Question about the dreamboard

[Someone here]

@Phil please answer me this question after reflecting on it slowly without dismissing it or rotating around it with loa and Abraham Hicks jargon lol..

It is suggested that we should write whatever we want on the dreamboard..no matter how little or big it is ..

okay..

So it seems impossible for me to land on the moon in this lifetime..

it seems impossible that I'm gonna have sex with Lexi Belle (a pornstar that i like )..

it seems impossible that I will become a multi billionaire in this lifetime..etc

I did actually write these things on my board ..but I have erased them now because I know they are not possible.  I can't be in my full mind and believe that I can achieve literally anything.  There is just not enough time or resources to do that .

Edited February 25 by Someone here

[ThePoint]

Not a Phil but becoming a multi-ish millionaire would definitely get you laid with a pornstar and landing on the moon isn't very far from the equation either. 

So that's from a logical perspective. Now what about:

3 hours ago, Someone here said:

because I know they are not possible

?

[Phil]

Question?

[Someone here]

On 2/26/2024 at 3:51 PM, Phil said:

Question?

That there are some things that seem impossible to achieve.  So I don't believe In actually achieving them so I don't write them on the board .

How to deal with this ?

[Phil]

@Someone here 

It’s a ‘full cup’ situation, not a problem to fix, solve, figure out or doing anything about. The cup is full of what you knows and understands. The knowing and understanding are made of possibility, potentiality. It’s a classic tale of thoughts obscuring the true nature. Beliefs obscuring creativity, enthusiasm & potential. 

 

To help dispel those limiting beliefs by category, watch the movie A Million Miles Away, read an autobiography or two from multi-billionaires, and I don’t what Lexi Bell’s situation is, but you could look into it. 

 

Without too much “AH’s jargon”… the dreamboard is for writing what’s wanted. There’s nothing wrong with the additional framing of achieving, but it’s simpler to just write what’s wanted and allow it to manifest. 

[Someone here]

5 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here 

It’s a ‘full cup’ situation, not a problem to fix, solve, figure out or doing anything about. The cup is full of what you knows and understands. The knowing and understanding are made of possibility, potentiality. It’s a classic tale of thoughts obscuring the true nature. Beliefs obscuring creativity, enthusiasm & potential. 

 

To help dispel those limiting beliefs by category, watch the movie A Million Miles Away, read an autobiography or two from multi-billionaires, and I don’t what Lexi Bell’s situation is, but you could look into it. 

 

Without too much “AH’s jargon”… the dreamboard is for writing what’s wanted. There’s nothing wrong with the additional framing of achieving, but it’s simpler to just write what’s wanted and allow it to manifest. 

OK thanks 

Few points I need clarification on... please:what do you mean that the dreamboard is not for achieving but for Emptying out what's wanted in the board ? Do you mean it's OK to write something that you know is just not possible to happen just to feel the relief of getting it out of your subconscious mind and actually sending that "signal " into the universe and then "believing " that the universe is good enough to grant your wish ?

So when i write something on the board I  .. First should find a proper reason behind  the  goal and that reason will gradually convert into what I  want to attain into a “need” to get that goal attained?

How to convert what I "want" to what i "need "...? Simply how to raise the chances of getting mu goal attained?  Or is that going about it in the wrong way ?I should write it and let it go and see what happens? 

[Kevin]

On 2/25/2024 at 3:46 AM, Someone here said:

@Phil please answer me this question after reflecting on it slowly without dismissing it or rotating around it with loa and Abraham Hicks jargon lol..

It is suggested that we should write whatever we want on the dreamboard..no matter how little or big it is ..

okay..

So it seems impossible for me to land on the moon in this lifetime..

it seems impossible that I'm gonna have sex with Lexi Belle (a pornstar that i like )..

it seems impossible that I will become a multi billionaire in this lifetime..etc

I did actually write these things on my board ..but I have erased them now because I know they are not possible.  I can't be in my full mind and believe that I can achieve literally anything.  There is just not enough time or resources to do that .

Going to space is on the verge of becoming commercial. Meaning we are close to the point where anyone can go. Also the rate of technological growth is exponential so within 30 years or less I think most people will be able to go to space. And it’ll probably be much cheaper and safer by then. If you live to the age of 60 I’m sure you’ll be able to go to the moon.

 

Also if you want to fuck pornstars then start a porn website. You pay the girls a fee or offer them a percentage of the profits and then make a video. There are guys doing this already. You could fuck porn stars and make money doing it.

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Kevin said:

Going to space is on the verge of becoming commercial. Meaning we are close to the point where anyone can go. Also the rate of technological growth is exponential so within 30 years or less I think most people will be able to go to space. And it’ll probably be much cheaper and safer by then. If you live to the age of 60 I’m sure you’ll be able to go to the moon.

 

Also if you want to fuck pornstars then start a porn website. You pay the girls a fee or offer them a percentage of the profits and then make a video. There are guys doing this already. You could fuck porn stars and make money doing it.

Hahaha...oh dear lord 🙏🤣

[Phil]

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

OK thanks 

Few points I need clarification on... please:what do you mean that the dreamboard is not for achieving but for Emptying out what's wanted in the board ?

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:41 PM, Phil said:

the dreamboard is for writing what’s wanted

 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

Do you mean it's OK to write something that you know is just not possible to happen just to feel the relief of getting it out of your subconscious mind and actually sending that "signal " into the universe and then "believing " that the universe is good enough to grant your wish ?

