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This book does a really good job of outlining the Feminine and how the Feminine can benefit from integrating some Masculine. If you're too Masculine, you need to integrate some of the Feminine as outlined in this book. This book is not only for girls. Everyone could benefit from this book.

"The Curse of The Good Girl" by Rachel Simmons. This is an audiobook version.

https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Curse-of-the-Good-Girl-Audiobook/B002V1NSIC

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8 hours ago, Devin said:

sure would like to know how you all come up with that

 

Via what makes sense.

 

8 hours ago, Devin said:

Start another thread on that?

 

Sure, if you have any questions or something you want to share, make a thread.

 

8 hours ago, Devin said:

Earlier you said Paul was a quack, do you know he wrote 90% of the new testament?

 

Yeah, Paul probably came up with a lot of it.

 

There must be an effortless way.

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22 hours ago, Devin said:

 

 

Obviously men and women can be friends. Like Mandy mentioned earlier, plenty of women are friends with gay men etc.

 

Also would you not friends with the 70 year old lady feeding the birds in the park?

 

How about the woman/man you do not deem physically attractive?

 

But when you ask "can men and women be just friends" (notice the word "just" in that question btw) it seems that what people assume "man" or "woman" to be is something you want to or are supposed to hook up with.

 

 

There must be an effortless way.

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1 hour ago, Devin said:

 

 

 

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/

 

 

 

 

 

Women are socially conditioned to give pre established responses to these questions. It's just like how men are allowed to be promiscuous and women aren't. 

 

 

 

 

 

Why insist on so many limitations in a limitless universe? 

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29 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

Why insist on so many limitations in a limitless universe? 

Why have you kept eating? Why not stop for 6 months? Quit believing in limitations in a limitless universe.

 

Why keep breathing? Drinking water. Why not just eat whatever you want, why not just take whatever you want, do whatever you want? Quit believing in limits. Why do you always wear clothes in public, why do you always pay for gas?

 

They're not limits on the universe. Patterns are not limits, they're just patterns, it doesn't mean there's not anomalies, it's just stating the clear pattern.

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14 minutes ago, Devin said:

Why have you kept eating? Why not stop for 6 months? Quit believing in limitations in a limitless universe.

 

Why keep breathing? Drinking water. Why not just eat whatever you want, why not just take whatever you want, do whatever you want? Quit believing in limits. Why do you always wear clothes in public, why do you always pay for gas?

 

They're not limits on the universe. Patterns are not limits, they're just patterns, it doesn't mean there's not anomalies, it's just stating the clear pattern.

why is it so important for you to state this "pattern" so emphatically here?

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17 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

what lies?

 

On 9/30/2023 at 5:03 PM, Blessed2 said:

 

This is total nonsense.

 

Every cell in your body feels that it is nonsense.

 

It is not what you want and it is not what you are.

 

 

Women literally just be chilling and men keep coming up with nonsense.

 

 

This is basically incel rhetoric. Not judging, I know shit can be hard. But this is just propaganda / manipulation / ideology / thought-attachment and every cell in your body can feel it.

 

 

On 10/1/2023 at 7:01 AM, Mandy said:

There aren't sissys, there isn't toughness, there's just alignment or aversion in the moment. You have to know how aversion feels to know how alignment feels. 

 

 

 

just look at this hipocracy, you say being more feminine is more attractive "It was about allowing yourself to embody more "feminine" qualities, and becoming more appealing that way"

 

and then say every woman is different so it's a blind guessing match and waste of time to be this way or that way"Don't extrapolate anything extra when one person doesn't want to be with you.  It's one person not feelin it with one person, nothing else, it doesn't mean you're "too blank" or "not enough" blank.  This is a blind guessing game that only serves to inhibit you from being authentic.  Authenticity is attractive, not trying to seem "masculine" or seem anything.  Be the least like what is expected of you.  Be surprising.  Be fucking different.  don't try and be brad pitt."

 

Even in just that one post it's full of hypocracy

 

"Authenticity is attractive, not trying to seem "masculine" or seem anything."

