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3 hours ago, Rose said:

I wouldn’t even go into “loving women” as some kind of special species altogether. If anything it even annoys me when men say something like that. It just shows me how immature and inexperienced they are.
 

Anyone who’s ever been in a long term relationship eventually sees there is not much difference between the two genders. 

Exactly, no need to make it seem like women are a different species, they love and enjoy what men do just the same, just do you.

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2 hours ago, WhiteOwl said:

Alright.. We will all stop loving women because it annoys you 🤪

I think many people have collected and/or complicated beliefs around the sex you are attracted to.. fear, shame, anger, insecurity etc etc. 
Loving them instead would be a new path. Like loving yourself instead of being angry at yourself. 
 

maybe you should try it towards “men” ☺️

 

Lol, no need to be passive aggressive. It’s unattractive as well.

 

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5 hours ago, Rose said:

I wouldn’t even go into “loving women” as some kind of special species altogether. If anything it even annoys me when men say something like that.

Zan is talking about a spirit/vibration. 

 

It is something that women feel but they don't know WHY they like the guy.

 

When a woman is within the presence of such man, they feel in a state of appreciation, protection, presence, care, deep respect that no other man can bring to her.

 

And it's authentic, it's coming from the heart of the man in a spiritual way. 

 

But it's a rare man... 

 

All man have this seed within them, but they have to develop it inside of themselves.

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15 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Zan is talking about a spirit/vibration. 

 

It is something that women feel but they don't know WHY they like the guy.

 

When a woman is within the presence of such man, they feel in a state of appreciation, protection, presence, care, deep respect that no other man can bring to her.

 

And it's authentic, it's coming from the heart of the man in a spiritual way. 

 

But it's a rare man... 

 

All man have this seed within them, but they have to develop it inside of themselves.

 

 

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@Devin Great video!

 

What I get from Zan is this:

  • He’s speaking about a spirit/vibration that you’re coming from regarding women/life. (As woo-woo as it seems)
  • He’s not teaching it just to men get laid, it’s different, it’s about loving women/feminine energy without agenda at first place. If you get laid, enter relationships because of the spirit he’s talking about, great! It will just amplify your love.

And to be honest, it’s not a book just about dating, relationships and women.

 

It’s a book about aliveness, love, creativity, metaphysical relating, poetry, appreciation.

 

It’s a book about healing and to the end, you will end up loving reality entirely.

 

So, it’s a spiritual way of living, appreciating yourself and women, beautiful communion, authentic communication and relating.

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6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

@Devin Great video!

 

What I get from Zan is this:

  • He’s speaking about a spirit/vibration that you’re coming from regarding women/life. (As woo-woo as it seems)
  • He’s not teaching it just to men get laid, it’s different, it’s about loving women/feminine energy without agenda at first place. If you get laid, enter relationships because of the spirit he’s talking about, great! It will just amplify your love.

And to be honest, it’s not a book just about dating, relationships and women.

 

It’s a book about aliveness, love, creativity, metaphysical relating, poetry, appreciation.

 

It’s a book about healing and to the end, you will end up loving reality entirely.

 

So, it’s a spiritual way of living, appreciating yourself and women, beautiful communion, authentic communication and relating.

Do you think you have ever known someone that is truly loving? The excerpt you shared seems a bit fairytailish to me, the knight in shining armor.

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2 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

@Devin I don't know, it's rare. I can speak for myself only.

 

But I want to be the first one to be and to know that.

 

 

Yeah. I just mean considering that the excerpt seems fairytailish to me, Knight in shining armor.

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@Devin I understand.

 

We are taught that to LOVE = being weak these days.

 

Also, I have a PUA background.

 

One thing I know: 

 

Your fullfilment and relationship with yourself, women and life will transform.

 

It's ilogical and counter-intuitive as the best things in life are.

 

Open your heart to that idea.

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3 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

@Devin I understand.

 

We are taught that to LOVE = being weak these days.

 

I don't mean that, I mean it's misleading to say the guys that attract the girls are ones that love with all their heart, it's just untrue, show me even one person that loves with all their heart, let alone all these supposed ladies men that are, ladies men are usually selfish jerks, albeit they initially ACT like they're the most loving, but they're the exact opposite. The more loving guys marry their first serious girlfriend and stay married.

 

Women are not attracted to men that love with all their heart, they're attracted to men period, very low bar actually, women put very little effort into discerning or qualifying men. And they rank by however their friend group ranks men, and all friend groups rank differently. At the end of the day all that analysis stuff is crap, they're attracted to men period, just go talk to girls and get to know them, if you like eachother ask her out, THAT'S IT, don't change yourself for women, grow yourself for yourself only.

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On 7/18/2023 at 6:47 AM, Devin said:

Nice guys don't have tons of girlfriends, assholes do

I agree with this. 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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19 minutes ago, Orb said:

@Devin Loving with all your heart doesn't mean being a doormat, just sayin. One of the greatest acts of love to someone is to be honest with them and set boudaries or whatever. 

All you have to be is not an asshole, anything so called more loving than that is fairytale stuff.

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