ConsciousDreamer666

This advice does not apply to all males, but a lot of this advice is needed for a lot of young males out there. I see a lot of young scheming all types of techniques and perspectives in how to get the most sex experiences possible and attract as many women as possible. I also see this men have in common that is everything is always about them, and about critizing the women or putting them at a place of a pure object to use and take advantage of. A lot of them also seem to have this kind of fantasy or mind attitude of trying to have sex to feel good about themselves or feel "macho". All of this perspective will hurt you, (and is hurting you, although you can not see it). This type of understanding sex and women is deeply toxic and you are making a big mistake. I suspect this type of perspective comes from several places, one big of them probably is religious background, and the damage this religions have produced on society and the psyche on a fundamental level. As a male, if you want to really be successful in life, what you want is to change completely this focus and let all of this become about her. Only have sex FOR THEM. Only have sex for them (women) to have actually a great experience and one that they will be come out of it empowered, not feeling used or like they were taken advantage them. Forget completely about the whole "what about me??" Motto. Just forget about trying to have sex or casual success with Women for your sexual achievements. This is sick and this is not what a Powerful men is. Go have sex only for her. Only if she will benefit from it. If not, don't have any interest on sex. If you have a girlfriend, is the same. Only have sex when she she really wants it and FOR her. If for some time or because of certain circumstances is better she does not have sex, absolutely you won't want to have sex. Because remember, Sex is a biological process, is not something you as a male build an identity around it like a compulsive creature. You should be arriving for creating and cultivating acts that are beyond survival compulsory acts. Not trying to use sex as a way to fill your traumas and entangle yourself more in the dream, in physical identification, and in fake love mechanisms of the ego .

All beings are being held inside of me. Right now. This is the biggest, clear and most intense love that can exist.... But it can not be thought, only experienced, only Be it... Something must open up, very intensely. I don't know if call it perception, energy, or what....but if that opens, activates, very intensely...then oh my god... then everything is accesible, right here. And the love never moves...is right here, always held inside your consciousness.... Is crazy. Eternal, indestructible, unmoving. A bliss and a silence that can not be handled by the ego mind... 🙏😵‍💫💥

sounds some 'inner engineering' amazing work. Thanks for sharing it...

If there is no self, Reality its an Infinite Bubble of Love 🎯😇

fucking gaslighting here you guys are playing here. Always one is the fucking dark one, others are the good ones. THE FUCK???. Gtfo man aint no time for this manipulative gaslighting subtle bullying. Not going to take this from nobody. I See Your Games. I see them so fucking easily.

Mandy, let me tell you something. Do not project whatever you want Reality to Be, TO ME. I am done with bullies that want to tell me that they are right, that EVERYONE in reality is LIGHT, and I am the darkness/the bad one. Fuck you. (With Love, but honestly...). I´m done with you guys games. Of course, it's always me who is the 'bad/dark'. I´m guilty because I am doing the bad judgments towards people/women, ITS NEVER THEM right? Other people/women are fucking perfect, im the bad one hahahah you guys have some fucking balls. Fuck you. I already believed that shit in the past. I fell for that game in the past. AINT FALLING NOW!! I KNOW I AM LIGHT!!!! I´m done with this. I am pure fucking Light, do not tell me I´m the bad one here. Gtfo. It's sad that I have to use this language but this shit gets me emotional. Do not play the 'I/We are Light, you are Darkness' game. No sir, I am Light, you are Darkness because of trying to project that twisted judgment game on to me. Here You Go: 💙 And I send you this because I´m conscious of this. Are you going to stop projecting your Karma on to me? Because I´m telling you, I am not FUCKING EATING IT. 😉 Send whatever you want. Only Light here baby. 👆

@Mandy I feel That's very true and very interesting that insight. The problem is, 99.5% of women are like that Lmao. So when men start to get into the game of attracting, they either succumb to play by the raw rules that most people are playing, or either have integrity and don't go anywhere. Because unicorns are hard to find. And when they appear, you just probably sabotage it and lose it because you are still playing the old paradigm.

