance of the expression of pessimism prompts introspection and a reevaluation of beliefs, leading to renewed optimism & alignment, resulting insights, solution orientation, and unveils the reality of all being anew in this moment.

 

Frustration/Irritation/Impatience:

By bypassing thoughts of time, judgement, urgency and complacency, the expression of the emotions frustration, irritation and impatience relieve the body-mind of discord allowing constructive proactive steps in the orientation of resolution, and un-restrains self-discovery, the truth of of the timelessness of being, and the true eternal nature of formlessness. 

 

Overwhelment:

Bypassing patterns of thought of a separate self in time, the acknowledgement and expression of overwhelment highlights how truly invaluable self-care and mindfulness are as reflections of inherent inner peace and balance.

 

Disappointment:

By bypassing expectations and false conclusions, the allowance of the expression of disappointment stimulates resilience and broadens openness & open-mindedness allowing to new solutions & opportunities. 

 

Doubt:

By bypassing circular logic / uncertainty, the expression of the emotion doubt prompts a journey of exploration and self-discovery with respect to the unmistakably felt dissonance, fostering confidence and clarity, unveiling self-assurance and empowerment.

 

Worry:

Bypassing fortune telling & mind reading, the expression and release of worry prompts proactive planning, insights, ease of mindfulness & peace of mind and unfetters happiness. 

 

Blame:

Bypassing judgements, the expression of blame relieves consciousness of distorted interpretations of separation, which un-hinders and un-restricts creativity, clarity, potential, empathy, compassion and appreciation.

 

Discouragement:

Bypassing defeatism, the expression of discouragement fuels determination and resilience in the manifestation of goals, leading to achievement & success.

 

Anger:

By bypassing tension, hostility & dis-ease, the expression of anger unfetters assertiveness & clarity, as well as fostering patience, kindness and improved communication. 

 

Revenge:

Bypassing actions & behaviors of vengeance via the expression of revenge tension empties, unfettering sincere heartfelt forgiveness making healing, harmony and reconciliation possible which inherently promotes peace and freedom.

 

Hatred/Rage:

By bypassing animosity, resentment & hostility, the expression & inherent release of hatred / rage allows for and inspires empathy and compassion, harmony and connection.

 

Jealousy:

By bypassing the suppression of preferences and employment of deflection & projection, the expression of jealousy prompts self-reflection, unfettering self-assurance and naturally occurring appreciation.

 

Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness:

Bypassing disparaging self referential thoughts with the expression of insecurity, guilt and or unworthiness relieves the body-mind of unnecessary tension & dissonance, and is self-love as it’s an allowing of self-inherent self-awareness, self-compassion, self-worth and empowerment to be unfettered and arise.

 

Fear/Grief/Despair/Powerlessness:

Bypassing all other emotions and beginning with the expression of fear, grief, despair and or powerlessness in the acknowledgment that there is that which some thoughts & interpretations do not resonate with and this is evidentiary that there is a true nature of being. 

 

[WhiteOwl]

47 minutes ago, Phil said:

Disappointment:

By bypassing expectations and false conclusions, the allowance of the expression of disappointment stimulates resilience and broadens openness & open-mindedness allowing to new solutions & opportunities. 

Are expectations not recommended by Abraham Hicks for example? "What you expect, you get" sort of.

 

I notice when there is something i want that is about to happen or is going in the right direction, i feel some fear or insecurity that can stifle it. Like there is something to lose all of sudden. Could also have to do with not wanting to feel disappointment, also since you mention expectations playing a role which makes sense. 

 

Is dispelling beliefs / bypassing expectations the same? or else how do you mean?

 

Nice thread

 

 

[Nadosa]

Acknowledging - is not a doing, is it? Acknowledging is like noticing the already-isness of breathing, isn't it?

[Orb]

Can meditation do the trick alone? 

 

I tried using the scale and all it's good for ime is to let me know what I'm feeling In the moment. 

 

This tool seems best for people who don't have overthinking tendencies or over analyzing. 

[Mandy]

18 minutes ago, WhiteOwl said:

Are expectations not recommended by Abraham Hicks for example? "What you expect, you get" sort of.

Entitlement is not creating, it's assumed that someone or something needs to supply the love, rather than knowing oneself  to be the source of it already. 

