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19 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

The ‘become’ and ‘be a man’ and ‘x, y or z come from experience / maturity’ definitely seem like a loop. Like… if I become a man… then I could x, y & z…. If I experience x, y & z… then I would become a man. Self-acceptance as is is very different than self-improvement. By ‘loop’ I don’t mean anything you’re doing ‘wrong’ or anything like that. Just that it’s the nature of conceptualizing / believing self referential thoughts. Conditioning. If conditioning is conceptualized as karma, that adds a secondary layer, obscuring the loop from being seen for what it is (and more so isn’t). 

 

Some ‘testimony’ might help with this maturity thing. Earlier today I had a zoom call with an employee who was having a tough go.  Was grounded, listened, and only attempted to help in the capacity of helping her see what was and wasn’t true of her, and realizing the connection with source more if you will. Then recemented a wood post someone hit with their car and cracked, and refinished a couple wood rocking chairs. Right now, I’m wearing flannel pajamas, using a pink mouse because I liked the unique the shade of pink, playing Stronghold Warlords and drinking a cherry martini. Does that make me a man? Mature? I don’t know. Who cares. 

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22 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

Right now, I’m wearing flannel pajamas, using a pink mouse because I liked the unique the shade of pink, playing Stronghold Warlords and drinking a cherry martini. Does that make me a man? Mature? I don’t know. Who cares. 

Sounds pretty bad ass to me. Check out the game civilization VI! One of my favorites.

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1 hour ago, Phil said:

@Someone here

The ‘become’ and ‘be a man’ and ‘x, y or z come from experience / maturity’ definitely seem like a loop. Like… if I become a man… then I could x, y & z…. If I experience x, y & z… then I would become a man. Self-acceptance as is is very different than self-improvement. By ‘loop’ I don’t mean anything you’re doing ‘wrong’ or anything like that. Just that it’s the nature of conceptualizing / believing self referential thoughts. Conditioning. If conditioning is conceptualized as karma, that adds a secondary layer, obscuring the loop from being seen for what it is (and more so isn’t). 

 

Some ‘testimony’ might help with this maturity thing. Earlier today I had a zoom call with an employee who was having a tough go.  Was grounded, listened, and only attempted to help in the capacity of helping her see what was and wasn’t true of her, and realizing the connection with source more if you will. Then recemented a wood post someone hit with their car and cracked, and refinished a couple wood rocking chairs. Right now, I’m wearing flannel pajamas, using a pink mouse because I liked the unique the shade of pink, playing Stronghold Warlords and drinking a cherry martini. Does that make me a man? Mature? I don’t know. Who cares. 

Obviously you care, or you wouldn't have brought it up.  I'm glad you are enjoying a good video game in your pajamas.  What makes a man is precisely what you are.  Nothing less, and nothing more.  

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On 2/25/2024 at 5:46 AM, Someone here said:

@Phil please answer me this question after reflecting on it slowly without dismissing it or rotating around it with loa and Abraham Hicks jargon lol..

It is suggested that we should write whatever we want on the dreamboard..no matter how little or big it is ..

okay..

So it seems impossible for me to land on the moon in this lifetime..

it seems impossible that I'm gonna have sex with Lexi Belle (a pornstar that i like )..

it seems impossible that I will become a multi billionaire in this lifetime..etc

I did actually write these things on my board ..but I have erased them now because I know they are not possible.  I can't be in my full mind and believe that I can achieve literally anything.  There is just not enough time or resources to do that .

reset your expectations.  Notice that you actually created these.  You created the ability of having sex ith Lexi Belle and you also created the impossibilty of it.  So realize that..  So in this lifetime you will be able to do a lot of things.  But you won't be able to do the thing that you already told yourseflf you cannot do.  I mean tthat metaphysically right now.  You have created boundaries for your own experience.  Afterall, if you removed all of the boundaries then what would there be?  What wout you be asking me right now?  You would be completely omnipotent.  Whats the fun in that.

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5 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Every male on the planet think with their dicks. 

It's kind of sad.  Sometimes I wish that i was gay.  At least then i could feel the feminie side as well.

 

Of course, that is not necesary for awakening.  You just have to suffer enough.  The buddah didn't make this shit up.

 

Suffer enough and you will become enlightened.  But for that, you need to self inquire after the sufffering.  Unless you get lucky enough to awaken on your own

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7 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Every male on the planet think with their dicks. 

 

Could be liberating to notice that's projection. 🙂

 

Just by noticing that you don't ever actually experience other men's thoughts (or dicks) (probably), but only your own thoughts about other men's thoughts.

 

That men think with their dicks is a belief about yourself, which is why it's assumed to be true about others. Beliefs are tricky.

 

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There must be an effortless way.

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5 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

It's kind of sad.  Sometimes I wish that i was gay.  At least then i could feel the feminie side as well.

 

Of course, that is not necesary for awakening.  You just have to suffer enough.  The buddah didn't make this shit up.

 

Suffer enough and you will become enlightened.  But for that, you need to self inquire after the sufffering.  Unless you get lucky enouh to awaken on your own

I stopped chasing awakening and stopped chasing sex both together.  You know why ? Because I realized its the seeking that veils happiness as it is commonly shared here by Phil and other woke folks.  Stop seeking anything at all for just one day and don't think far ahead of your nose and see the degree of peace or joy you will experience. 

This doesn't mean I'm perfect ..sometimes I do try to awaken by thinking my way into awakening just like Leo and I do watch porn and have a wank every once in a while ..this is just human nature .but yeah I wish I was asexual or something  lol.

I remember Arthur Schopenhauer say that only by old age you will naturally become disgusted by sex .

 

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1 minute ago, Someone here said:

I stopped chasing awakening and stopped chasing sex both together.  You know why ? Because I realized its the seeking that veils happiness as it is commonly shared here by Phil and other woke folks.  Stop seeking anything at all for just one day and don't think far ahead of your nose and see the degree of peace or joy you will experience. 

This doesn't mean I'm perfect ..sometimes I do try to awaken by thinking my way into awakening just like Leo and I do watch porn and have a wank every once in a while ..this is just human nature .but yeah I wish I was asexual or something  lol.

I remember Arthur Schopenhauer say that only by old age you will naturally become disgusted by sex .

 

Wise words.  The problem is we are so hooked on the dream.  It's like a drug.  Breathing this air.  Breathing life into us.  Incarnated as a human.  It's beautiful.  But its finite.

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