For Starters, I can guarantee you that women don't find attractive men that ask themselves "Am I worthy of beautiful women?" So start by removing any trace of weakness, self-comparison, self-value, ...etc. It can be daunting because some of us have picked up that low energy and dark thoughts as Karma to resolve... But as a general rule, if you want to play the game, play by the rules. Become a strong attractive men. You are right being skeptic about the Disney-like advice that its going on in this topic... You just have to go out some Friday/Satuday night to some clubs and look to what kind of men the top attractive women are with. That will give all the answers you seek. The question is do you want to swallow the bitter pill or not. This attraction stuff its no Romantic or Love Movie, it's pure survival, pure jungle, pure seeking of who is the best value male/women that can the other genre find for themselves. Any thing else its people romantizing the jungle game. Love can only be found within, outside it's just survival game. If you want to date a model, Start by hitting the gym HARD for starters.

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Nothing, I was just kidding 💙🙏

My experience contradict your denial, but thanks for the help anyway 💙

Inspired on this magical album 🌠🙏 Now I got the good vibes on the skin 🫦

I´m not sure I understand you. What I mean is, there has always been beliefs or thoughts that are very dark about certain things and I have believed, attach myself to them. You say that those thoughts/beliefs were created because of trauma? Since I wouldn't say I had an abusive or very negative upbringing, I would say they are not because of trauma but because of Assigned Karma, stuff that God just creates to make the illusion 'spicy' so to speak, so there is a motivation to Awaken and realize that all of those thoughts were not true and that would feel very good.

I have no fucking clue

www wait what??

I guess the illusion of separation or differences/dualities

@Someone here Money matters but there are a lot of factors. Think about it. When you see a girl that is attractive to you, you don't think in terms of 'She is worthy of my attraction to her' or 'She isn't worthy of my attraction to her'. You just see what she is/has (relatively speaking, within the survival game). In the same way Women think in the same way. All of this game, the "love"/relationship/attraction/sex, etc...It's not personal. Just survival chimp stuff. Do what the female Chimp its attracted to and she will be interested. Don´t do it and she won't care at all. The same with males.

I guess you could call it like that.

@Someone here The survival game of attraction/women its not about worthiness, its about what you bring to the table.

But sadhguru says there is a such a thing as a 'assigned karma' to this lifetime. That does make sense to me. See, even if my current conditioning could be due to child hood trauma or something like that, not everyone reacts the same to trauma. Some people might react in a such a way and others in other way. In my case, I have gone over and over to the past and it makes sense to me that I can not pinpoint anything done to me as the 'cause' of my conditionings/beliefs/energy stuckness, It makes sense to me more than I just created this as a 'juice' for this illusion, it there wasn't trauma or beliefs about myself, then the illusion would disappear. So basically what I´m trying to say is that all of this is my responsibility, I´m creating this as a part of the movie, all is part of my Infinite Power and Will, even 'apparent suffering' or 'apparent limitation'.

@Phil mm, that's interesting You mean I might be projecting the subconscious guilt by saying 'This is happening to me because of my Karma' ?

it's not a state of consciousness. I basically stopped breathing and did a body lock trick, 30-40% of time that I do it, I disappear from existence. Total ego-death

I know you guys say 'don't get too attached to experiences' but recently 'I' have experienced some certain 'states' of consciousness beyond explanation. The feeling of completely completely disappearing as a 'something', Experience completely disappears, and I´m nothing, I´m gone, I´m no longer 'there' This is the best feeling in the world, although it's not a feeling. Its the end of relative feelings and experiences, the end of things happening to a self 😂

The thing is I like it a lot. But I now, deep down its all a fake, I guess they don´t truly mean it and they just do it for money probably. It's all delusion of my ego, my karma.

I´ve found that seeing that your suffering is your 'assigned karma' helps a lot in accepting it. See your suffering as the fuel that has been created for you in order to get to liberation Over indulging in porn sucks, I know how that feels. But im sure it's not that bad, at least probably you are not into hot brats taking your money and humiliating you harshly for it as me. 🤣