[Robed Mystic]

1 hour ago, Phil said:

Joy/Appreciation/Empowerment/Freedom/Love:

Bypassing thoughts of limitation and separation, the expression and allowance of joy, appreciation & empowerment is the unlocking or self-inherent boundless potential, fostering a profound realizations of the truth & beauty of self, as well as the abundance and profundity of the miracle of being. 

 

Passion:

By bypassing thoughts of hesitation, uncertainty & second guessing, the allowance and expression of passion inspires and propels never before experienced ideas & actions aligned with the reality of creator-ship infusing every moment and endeavor with the pure energy of being.

 

Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness:

Bypassing separate self referential concepts of hesitance, reservation & intimidation, the allowance of enthusiasm, eagerness and happiness is a renewed welcoming & open-hearted engagement with present moment experience which reveals new possibilities as new adventures ensue, inherently infusing the body-mind with excitement, anticipation and the simple pleasure of having fun. 

 

Positive Expectation/Belief:

By bypassing cynicism, the allowance of the expression of positive expectations and beliefs pave the way for the realization of desired outcomes and opportunities,

 

Optimism:

Bypassing the ostensible mental action of presumption, the expression of optimism effortlessly aligns thought with the inherent goodness of being which allows the potential for manifestation of preferences and positive change strengthening momentum & allowing solutions in moments of adversity. 

 

Hopefulness:

By bypassing false assumptions & conclusions, the expression of hopefulness fuels the courage, bravery, intrinsic curiosity and resilience, unfettering infinite possibilities and boundless potential.

 

Contentment:

By bypassing self referential thought patterns of loathing & cravings, the allowance of contentment reveals the truth of peace and inherent fulfillment, allowing the beauty of being to shine, the otherwise ordinary to be seen clearly as extraordinary and the mundane remarkable as being basks in the inherent abundance of the present moment.

 

Boredom:

Bypassing self referential concepts of bored & judgmental thoughts of boring, the expression of boredom dispels beliefs of stagnation, stuckness, shortage, lack, inability & assertion and revitalizes curiosity, wonder & exploration paving the way for new invigorating ideas & experiences by naturally allowing creativity and the manifestation of preferences to be.

 

Pessimism:

By bypassing concepts of sadness, anxiety, hopelessness & depression, the allowance of the expression of pessimism prompts introspection and a reevaluation of beliefs, leading to renewed optimism & alignment, resulting insights, solution orientation, and unveils the reality of all being anew in this moment.

 

Frustration/Irritation/Impatience:

By bypassing thoughts of time, judgement, urgency and complacency, the expression of the emotions frustration, irritation and impatience relieve the body-mind of discord allowing constructive proactive steps in the orientation of resolution, and un-restrains self-discovery, the truth of of the timelessness of being, and the true eternal nature of formlessness. 

 

Overwhelment:

Bypassing patterns of thought of a separate self in time, the acknowledgement and expression of overwhelment highlights how truly invaluable self-care and mindfulness are as reflections of inherent inner peace and balance.

 

Disappointment:

By bypassing expectations and false conclusions, the allowance of the expression of disappointment stimulates resilience and broadens openness & open-mindedness allowing to new solutions & opportunities. 

 

Doubt:

By bypassing circular logic / uncertainty, the expression of the emotion doubt prompts a journey of exploration and self-discovery with respect to the unmistakably felt dissonance, fostering confidence and clarity, unveiling self-assurance and empowerment.

 

Worry:

Bypassing fortune telling & mind reading, the expression and release of worry prompts proactive planning, insights, ease of mindfulness & peace of mind and unfetters happiness. 

 

Blame:

Bypassing judgements, the expression of blame relieves consciousness of distorted interpretations of separation, which un-hinders and un-restricts creativity, clarity, potential, empathy, compassion and appreciation.

 

Discouragement:

Bypassing defeatism, the expression of discouragement fuels determination and resilience in the manifestation of goals, leading to achievement & success.

 

Anger:

By bypassing tension, hostility & dis-ease, the expression of anger unfetters assertiveness & clarity, as well as fostering patience, kindness and improved communication. 

 

Revenge:

Bypassing actions & behaviors of vengeance via the expression of revenge tension empties, unfettering sincere heartfelt forgiveness making healing, harmony and reconciliation possible which inherently promotes peace and freedom.

 

Hatred/Rage:

By bypassing animosity, resentment & hostility, the expression & inherent release of hatred / rage allows for and inspires empathy and compassion, harmony and connection.

 

Jealousy:

By bypassing the suppression of preferences and employment of deflection & projection, the expression of jealousy prompts self-reflection, unfettering self-assurance and naturally occurring appreciation.

