Seductive Coitus - my feminine feelings

[Reena]

5 minutes ago, Reena said:

Remember to do this in a healthy consensual manner and not in a way that feels degrading or immoral, unethical. 

 

An example of unhealthy sexual behavior is this - let's say you want a healthy dose of masculine domination during sex from your partner. You want him to hold you, spank you. But only that much. 

Let's say he says that he will bring his friends over. This was not appropriate because you never hinted at such things. 

So it's disrespectful of him to mention something that doesn't vibe with your sexual instinct. 

 

Remember this one golden rule - 

A man who deeply cares and loves you sexually in a respectful manner will study your sexual instincts and intuit your desire on his own without even needing you to tell him yet if he is uncertain about any sexual activity or fetish or act, he will ask your permission beforehand and consider your consent beforehand, especially if the act involves any kind of possibility of personal injury. So if he wants to choke you or spank you, then he will ask if you're going to be okay with it. If he doesn't, then he is being an asshole.

 

[Reena]

 

In Seductive Coitus, there's these elements that make the sex very powerful and greatly  increases bonding. Very addictive bonding. 

 

- ownership 

- deep chemistry 

- possessiveness 

- belongingness 

- seduction

- control 

-capture

-captivity 

 

 

 

 

Remember to do this in a healthy consensual manner and not in a way that feels degrading or immoral, unethical. 

 

 

An example of unhealthy sexual behavior is this - let's say you want a healthy dose of masculine domination during sex from your partner. You want him to hold you, spank you. But only that much. 

Let's say he says that he will bring his friends over. This was not appropriate because you never hinted at such things. 

So it's disrespectful of him to mention something that doesn't vibe with your sexual instinct. 

 

Remember this one golden rule - 

A man who deeply cares and loves you sexually in a respectful manner will study your sexual instincts and intuit your desire on his own without even needing you to tell him yet if he is uncertain about any sexual activity or fetish or act, he will ask your permission beforehand and consider your consent beforehand, especially if the act involves any kind of possibility of personal injury. So if he wants to choke you or spank you, then he will ask if you're going to be okay with it. If he doesn't, then he is being an asshole.

 

 

 

[Reena]

 

Also there's a popular practice in BDSM, it's called safe words. When you use a safe word during the act of sex, he should immediately stop hurting you. 

If he doesn't stop, he is not being respectful to you. 

 

 

Generally lovers use satin blindfold, ropes, fingers and hands for spanking, choking, hot wax, chocolate etc and safe words to practice BDSM in a safe loving respectful manner. 

 

If he doesn't treat you like a queen in bed, then it's an indication that he is not very respecting of the Female gender

 

Edited November 5, 2023 by Reena

[Reena]

abracadabra

[Reena]

Kaleeghata or darkness. 

Stimulation of inner energy. To fight enemy. Bad forces. 

Liberated mind. Balanced mind. 

Protection sigil. 

Protective aura. That deals with Jinnaat. 

This is so funny. 

 

Edited November 5, 2023 by Reena

[Reena]

Supernatural stimulation. Ferocity stimulation. 

Edited November 5, 2023 by Reena

[Reena]

Basically it leads to narcissistic love. 

[Reena]

Supernatural stimulation is daivya shakti. 

 

[Reena]

I don't like to badmouth people but some people love to badmouth me? 

 

[Reena]

She did not feel loved

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That was my recurrent thought. 

 

[Reena]

 

Female sexuality is very different from what men imagine it to be. Women aren't too desperate for sex or connection as much as men are. Men are hungry in the moment and don't like to think long term. In such a sense, a woman sometimes serves as a temporary conquest for a man, something that is satisfying to his manhood, the feeling that he conquered a woman's heart or that he can dominate her pussy, even if it's for one night, that's very passionate, horny, exhilarating to a man, don't blame him, men are born that way that they can't pass up an opportunity for sex, especially if they see some meat in this opportunity. He might regret it later or simply forget that he spent a night with her, he is not going to be traumatized by that because men in general take it easy with romance and don't invest heavily emotionally early on at least on the first night/date or a couple of nights/dates. It takes time for a man's heart to be fully tied to a woman of his liking irrespective of how gorgeous seductive or desirable that woman might be. Men just don't fall head over heels at least emotionally and reserve a part of themselves for a really long time until they finally commit to the woman they are regularly sleeping with. During this period the man goes through a lot of strife unsure of his personal emotions for the woman he is courting, he enjoys the sex a lot and that's obvious, yet he still doesn't fall for the woman. That is the woman isn't able to capture his masculinity fully. Sex is not enough to get a man's heart. He might enjoy the sex thoroughly to his heart's content yet emotionally he finds himself not as attached as the woman is to him. Sometimes men develop what's known as post nut clarity, that is he realizes that he is only sexually attracted to the easily available woman yet he doesn't see her as a long term partner, perhaps he is also losing interest over time and doesn't feel like he wants to solidify the relationship with a ring or arrangements for living together. This is the phase where he finally dumps the woman, leaving her brokenhearted. He doesn't experience much guilt because he is unable to fully grasp the level of attachment, vulnerability and emotional investment she had in the relationship with him. He simply moves on like a wind without ever understanding the depth of her sincerity and commitment she had for him. Then he moves on to the next woman that he is attracted to, repeating these patterns in his life over and over until he exhausts his own chances of getting a new woman. It's like his own carousel ride. Men don't do this on purpose. They simply don't understand how to navigate their own sexuality safely  and get too adventurous with it. 