Then

"Be the least like what is expected of you.  Be surprising.  Be fucking different."

 

 

you all are just regurgitating airy fairy sentiments with no thought.

 

 

On 10/1/2023 at 7:42 PM, Jonas Long said:

STOP LISTENING TO PICKUP ARTISTS 

it's all bullshit, like ALL of it.

 

On 10/2/2023 at 10:03 AM, Jonas Long said:

No, the reason weirdos like me often do "better" with women is because we are oblivious to all this bullshit conceptualizing about "high value" "alpha" "sissy" etc.  It really is a total waste and counterproductive to get caught up in.  

 

On 10/2/2023 at 11:14 AM, Jonas Long said:

It was about allowing yourself to embody more "feminine" qualities, and becoming more appealing that way.  Basically the antithesis to the subject of this thread, which you agreed with. 

 

On 10/2/2023 at 11:28 AM, Jonas Long said:

Don't extrapolate anything extra when one person doesn't want to be with you.  It's one person not feelin it with one person, nothing else, it doesn't mean you're "too blank" or "not enough" blank.  This is a blind guessing game that only serves to inhibit you from being authentic.  Authenticity is attractive, not trying to seem "masculine" or seem anything.  Be the least like what is expected of you.  Be surprising.  Be fucking different.  don't try and be brad pitt.

 

 

You all " it's just that you're either right for eacother or not"

 

Pickup " you should work on confidence and physique"

 

You all "NOOOOO!! Quit generalizing women!!! Infinity!!!"

 

Pickup " uhh, if there's no limits then why is it wrong to work on confidence and physique?"

 

You all " there are no people!!!"

 

Pickup " but you just said two people find alignment with eachother?"

 

You all " there is no me!"

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14 minutes ago, Devin said:

 

 

 

 

 

just look at this hipocracy, you say being more feminine is more attractive "It was about allowing yourself to embody more "feminine" qualities, and becoming more appealing that way"

 

and then say every woman is different so it's a blind guessing match and waste of time to be this way or that way"Don't extrapolate anything extra when one person doesn't want to be with you.  It's one person not feelin it with one person, nothing else, it doesn't mean you're "too blank" or "not enough" blank.  This is a blind guessing game that only serves to inhibit you from being authentic.  Authenticity is attractive, not trying to seem "masculine" or seem anything.  Be the least like what is expected of you.  Be surprising.  Be fucking different.  don't try and be brad pitt."

 

Even in just that one post it's full of hypocracy

 

"Authenticity is attractive, not trying to seem "masculine" or seem anything."

Then

"Be the least like what is expected of you.  Be surprising.  Be fucking different."

 

 

you all are just regurgitating airy fairy sentiments with no thought.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You all " it's just that you're either right for eacother or not"

 

Pickup " you should work on confidence and physique"

 

You all "NOOOOO!! Quit generalizing women!!! Infinity!!!"

 

Pickup " uhh, if there's no limits then why is it wrong to work on confidence and physique?"

 

You all " there are no people!!!"

 

Pickup " but you just said two people find alignment with eachother?"

 

You all " there is no me!"

there is nothing wrong with working on confidence and physique.  nobody said there was.  

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8 minutes ago, Devin said:

you all are just regurgitating airy fairy sentiments with no thought.

 

There is no such thing as a "true thought".

 

None of this is about being right or knowing the truth.

 

It's about how you feel.

 

And you only ever feel now.

 

It's all about how you feel now.

 

Feeling is self-evident.

 

 

Figuring out women and trying to be attractive to women etc etc. Is nonsense. Not being in your senses. Not listening the guidance.

 

The truth is, we are all already married and closer still. Literally infinite ever-expanding orgasm of perfect intimacy and unconditional love. That's You. That's what feeling is pointing to.

 

Hypocrisy, men and women in denial, attraction tactics, relationships, marriages, etc etc. is just clouding of that Eternal Super Orgasmic Disney Love.

 

 

There must be an effortless way.

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