 

Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness:

Bypassing disparaging self referential thoughts with the expression of insecurity, guilt and or unworthiness relieves the bodymind of uneccesary tension & dissonance is self-love as it’s an allowing of self-inherent self-awareness, self-compassion & self-worth and empowerment to be unfettered and arise.

 

Fear/Grief/Despair/Powerlessness:

Bypassing all other emotions and beginning with the expression of fear, grief, despair and or powerlessness in the acknowledgment that there is that which some thoughts & interpretations do not resonate with which is evidentiary that there is a true nature of being. 

 

Bypassing is not at all necessary.   In fact- feeling through your emotions is just as healthy - and in my estimation healthier...   It is only through experience that one grows.   You can't know hate unless you have hated. 

Edited February 25 by Robed Mystic

[Mandy]

Just now, Orb said:

This tool seems best for people who don't have overthinking tendencies or over analyzing. 

People who overthink is a thought though. You can't really overthink more than anyone else if you can only ever think one thought at a time. And you can't address any thought that is clutter and not serving what's wanted except for questioning the thought now. 

[Orb]

1 minute ago, Mandy said:

People who overthink is a thought though. You can't really overthink more than anyone else if you can only ever think one thought at a time. And you can't address any thought that is clutter and not serving what's wanted except for questioning the thought now. 

Just holding one emotion on the scale in mind already takes a lot of focus. Focus is a pre requisite. I used the scale many times this morning and forgot a few seconds later what I was feeling.

[Phil]

2 minutes ago, WhiteOwl said:

Are expectations not recommended by Abraham Hicks for example? "What you expect, you get" sort of.

Aligned, resonating expectation is recommended by Abraham Hicks, while suppression of emotions as guidance such as disappointment is not. 

2 minutes ago, WhiteOwl said:

 

I notice when there is something i want that is about to happen or is going in the right direction, i feel some fear or insecurity that can stifle it. Like there is something to lose all of sudden. Could also have to do with not wanting to feel disappointment, also since you mention expectations playing a role which makes sense. 

 

Is dispelling beliefs / bypassing expectations the same? or else how do you mean?

An aligned & resonating expectation is an apparent thought, which in & of “itself” attracts thoughts in kind, yet is in & of “itself” without implication of a subject and object. The subject object aspect of thought is the I for whom there is an it.

 

In the bypassing of these subject-object thoughts, the allowance of disappointment is fully felt, and is insightful guidance for no one that nothing’s happening. 

 

As nothing’s happening it (the belief) can not be true that there is some thing for some one which could be lost. Simply put, the allowance of disappointment stands to dispel the belief one is a separate self / that there are separate selves, as that is a false conclusion making disappointment inevitable. 

 

2 minutes ago, WhiteOwl said:

Nice thread

🙏🏼 

[Phil]

15 minutes ago, Nadosa said:

Acknowledging - is not a doing, is it?

Exactly!

15 minutes ago, Nadosa said:

Acknowledging is like noticing the already-isness of breathing, isn't it?

Of “breathing”, yes. 

[Phil]

8 minutes ago, Orb said:

Can meditation do the trick alone? 

 

I tried using the scale and all it's good for ime is to let me know what I'm feeling In the moment. 

 

This tool seems best for people who don't have overthinking tendencies or over analyzing. 

What is the trick? 

[Mandy]

5 minutes ago, Orb said:

Just holding one emotion on the scale in mind already takes a lot of focus. Focus is a pre requisite. I used the scale many times this morning and forgot a few seconds later what I was feeling.

Focus is not a prerequisite. If you truly forgot, you'd already feel as you want to. 

 

You're telling a story of a special orb who is specially flawed and therefore screwed and unable to feel better, but you'd have to be separate to be especially screwed. Since you're not, what story do you want to tell? 

[Phil]

18 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

Bypassing is not at all necessary.   In fact- feeling through your emotions is just as healthy - and in my estimation healthier...   

Emotional bypassing is not bypassing of emotion.

‘Your emotions’ and ‘my emotions’ are thoughts on behalf of an illusory perspective of separate selves, an egocentric claim that emotions are objects, possessions. 

The bypassing of these beliefs is the allowance of the feeling of the emotions these very thoughts are about. 

18 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

It is only through experience that one grows.

The discord of this thought is met with an under-lying emotion as guidance for the belief there is a second self (growing). 

18 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

   You can't know hate unless you have hated. 

