Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: I don't see anything entertaining in comic book movies, but most of the world disagrees with me. What are you gonna do. There is nothing wrong with trying to understand why people like it. Also most of the world is underdeveloped and psychologically damaged. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Rose said: There is nothing wrong with trying to understand why people like it. Also most of the world is underdeveloped and psychologically damaged. what is it gonna do for you if you understand why people like it? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: what is it gonna do for you if you understand why people like it? Help me release my judgment of it Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 1 minute ago, Rose said: Help me release my judgment of it would it though? what if there is no "good" reason for it? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 5 minutes ago, Rose said: Why do you think it sells? I don’t see anything entertaining in it. I don't know. It's more interesting and fun to watch Brad Mondo do hair stuff than some random woman for most of the population. It's novel and different and intentionally over the top. People I've met in real life that are gay are nothing like that, they're often very quiet and reserved. I'd rather watch Rajiv Surendra or Preppy Kitchen than Martha Stewart because when I compare myself with her I always come up short. But with Rajiv I don't do that, he's just plain delightful and inspiring . It celebrates a freedom that loving beauty or beautiful things or housekeeping or baking, or etc, isn't just for women and isn't old fashioned or boring. That's there's joy in it not matter who you are. Just a guess. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Here’s something weird, as far as being disgusted or working through judgement… I can’t wrap my head around how women are attracted to men. I’ve contemplated it numerous times. I get nowhere. Men to woman & woman to woman, I get, but woman to men… utter mystery. It never bothers me or feels discordant though and I suspect it’s because while I’m not attracted to men and can’t really relate there, I do love em a bunch. It’s easy to see how much we’re actually the same. Also there’s always emotional guidance. Leave room for the possibility it’s the self referential thought, such as “I feel disgusted” that doesn’t resonate. I mean, maybe what you feel like is love… and a certain thought or perspective feels disgusting, or is met with the guidance of hate or what have you. Same for releasing my judgment. Maybe it’s the ‘my’ that feels more off. Almost seems like that would imply something about you. @Mandy It’s still seems really funny that for months apparently you thought I was female. Even mentioning having kids you thought it was with a female partner as a female. 😂 Still cracks me up. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) Hmm, I'm straight not bi, but I see how attractive men would be attractive to women. I can't see how most people are attracted to most people though, male or female. Edited November 9, 2023 by Devin Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 @Phil I thought that that heart in the hand avatar was so badass and cool. Being on the forum made me really uncomfortable at the start, and then finding out you were not the cool level headed Mom presence holding it together was sorta 😬 but also the perfect set up for the punchline. 😂 Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 men being attracted to men makes more sense to me than women to men. it's just such an insane gamble, and the whole hetero guy thing in general, that i don't get being into. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 6 minutes ago, Devin said: Hmm, I'm straight not bi, but I see how attractive men would be attractive to women. I can't see how most people are attracted to most people though, male or female. yer such a basic bitch (JK ok, relax) Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Jonas Long said: yer such a basic bitch (JK ok, relax) Dude's sexy, don't hate. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Devin said: Dude's sexy, don't hate. not my type. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blessed2 Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Jonas Long said: not my type. Who's your type? Quote Mention There must be an effortless way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Blessed2 said: Who's your type? hardly anyone, male-wise. though technically speaking i'm not completely hetero. Edited November 9, 2023 by Jonas Long Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 35 minutes ago, Phil said: I can’t wrap my head around how women are attracted to men. I think that women aren’t really attracted to how men look per se.. perhaps when they are younger - but even then it’s always the “pretty” boys they are attracted to.. not someone hairy and “lumberjack-y” Female body is attractive to both males and females, it is aesthetically more “clean” looking, smooth, soft, not hairy lol, etc. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 42 minutes ago, Phil said: Here’s something weird, as far as being disgusted or working through judgement… I can’t wrap my head around how women are attracted to men. I’ve contemplated it numerous times. I get nowhere. Men to woman & woman to woman, I get, but woman to men… utter mystery. It never bothers me or feels discordant though and I suspect it’s because while I’m not attracted to men and can’t really relate there, I do love em a bunch. It’s easy to see how much we’re actually the same. Also there’s always emotional guidance. Leave room for the possibility it’s the self referential thought, such as “I feel disgusted” that doesn’t resonate. I mean, maybe what you feel like is love… and a certain thought or perspective feels disgusting, or is met with the guidance of hate or what have you. Same for releasing my judgment. Maybe it’s the ‘my’ that feels more off. Almost seems like that would imply something about you. @Mandy It’s still seems really funny that for months apparently you thought I was female. Even mentioning having kids you thought it was with a female partner as a female. 😂 Still cracks me up. It's a fucking miracle dude. 😂 Maybe the statue of the guy sitting down thinking was actually contemplating the same subject as you. Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 10 minutes ago, Rose said: Female body is attractive to both males and females, it is aesthetically more “clean” looking, smooth, soft, not hairy lol, etc. It's unique depending on the girl. I once met a girl who was super into hairy guys to the point where I was like woah chill... Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 24 minutes ago, Orb said: It's unique depending on the girl. I once met a girl who was super into hairy guys to the point where I was like woah chill... I also like hairy dudes, but it’s a different kind of like. What’s attractive about them is that they appear masculine. Now if you dress up a hairy dude in thongs and leather high heel boots I would be disgusted - and I am pretty sure your friend would be too. While you can dress a pretty girl in pretty much anything and she would still be attractive. Edited November 9, 2023 by Rose Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 4 hours ago, Mandy said: I don't know. It's more interesting and fun to watch Brad Mondo do hair stuff than some random woman for most of the population. It's novel and different and intentionally over the top. People I've met in real life that are gay are nothing like that, they're often very quiet and reserved. I'd rather watch Rajiv Surendra or Preppy Kitchen than Martha Stewart because when I compare myself with her I always come up short. But with Rajiv I don't do that, he's just plain delightful and inspiring . It celebrates a freedom that loving beauty or beautiful things or housekeeping or baking, or etc, isn't just for women and isn't old fashioned or boring. That's there's joy in it not matter who you are. Just a guess. Yes, in that way I get it, it’s like this guy: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzTbt4Jrb1L/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== But I was talking about in night clubs, the overly sexual dancing/clothing, from what I saw gay night clubs/bars are very sexually open. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 10, 2023 Share Posted November 10, 2023 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Rose said: But I was talking about in night clubs, the overly sexual dancing/clothing, from what I saw gay night clubs/bars are very sexually open. Lol, yes that is the reason they exist, and are known to be what they are. That way, you don't have to go if you're not down with it. Edited November 10, 2023 by Jonas Long Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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