Now with regard to women in the same situation, some women can easily handle casual relationships. For women who are deeper, sentimental and emotional, this is a tough task. They sleep with a guy, they fall in love with him rapidly. It's the Oxytocin thing. Just the way women feel when they become mothers, they develop protective feelings for their baby, the same way a woman develops a variety of emotions for the man she is sleeping with. The more number of times she sleeps with him, the deeper she is slipping into a trance with him. Now she can experience the post nut clarity too, but probably after a long ass time in the relationship when she had enough of the dick dose. Some women betray their boyfriends at this stage. But initially a woman can fall head over heels. The so called honeymoon phase. In this phase she is a bit sensitive and delicate. She places her heart at his feet. She doesn't rationalize the relationship, her judgement flies out of the window. She literally is hook line and sinker into that guy. This is both hormonal and emotional. Her mind constantly thinks of him, her body yields to his advances, her heart is deeply invested firmly into his grip. He sounds like the dream man even if he might not have done anything impressive to win her. She is simply besotted. Every text message from him and her heart begins to flutter with joy. Also women are programmed in such a way that they organically feel protected with the guy they are sleeping with. She will hug him or expect him to protect her physically when she needs it. It's just how women are. These feelings are automatically induced in the woman. The man who sleeps with her is important to her. In the back of her mind, her trust level for him is much higher. She is probably thinking in her head that this relationship is valuable. As women we aren't programmed to chase men. Men are designed by nature to chase women. So in a way men are foxes and women are rabbits. This tendency is a unique disadvantage. We aren't programmed to look or hunt for a man. It doesn't come naturally to us. But we are programmed as a part of our reproductive survival to save whatever we have. So the onus of saving a marriage falls on a woman. A woman knows that with age her chances are going to decline. We don't date multiple men. We put all our eggs in the same basket. That is, we pin our hopes, desires, attachment and fantasies on the man we sleep with. As a result, a woman is heavily emotionally invested in the guy and she is literally sleeping and breathing him. She is also skeptical of his commitment. She is constantly scanning to look for signs of his attachment and loyalty. If she doesn't receive a text from him, her fears and insecurities come up and she is desperate to know how deep the guy is into her. She is fuming inside with worry. She wants to know that she is with the right man. She is not interested in many men. She is simply interested in the right man, who will be right to her in her eyes. He can even be a criminal but he should appear right in her eyes, as long as he is the "right" in her eyes and heart, it doesn't matter who and what he is. Or what he does. Now if this man pulls away during the honeymoon phase, she feels like a personal failure at securing the man she fell for. She feels awful, confused, sad and even traumatized that he simply dumped her. To be dumped by a man after having slept with him feels like a total disaster to her. Because she was deeply emotionally invested. She learns that men can't be trusted even if she were to try her best to impress them. Now it's up to the next man she meets, if he is a committed type of a guy, then her life is smooth sailing, because women generally look for settlement, we are traditionally designed to set up a home. We can't be jumping from men to men and even if we do, we don't feel great about it. So this is how it works for women. They want serious commitment and dedication from a man and not feel like they are going to be his next piece of meat. 

I think for a woman the biggest disaster is to fall for a man, sleep with him and then realize later that he is not compatible with her intellectually and emotionally. That his thoughts and beliefs and opinion on love are different from hers. This can feel like a setback. Just the feeling that she fell for the wrong man can feel like a big mistake and a huge regret having slept with him. So emotional and mental and intellectual compatibility is an absolute must before a woman gives her heart to a man. It's not like buying bread or toilet tissue. It's someone's heart and emotions that don't deserve to be played with. 

 

So I guess a guy shouldn't randomly propose a relationship offer to a woman without even getting to know her fully or without even checking compatibility with her. There's no point in abandoning, dumping and rejecting her, breaking her heart midway after leading her on. It hurts her really badly. 

 

Better not start something that you can never finish 

 

 

[Reena]

I don't know if love is a form of entertainment or if it's supposed to be the fuel for life. 

[Reena]

The idea of romance and how it has completely dominated my life. 

 

[Reena]

I don't think a guy in real life would be able to satisfy me the way I want to be satisfied sexually and romantically. 

So at the moment, sexual fantasies are the only way to cope. 

 

[Reena]

I think I have finally figured what I exactly want. 

I want strong loving sexy masculine energy in my life.. 

SLSME - strong loving sexy masculine energy 

 

 

[Reena]

I always aspired to be sexually confident and to me this woman is so sexually confident all around. I wish I could attain that kind of sexual confidence some day. Where I can feel comfortable and confident in my sexuality. Every time I try to do that, my shyness takes over really badly. 

She is wearing a simple Indian dress but in such a sexy manner. It's not the dress. It's the confidence in her personality that makes her femininity so pleasing and sexy. 

First time I saw something that looks so pleasantly feminine and sexy. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Reena

[Reena]

I think the female sexuality component is more of an attitude rather than the dress. If I had to wear a dress to exude my inner sexiness it would be this. 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited December 10, 2023 by Reena

[Reena]

But it's her way of posing that makes her sexy. The dress just complements her inner attitude. 

I want to be that way. 

[Reena]

 

 

And I just wanna focus on anything I can do to lift myself up. 

 

[Reena]

Maybe what men and women think of relationships are two different things. 

Maybe I don't fit into it. I'm besotted with insecurities. 

I'm immature I know. But I'm not as immature as some other people are.