Hate & hated seem to exist only for ‘the me’, individual, separate self of thoughts, ego.

For consciousness, hatred is an emotion. Self-inherent, self-evident guidance for thoughts. 

The you that knows, in sincerity, honesty & integrity, is a thought believed, mistaken identification. 

The remedy for the discordant belief is the guidance (emotion). 

[Robed Mystic]

Just now, Phil said:

Emotional bypassing is not bypassing of emotion.

‘Your emotions’ and ‘my emotions’ are thoughts on behalf of an illusory perspective of separate selves, an egocentric claim that emotions are objects, possessions. 

The bypassing of these beliefs is the allowance of the feeling of the emotions these very thoughts are about. 

The discord of this thought is met with an under-lying emotion as guidance for the belief there is a second self (growing). 

Hate & hated seem to exist only for ‘the me’, individual, separate self of thoughts, ego.

For consciousness, hatred is an emotion. Self-inherent, self-evident guidance. 

Everything is a thought my friend.  You thought about this post before you made it.  You are over complicating matters.  All you have to do is feel.   That is omnipotence, by your own estimation.  All you have to do is be.  

[WhiteOwl]

20 minutes ago, Phil said:

The subject object aspect of thought is the I for whom there is an it.

So the thought of us two holding hands is not a subject-object thought? It comes down to the interpretation only as that is where the subject comes in. I somehow thoughts the subject/object was about what the thought was about, but this makes a lot more sense.

[Phil]

11 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

Everything is a thought my friend.  You thought about this post before you made it.  You are over complicating matters.  All you have to do is feel.   That is omnipotence, by your own estimation.  All you have to do is be.  

Thinker is an apparent thought. Believing & identifying with thought, infinite consciousness mistakes itself to be a finite separate self or entity (individual, ego). 

As the message is heard and is deflected, projection occurs as consciousness presumes there are ‘other thinkers’, in linear time, thinking, over complicating. 

 

As infinite consciousness assumes form, consciousness misidentifies as ‘a doer’, and again as the message is shared, deflection & projection occurs, the infinitude of consciousness, being obscured, and it is then believed there are ‘other doers’. 

 

As consciousness assumes thinking and doing are not thoughts, but are separate entities, consciousness assumes itself to be a finite separate self or entity, which feels & has to feel, and presumes itself, infinite consciousness or being, to be the result of illusory separate self’s doing. 

 

Put another way, this is aversion from the guidance of emotion, with respect to these very thoughts and self-conceptualizations. 

[Robed Mystic]

Just now, Phil said:

Thinker is an apparent thought. Believing & identifying with thought, infinite consciousness mistakes itself to be a finite separate self or entity (individual, ego). 

As the message is heard and is deflected, projection occurs as consciousness presumes there are ‘other thinkers’, in linear time, thinking, over complicating. 

 

As infinite consciousness assumes form, consciousness misidentifies as ‘a doer’, and again as the message is shared, deflection & projection occurs, the infinitude of consciousness, being obscured, and it is then believed there are ‘other doers’. 

 

As consciousness assumes thinking and doing are not thoughts, but are separate entities, consciousness assumes itself to be a finite separate self or entity, which feels & has to feel, and presumes itself, infinite consciousness or being, to be the result of illusory separate self’s doing. 

 

 

Infinite Consciousness is a thought  

[Orb]

23 minutes ago, Phil said:

What is the trick? 

Feeling awesome and manifesting my dream life. 

[Orb]

21 minutes ago, Mandy said:

Focus is not a prerequisite. If you truly forgot, you'd already feel as you want to. 

 

You're telling a story of a special orb who is specially flawed and therefore screwed and unable to feel better, but you'd have to be separate to be especially screwed. Since you're not, what story do you want to tell? 

I've flipped stuff around before, but okay let's do this again: my story is that I'm doing awesome and living the dream! I'm learning day by day. 

[Phil]

1 minute ago, Robed Mystic said:

Infinite Consciousness is a thought  

As infinite consciousness is being, by appearing, the lens, there seems to be finite intelligence or, thoughts.

 

Believing thoughts, or, seemingly from the illusory assumed perspective of a finite separate self, infinite consciousness seems to be the apparent finite thought, ‘infinite consciousness’. Put another, infinite seems to be dualistic only from the illusory the illusory perspective of or ans an finite separate self. 

 

Again, this is aversion from emotion, the under-lying guidance for the very thought(s).