Devin

As backward as it seems, I'd instead say you have fun. I really don't see any need to think about what you need to do for a woman, you have fun, you work on yourself how you want to be, you'll be able to get any girl. Girls tend to not be fun, have fun and they'll follow you with it. Exactly.

Correct your language. Apples are great. No apples suck. Really? I love apples! (not apples are great) When it feels argumentative state opinions as opinions not facts.

I don't buy it, if you truly loved women with all your heart you would have never moved on to the second one. This coming from someone that never seems to be satisfied with a woman. The reason some men move through more women is their giving off the idea that they have the ability to provide well. If you loved them you wouldn't leave, it's always selfish when I leave, looking for better. Nice guys don't have tons of girlfriends, assholes do. Very few women have love on their priority list, some have nice, most have provider.

I'm glad it helped you, it has me too, thanks for sharing!

🤩🤩👊 Yeahhh!!💯💯 Killin it Orb!!👏👏 Oh yeah, your local government job and family services will help find you a job too. You gotta admit the spiritual work made it easier to sell everything, minimalist.

Nice, you'll get one Orb.

I think it's usually insecurity, worrying what others think. What helps me is living how I want in the less accepted ways(being less fake, etc.), you notice people will have the same attitude no matter what; some will hate you and some will love you, most are so caught up in their own mess of a life they don't think twice about you, and it's regardless of however you are. There are people like our parents we try to impress with success, but they're either a.) Never truly accepting of you or B.) Always truly accepting of you. So for this it doesn't actually matter if you succeed even though that's what the A.) Group manipulates us into believing(because of their insecurity from the same issue).

Awesome

Happy to hear it, very inspirational.

It's hard to believe this now but you may be able to try and imagine, when you get to real good footing in life you will look back on times like these and actually feel nostalgic about the experience. It's a flavor of life, a powerful one that kicks you in your nuts, but it'd be more bland without it, it's one of the few times you get that huuuge surge of uncontrollable emotions, like a scary Rollercoaster or movie. You already know what to do, just take action for the most part, do the small things in your life that you actually can do, instead of worrying about what you can't. When you get above water then take a look around at major life adjustments, Know that you don't always need to be working on something, rest often, like a meditative rest, watch the sky or walk through the park, enjoy your food and water, appreciate, take time to appreciate, it's like eating or excercise. Busy does not mean productive, most people like that just spin their wheels and are always burntout.

I hope not, I hope we make you feel comfortable and not judged. It happens to a lot of people, it's fine.

You're very welcome. Ooh sounds like a good time to learn how to cook some food too, rice is super cheap and delicious, peas(good workout protein), carrots, dry beans, potatos, cabbage egg rolls with shredded carrot!, ... I would not fast when in your type of mindset, that will exacerbate thoughts running wild.

Yeah, alot of companies have high turnover right now so they have employment adds up for when someone in the future quits, you have to apply a lot of places, anywhere that says open interviews will be hiring then though, you can try Facebook groups in your town asking if anyone is hiring. You will find a job I'm sure. But don't worry about it, take this time to workout or whatever, try to let any judgement from others like your mom roll off your back. You're strong buddy, no one weak would seek what you seek or question what you do, you will make it, you're just underestimating yourself which is normal, don't worry about that either. Do physical activity everyday, jog or something, your hormones or whatever will go extra crazy when you're stressed if you don't.

Stress does that

Have you tried a temporary employment agency

Well, I wouldn't worry about the debt, you can only do what you can do, try to get any job for the time being and then you're more hireable when you are already employed, whatever happens with the debt happens, it's okay, not a serious problem. You sound completely normal to me.

It is a tough situation, but you can get through it. I can only try to imagine how scary it feels. What is the main problem a job, have you tried the low end jobs for something in the mean time? Yep, we're taught to believe stuff like that. Grades in school, people talking trash about others for things like the clothes they wear, everyone you've heard being critical has built up that idea of comparing yourself to others. They were all coming from ignorance, and you will gain nothing from being that respected sage, or special person, happiness is not dependant on any of that, just more misleading. Quit believing the beliefs you've been mislead with and what's left is happiness, you already have happiness it's just overshadowed by the beliefs we're indoctrinated with. Ignorance ignore-ance, ignoring happiness.

That's like asking what shape is yellow. True. What do you want Orb? Joy right, then these questions don't even matter, it's just envy of other self righteous pompous egomaniacs that try to act enlightened to stroke their ego because they're envious of some other pompous egomaniac.

I'm not sure what you mean here.

I'm actually pretty good at practical life and finances if you ever want my advice.

That's why I first suggested those easy things that you enjoy, that tends to be key for me.

Yep. I'm just trying.

Laziness is not a trait, it's a subconscious reaction to cognitive dissonance, It's you subconciously recognizing there's a problem with the beliefs/values you're operating on; greed, envy, .....

Whatever life you get is beautiful, the problem tends to be being misled into believing/fearing it isn't, wanting a different one, you're lied to brother, just look at the sky, taste that cold glass of water, be nice to someone, that's beautiful, no less than king Solomons life. Beauty is beauty.

Yeah, fear itself is kind of the belief system. The root is fear, which is explicitly not enjoying/allowing/appreciating however life will play out