How to deal with my hatred of women

[Phil]

23 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

Why not just say that then?  Why mess around with all this stuff about how the assumption of women "are", which traits "they" generally possess, etc.? 

That ‘answer’ is really only ‘found’ with deep introspection as ‘it’ isn’t a reason. No one can really answer that ‘for you’. 

 

[Phil]

13 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

This:

is a refrence to separate selves. Men & women. Someone who would be ackowledging emotions. Someone who is more comfortable acknowledging (wtf does that mean?) fear, insecurity etc.

It’s not a reference to separate selves. This is appearance. This is not a screen, there’s no electricity, no internet, no men, no woman, This has no inherent cares or concerns about that this is ‘surface only’ appearance. 

[Jonas Long]

5 minutes ago, Phil said:

That ‘answer’ is really only ‘found’ with deep introspection as ‘it’ isn’t a reason. No one can really answer that ‘for you’. 

 

Thought so.  I know then. 

[Phil]

16 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

Thought so.  I know then. 

No you don’t. 

[Mandy]

No Woman, No Cry? 

[Jonas Long]

5 minutes ago, Phil said:

No you don’t. 

There's no you to know that I don't. 

[Phil]

@Jonas Long

No on said there is. 

[Jonas Long]

"Phil said..."

13 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Jonas Long

No on said 

Phil=off

[Phil]

@Jonas Long

Exactly. There is no you which knows. You don’t know, like unicorns don’t know. 

[Jonas Long]

30 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Jonas Long

Exactly. There is no you which knows. You don’t know, like unicorns don’t know. 

Ok.  Question answered.

[Energia]

So I should hold the emotions but not the beliefs. How is that even possible. I do try to not identify with inferiority beliefs but it is hard. 

[Blessed2]

10 hours ago, Phil said:

It’s not a reference to separate selves.

 

Yes it is lol.

 

I'm all ears as to how to increase this quality of "being comfortable to acknowledge emotions" which women have more and men less.

 

[Mandy]

@Blessed2Women typically aren't shamed at all for saying that they are afraid to walk or drive somewhere, men typically are shamed or made fun of for saying things like that. Maybe it's not that way where you grew up?

[Reena]

@Blessed2 if a woman cries people sympathise with her and if a man cries, people generally take him for granted. As a result men are less likely to acknowledge defeat or bad feelings. Because it means feeling something that is forbidden from expression. 

 

[Phil]

6 hours ago, Energia said:

So I should hold the emotions but not the beliefs. How is that even possible. I do try to not identify with inferiority beliefs but it is hard. 

Emotions are how thoughts & beliefs (thoughts believed) feel. Intrinsic guidance. 🤍

 

2 hours ago, Blessed2 said:

 

Yes it is lol.

Santa Claus is coming.

 

2 hours ago, Blessed2 said:

 

I'm all ears as to how to increase this quality of "being comfortable to acknowledge emotions" which women have more and men less.

 

Resume daily meditation. 

 

[Reborn2]

Don't seek advice from this forum. They're all cringe. You as well though