Alexander Posted November 9, 2023 Author Share Posted November 9, 2023 1 minute ago, Jonas Long said: Now you know how women feel, and why they end up hating men sometimes. Yeah I guess it's true.Thanks for understanding me . Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: Now you know how women feel, and why they end up hating men sometimes. I think anyone feels this way when they are being hit on by people they don’t find attractive/are repulsed by - depending on the degree of repulsion/level of hitting. No woman would get annoyed if an attractive to her man was hitting on her. Edited November 9, 2023 by Rose Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Rose said: I think anyone feels this way when they are being hit on by people they don’t find attractive/are repulsed by. No woman would get annoyed if an attractive for them men were hitting on them. Guys don't tend to think about it this way though. They feel entitled to hit on any woman under any circumstances, but get upset if they are hit on by a gay guy. Edited November 9, 2023 by Jonas Long Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: Guys don't tend to think about it this way though. They feel entitled to hit on any woman under any circumstances, but get upset if they are hit on by a gay guy. I don’t think there is anything wrong for men to try their chances. Otherwise you get a bunch of soy boys. Edited November 9, 2023 by Rose Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Jesus, wtf is going on with this forum today? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 1 hour ago, Rose said: As a woman, I also find gay men that are feminine “uncomfortable”. I’ve been to a gay club, I’ve seen gay men wear short skirts, heels, makeup and twerk. It bugged me to see men in that form, made “men” in general less attractive to me and I feel it also made me a bit suspicious that all men could be secretly gay/have that side to them but hide it away. Weirdly, I don’t have the same feeling for very butch lesbians. So highly masculine females are ok for me, but highly feminine males are a bit gross for me. See @Devin? Hetero folks are so bothered that it's more for their sake that establishments give these fragile souls a warning before they subject themselves to some gay shit. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 1 minute ago, Jonas Long said: See @Devin? Hetero folks are so bothered that it's more for their sake that establishments give these fragile souls a warning before they subject themselves to some gay shit. Would you go to a show where you watch people vomiting and sh**ing on each other? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Rose said: Would you go to a show where you watch people vomiting and sh**ing on each other? Nice comparison. My point was explaining to Devin why gay bars advertise themselves as such. He was saying they shouldn't be. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Jonas Long said: Nice comparison. My point was explaining to Devin why gay bars advertise themselves as such. He was saying they shouldn't be. I am making it absurd on purpose. People have their preferences, doesn’t make them fragile. No need to call them names or make anyone like what you like. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 4 minutes ago, Rose said: I am making it absurd on purpose. People have their preferences, doesn’t make them fragile. No need to call them names or make anyone like what you like. Oh sorry. I guess you just grossed me out a bit, don't take it personally. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 13 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: See @Devin? Hetero folks are so bothered that it's more for their sake that establishments give these fragile souls a warning before they subject themselves to some gay shit. I still don't think that has to do with gay, I wouldn't want to be at a bar with a woman doing that either. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 Just now, Devin said: I still don't think that has to do with gay, I wouldn't want to be at a bar with a woman doing that either. You might wanna just stay home, honestly. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 9 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: Oh sorry. I guess you just grossed me out a bit, don't take it personally. No worries, I do often annoy people Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 33 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: You might wanna just stay home, honestly. Sounds like Alexander probably wasn't at a friendly bar and he still gets hit on. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 2 hours ago, Rose said: As a woman, I also find gay men that are feminine “uncomfortable”. I’ve been to a gay club, I’ve seen gay men wear short skirts, heels, makeup and twerk. It bugged me to see men in that form, made “men” in general less attractive to me and I feel it also made me a bit suspicious that all men could be secretly gay/have that side to them but hide it away. Weirdly, I don’t have the same feeling for very butch lesbians. So highly masculine females are ok for me, but highly feminine males are a bit gross for me. Perhaps because what you perceive as feminine is associated with shame. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Devin said: Sounds like Alexander probably wasn't at a friendly bar and he still gets hit on. And wasn't happy about it. Look a gay bar is just like a biker bar or a sports bar. People with similar interests or inclinations like to get together. And obviously at the time they came about it was a necessity that gay dudes know where they are allowed to cut loose and be themselves. Even now, its just easier, if you are gay and want to hook up or just relax around others you can be totally yourself around. It's like dating sites,it's just easiest because you know for a fact everyone there is trying to date. It's a given, you don't have to sift through those who dont. Edited November 9, 2023 by Jonas Long Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Mandy said: Perhaps because what you perceive as feminine is associated with shame. It could be. There are certain aspects of feminine that I consider stupid/empty/uninteresting. With some gay men, it’s even the way they talk - kind of like how that valley girl talk is annoying. I also get annoyed because I feel they focus too much on these expression, exaggerate them to extreme, and it seems that feminine sexual expression is a big part of their identity. I think it goes back to the fact that I have an “intellectual ego” and “stupid behaviour” annoys me. Edited November 9, 2023 by Rose Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 10 minutes ago, Rose said: I also get annoyed because I feel they focus too much on these expression, exaggerate them to extreme, and it seems that feminine sexual expression is a big part of their identity. I think the exaggeration is a big entertainment thing right now, it sells. 🤷♀️ It doesn't really have anything to do with homosexuality, but more to do with entertainment, imo. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 6 minutes ago, Mandy said: it sells Why do you think it sells? I don’t see anything entertaining in it. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted November 9, 2023 Share Posted November 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Rose said: Why do you think it sells? I don’t see anything entertaining in it. I don't see anything entertaining in comic book movies, but most of the world disagrees with me. What are you gonna do. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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