No. Just write what you want. Keep it simple. 

 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

So when i write something on the board I  .. First should find a proper reason behind  the  goal and that reason will gradually convert into what I  want to attain into a “need” to get that goal attained?

No. Very literally, just write what you want. 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

How to convert what I "want" to what i "need "...?

I’m not really sure what that means, but dreamboard wise, just write what you want. 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

Simply how to raise the chances of getting mu goal attained? 

Just write “mu”. 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

Or is that going about it in the wrong way ?

It’s writing what you want. Right & wrong don’t really apply. 

 

On 2/27/2024 at 4:56 PM, Someone here said:

I should write it and let it go and see what happens? 

Yes definitely. 🙂

 

[Someone here]

@Phil OK thanks. 

And sorry for this weird topic  😂 

[Phil]

@Someone here

Anytime. 

 

For mu btw, you could also write self-realization, infinite, consciousness, peace, self, love, enlightenment, awakening, reality, awareness, nothing and or not knowing. Different terms, same pointing. 

[Someone here]

9 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

Anytime. 

 

For mu btw, you could also write self-realization, infinite, consciousness, peace, self, love, enlightenment, awakening, reality, awareness, nothing and or not knowing. Different terms, same pointing. 

I've giving  up about awakening.  

[Someone here]

@Phil mainly because of my attachment to silly things like a kid . I must become a "man " first . Not a lil horny boy who wants to fuck pornstars .

[Phil]

@Someone here

Thoughts don’t define you. The unfulfilling surface level is indicative of conceptualizing / spiritual bypassing. I would definitely start with acknowleding emotions. The more you’re feeling so to speak, the less seeking there is for feeling (via self image, validation, sensual pleasures, substances, etc). Self disparagement isn’t going to resonate either. Maybe appreciate aspects instead, and focus on what you want instead. Start more realistic to you or where you’re at dreamboard wise. 

[Someone here]

15 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

Thoughts don’t define you. The unfulfilling surface level is indicative of conceptualizing / spiritual bypassing. I would definitely start with acknowleding emotions. The more you’re feeling so to speak, the less seeking there is for feeling (via self image, validation, sensual pleasures, substances, etc). Self disparagement isn’t going to resonate either. Maybe appreciate aspects instead, and focus on what you want instead. Start more realistic to you or where you’re at dreamboard wise. 

I think I should start with maturity 

 I'm very immature..how to become a mature person in your opinion? 

[Phil]

@Someone here

It really depends, what’s the connotation(s) of a mature person? 

[Someone here]

8 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

It really depends, what’s the connotation(s) of a mature person? 

Well ..being experienced in life. Being  assertive and decisive. Being a man .etc

Stoping the childish stuff like pissing time away with video games or porno and other such nonsense which only slob teenagers do .

[Phil]

32 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Well ..being experienced in life. Being  assertive and decisive. Being a man .etc

Stoping the childish stuff like pissing time away with video games or porno and other such nonsense which only slob teenagers do .

It sounds like what you want is mature decisions, actions and behaviors and less reactionary & impulsive decisions, actions & behaviors. That comes with acknowledging & feeling emotions. Grounding in feeling in that way. Feeling is intelligence.  More grounded means (effortlessly, happens ‘by itself’, not a doing) less seeking feeling in experience (objects, relationships, validation, substances, sensory pleasures, etc).

 

Not trying to make light of this, but these are the pitfalls of years of the entirely self referential self-improvement trap. It’s conceptualizing feeling & bypassing emotions. It’s inherently a cycle of comparison, self-guilting, and no inspiration. It’s like the survival trap. These paradigms may be financially profitable for some, but are short sighted, inherently discordant annd incongruent with well-being as they’re building a conceptual house of cards at the expense of actually feeling. 

 

Decision making isn’t a real experience and is too much of a concession. It’s an entirely separate self referential conceptualization. Meditatively, thoughts just arise. If you don’t like a thought, let it go and another more resonating thought appears. Meditation would be most fruitful in all aspects talked about in this thread. 

 

Ever questioned if the ‘being a man’ thinking is a sales pitch basically?  It seems like believing in becoming and chasing a certain state in the future, but is actually just self referential judgement. As if you aren’t plenty enough exactly as you are. 

 

[Jonas Long]

@Someone here

 

[Phil]

@Someone here

The ‘become’ and ‘be a man’ and ‘x, y or z come from experience / maturity’ definitely seem like a loop. Like… if I become a man… then I could x, y & z…. If I experience x, y & z… then I would become a man. Self-acceptance as is is very different than self-improvement. By ‘loop’ I don’t mean anything you’re doing ‘wrong’ or anything like that. Just that it’s the nature of conceptualizing / believing self referential thoughts. Conditioning. If conditioning is conceptualized as karma, that adds a secondary layer, obscuring the loop from being seen for what it is (and more so isn’t). 

 

Some ‘testimony’ might help with this maturity thing. Earlier today I had a zoom call with an employee who was having a tough go.  Was grounded, listened, and only attempted to help in the capacity of helping her see what was and wasn’t true of her, and realizing the connection with source more if you will. Then recemented a wood post someone hit with their car and cracked, and refinished a couple wood rocking chairs. Right now, I’m wearing flannel pajamas, using a pink mouse because I liked the unique the shade of pink, playing Stronghold Warlords and drinking a cherry martini. Does that make me a man? Mature? I don’t know. Who cares.