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Eothasian

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  1. What happens there that it's so strict?
  2. Emotionally cold environment in public transportation. People are afraid to even look at each other's eyes. Clearly feeling beaten down by having to wake up in the morning has its causes. Why surpress your need to change it? For what? An idea that somehow only coldness reflects reality actually? Phah! Getting into it is like puring a drop of iodine into water, its level of iodine increases but the concentration of the drop in iodine decreases. How to keep on your love level during that? The kids recognize it though.
  3. @Phil great now I am labeling everything internal as thought. Just tell me how you do this, maybe I can get there through imitation.
  4. I don't know, phil, I don't know. It's like a it's like an imagined communication into nothingness and then there is a bump, and that bump is this. I guess I don't know how to look at a thought without a thought about the thought. No, in me, originally. I need some time on this one
  5. I suppose so, yes. It happened to a girl I was close with. But anyway, what I wanted to say is, in my perception of a lot of women on dating sites and irl they seem to be on a similar plane as the men. Just as a generalization. Not that I encourage this behavior.
  6. Disappointing indeed. But she can walk away. It's fairly easy to spot this intention, but I guess hard to resist for some.
  7. Well, guilty is the wrong word. Like letting down but weaker.
  8. That's what I mean. Beautiful metaphor. I only understand this intellectually, phil. I'm feeling a bit guilty, when you put all this work into explanation and I am not able to get onto it. The tugging or the disturbance when tugging is happening?
  9. @Phil I don't know. I just feel it in my chest in the body sort of. I can't make any directions to the mind. The mind to me is the language in my head and the visions before my eyes. But this speaks from a different direction, to me.
  10. Infuriating, since that would actually be a hinderence to academics. I don't know if people need to learn socializing more than relating to.
  11. Something in my chest doesn't want to allow me to be more. Something beating me up for it, whenever I start building courageous believes around myself it immediately tries to counteract it with negative self doubt to pull me down. Feels like tight and piercing constriction, that's a bit painful. Why Like I adopted someone's fears about me being unleashed. Oh yeah, I know why.
  12. Young women nowadays are aware of this. They aren't far away from being like it themselves. Depends on what you mean by young. But the online dating sites work well for a reason. I don't think many men will raise their behavior like that as long as they don't see women asking for better.
  13. Show youtube vids you like, here. So I can check em out. Please no news, lol. I'll start.
  14. If there so much resistance to self actualization maybe not all of those believes are actually the ones you need to unveil for self actualization, some maybe fake infused through culture? Maybe you can find which ones you actually need to fulfill?
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