Reena Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Sex is also an emotion. Sex is art. Sex is a philosophy. Quote Mention So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blessed2 Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 "Not if you do it right." Quote Mention There must be an effortless way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reena Posted December 10, 2023 Author Share Posted December 10, 2023 There's nothing like wrong sex. Is there. Quote Mention So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reena Posted December 10, 2023 Author Share Posted December 10, 2023 Sex is also an idea of commitment. It means hormones, bonding, oxytocin. We long each other through sex. Sex has a therapeutic effect on the mind. Like any other thing, it can be done either mindfully or mindlessly. When someone does it mindlessly it's only for pleasure. There's no difference between such sex and watching porn, literally it's only supposed to trigger the pleasure centers of the brain. Also it corrupts the idea of infatuation. The one that is needed for bonding. Then why don't we just get off porn? What I have found in my observation is that no amount of porn-like sex can ever satisfy me. Whether it's porn or sex in that form, it's the same thing. It's empty. It's like casual sex. Casual sex has no meaning. Fundamentally it's sex, agreed. Yet it's meaningless and mindless monkey sex. You might even start hating sex if you constantly get aroused on it. Because there's no intimacy, simple. It's not passionate, just animalistic and hormone driven. But if you are attracted to someone, the sex is passionate, there's a fluidity, a passion, a chemistry, romance and the culmination of mutual pleasuring finally into climax and orgasm. This needs a certain magnetism and chemistry. An intensity. This could be with or without being in love. It'll appear closer to casual sex yet it has shades of polarity to achieve the idea of romantic passionate sex. It makes you feel aroused and wanting to like the person who you sleep with. That's why the phrase "catch feelings." the other type of sex would be the one where you're genuinely in love and loyal to the other person and the kind of sex you have is loving, cuddly and emotional. It's affectionate and helps intensify the bond. So yes sex shouldn't have to be mindless. It is just as meaningful as anything else. Sex is like bread. It might appear simple like bread. Now you can eat bread or you can eat toast. I hope you get my idea and where I'm trying to go with this. Quote Mention So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 @Reena If that’s what sex is, what word would you use for that which is the self-evident, self perpetuating function of creation? Do you suspect that your views about sex would change if you had kids? Would your perspective on sex change, if you noticed you weren’t born? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 This whole forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reena Posted December 10, 2023 Author Share Posted December 10, 2023 @Jonas Long sex can also be experienced in dreams. Quote Mention So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 8 minutes ago, Reena said: @Jonas Long sex can also be experienced in dreams. It doesn't count though Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Same with "becoming infinity" in a dream. Flying dreams are fun too, but it's not gonna help you survive an unopened parachute. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 27 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: This whole forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Ever considered projection, and introspection? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Just now, Phil said: Ever considered projection, and introspection? Do you really think I don't? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 @Jonas Long It seems evident. 33 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: This whole forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Forum’s tend to seem that way for people. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Just now, Phil said: @Jonas Long It seems evident. Forum’s tend to seem that way for people. Seems to you. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 @Jonas Long Not really sure how a you fits in. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 1 minute ago, Phil said: @Jonas Long Not really sure how a you fits in. Try introspection Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 Just now, Jonas Long said: Try introspection Why? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 1 minute ago, Phil said: Why? Why not. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 1 minute ago, Jonas Long said: Why not. 43 minutes ago, Jonas Long said: This whole forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Because it doesn’t seem like a forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 2 minutes ago, Phil said: Because it doesn’t seem like a forum is like a virgin saying what sex is. Ok, you win? I have no horse in this game. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted December 10, 2023 Share Posted December 10, 2023 19 minutes ago, Phil said: Ever considered projection, and introspection? It was a straight forward, face value question. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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