Nerdy guys

[Reena]

In my opinion and experience nerdy men cannot adequately satisfy a woman romantically. A woman needs an extroverted social romantic leaning guy who will teach her all the moves. Nerdy men can waste her time although these guys can be good guys. They might be respectful but they might lack a romantic flavor. What do you think? 

 

 

[Jonas Long]

Thats your preference and it's fine, but what is your goal with this thread?  People have different types.  It wouldn't be cool if a guy started a thread about why he isn't attracted to certain types of women who happen to fit your description. 

[Blessed2]

2 minutes ago, Reena said:

In my opinion and experience nerdy men cannot adequately satisfy a woman romantically.

 

That might be your prefrence, a man who is not "nerdy". But that doesn't tell anything about women at large.

 

3 minutes ago, Reena said:

A woman needs an extroverted social romantic leaning guy who will teach her all the moves.

 

That might be your prefrence, but it doesn't tell anything about women at large.

 

4 minutes ago, Reena said:

Nerdy men can waste her time although these guys can be good guys.

 

You might have a prefrence, but it doesn't say anything about women at large.

 

You might experience it as "waste if my time", but it doesn't say anything about women or nerdy men at large.

 

5 minutes ago, Reena said:

They might be respectful but they might lack a romantic flavor.

 

Some people dependless of being nerdy or not might not feel like getting romantic sometimes.

 

9 minutes ago, Reena said:

What do you think? 

 

Actual experience of relationships / feeling vs. thoughts, beliefs, assumptions and endless rumination over it.

[Alexander]

I like shy introverted girls that's my preference.

[Reena]

22 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

types of women who happen to fit your description. 

And... What fits my description according to you? 

 

[Reena]

20 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

Some people dependless of being nerdy or not might not feel like getting romantic sometimes.

This is true. 

[Jonas Long]

1 minute ago, Reena said:

And... What fits my description according to you? 

 

I don't know you, so I don't know.  But however you would describe yourself, suppose a guy started a thread to discuss exactly why not only he doesn't like it, but that this type is actually no good for men across the board.  

[Reena]

7 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

I don't know you, so I don't know.  But however you would describe yourself, suppose a guy started a thread to discuss exactly why not only he doesn't like it, but that this type is actually no good for men across the board.  

Completely cool with it. Freedom of opinion as long as it's not personally directed. 

By the way a thread about me is nothing new to me. People who are serious about what they want will eventually focus on what they want. 

[Jonas Long]

4 minutes ago, Reena said:

Completely cool with it. Freedom of opinion as long as it's not personally directed. 

By the way a thread about me is nothing new to me. People who are serious about what they want will eventually focus on what they want. 

Oh.

For some reason I thought something like that might bother you.  Like you would read something you assume is about you and take it really personally.  Maybe I'm wrong though.  

 

Edited November 9, 2023 by Jonas Long

[Reena]

2 minutes ago, Jonas Long said:

Oh.

For some reason I thought something like that might bother you.  Like you would read something you assume is about you and take it really personally.  Maybe I'm wrong though.  

 

Deja vu. 

 

[Joseph Maynor]

Nerdy guys who have money and status end up being attractive though.  The nerds get their revenge in this way.

[Reena]

@Joseph Maynor they aren't neurotypical. 

[Reena]

1 hour ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Nerdy guys who have money and status end up being attractive though.  The nerds get their revenge in this way.

They are only attractive to gold diggers. 

[Jonas Long]

8 hours ago, Reena said:

@Joseph Maynor they aren't neurotypical. 

Are you?

[Jonas Long]

There used to be a word for those who only socialize on the internet, make up fantasy relationships to cope(or have long distance internet/phone based relationships where they never actually meet irl), are virgins late in life...what was it?  

 

 

Edited May 23 by Jonas Long

[Reena]

11 hours ago, Jonas Long said:

Are you?

I'm neurodivergent. But that's besides the point. Would I want someone who isn't neurotypical? I think not. 

[Reena]

10 hours ago, Jonas Long said:

There used to be a word for those who only socialize on the internet, make up fantasy relationships to cope(or have long distance internet/phone based relationships where they never actually meet irl), are virgins late in life...what was it?  

 

 

You could invent one. 

[Reena]

10 hours ago, Jonas Long said:

There used to be a word for those who only socialize on the internet, make up fantasy relationships to cope(or have long distance internet/phone based relationships where they never actually meet irl), are virgins late in life...what was it?  

 

 

Yes I'm a Virgin. 

Yes I'm wrapped in fantasy stories as a cope. 

Yea I only socialize on the internet. 

Go on. Hahaha. 

Sometimes the illusions we have of others are our own frustrations. 

Edited May 24 by Reena

[Jonas Long]

13 hours ago, Reena said:

You could invent one. 

Used to be called "nerds", that collection of traits 

[Jonas Long]

13 hours ago, Reena said:

Yes I'm a Virgin. 

Yes I'm wrapped in fantasy stories as a cope. 

Yea I only socialize on the internet. 

Go on. Hahaha. 

Sometimes the illusions we have of others are our own frustrations. 

Yeah, I wouldn't want to belong to a club that would have someone like me in it either