nurthur11
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22 hours ago, Phil said:
Well said. Enlightenment is already even if there are beliefs to the contrary. 🤍
Thus they feel as they do.
@Philvery practical pointer for me. Big thanks!
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7 hours ago, Orb said:
Good questions to ask during self inquiry:
-In direct experience can any boundaries be felt?
-Who is feeling/experiencing this moment?
-Where am I?
You are nowhere fiuuu 😄 😛. You are experiencing this moment. Direct experience is just a way how to explain your phenomenal experience; mind is like a sponge but no state last forever. When you feel lost just go to sleep or talk to a person that is close to you.
Don't overthink it too much. Stay with people around you. Sleep as much as possible. Drink water.
Dean Kontz says " a great deal of phenomenal experience has been fostered in me a flexibility of the mind and imagination that some might call madness"
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You have to understand or realize that you are as good as you are. You don’t have to change who you are all the time. Keep going forward. Take your past and present with you and overcome it. If you accept that you are who you have become then you will have a future. You will live live in present and be able to unstuck yourself from the past much easier. More embodied and stable. If you stuck in trying to find a new road every day a better way of functioning, Trying to hide your Actual self in hope of showing the world a better self than you are just wasting time.
Your actual self might relate to the world in unconventional or odd manner but that is fine.
This is for myself. For you it might be different you might find your happiness and comfort in your own terms.
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Expression is hard to describe the how but it is really based on what happens to you and how you contain that thing (emotionally, thought like, words). The key is to believe in yourself, detach from what is happening and let it express itself. I don't know how to put it in words but it will make you feel really good.
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15 hours ago, Orb said:
How do I let go? I think this is a step no one can willfully take.
Any technique you give me will only be turned into an excuse to postpone letting go of everything.
Tell me to meditate and meditation becomes a daily practice.
Tell me to let go of beliefs and that'll become the very narrative postponing the complete letting go.
By default one let's go of its past but sometimes this process is slower. For some it might take longer - in my case it takes longer time to "forget" someone. I notice that in my case grief is a necessary step(maybe the final step) before i let go of someone.
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i change my vibration by laughin.
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2 hours ago, Phil said:
All the answers are on the cushion.
big lol
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53 minutes ago, Mandy said:
Eventually? Minutes? Forever? If you're looking for a shortcut to the future, it's only Now.
Why sometimes it is not Now?
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On 4/6/2023 at 6:56 PM, Phil said:
♥️
When conditioning & direct experience are at odds, it’s felt.
Problem is for me / personal, like there is the experience of misunderstanding and impatience, yet understanding & patience are never actually experienced.
Or the old saying ‘no self, no problem’.
+ I recently felt at moments that conditioning and direct experience were not at odds and it felt good, like tranquility, joy and self leadership. Do you mean something what i am mentioning here?
Is so hard not to take things personally, but I will try. !!
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Very good topic and very good responses! Ty.
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On 3/9/2023 at 3:27 PM, Eternal said:
Everyone give their best shot of the best kind of immersive game you can play when it comes to realizing no-self. It could be Virtual reality, MMORPG, puzzles, phone game etc..
What kind of game would you introduce to the world to make them aware of who they actually are?
Interested to hear your guy's responses!
Best for realizing no self is socializing as much as you can. Try to make friends that want to understand you and that make you feel that everything will be alright.
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30 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:
When I did Psilocybin Mushrooms all those pains in my body went away. Sometimes that body pain is energy that's just kind of blocked. It's kinda stayed that way for me too after my recent trip which I'm surprised about. Don't underestimate how the mind and emotions influence the body. You have to find a way to clean the body so you feel good in your body from the inside. The Masculine also has a tendency to put body in the shadow which creates a lot of problems within their body and body extended to The Other -- which is why these people often suck at social relations and skills. The body can't be ignored. It's here and it can be cleaned out in several different sort of surprising ways.
I cant clean my body people have to say i forgive you or something like this in order that it get clean.
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On 3/19/2023 at 3:38 PM, Blessed2 said:
Give up!
Give up!
Quit the healing work, spiritual work, integration work, learning work!
Embrace suffering!
Embrace weakness, shortcoming, failure!
Embrace the attachment, monkey mind, neuroticism, addiction, comfort zone and laziness!
Embrace the brokenness, sickness, incompleteness!
Embrace depression, insecurity, unworthiness, anger, worry, disappointment, impatience, pessimism and boredom!
What comes to mind of these words? Whatchu think? Whatchu feel?
Dont give up! 🙂
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On 3/14/2023 at 8:54 PM, Mandy said:
Why does it sometimes seem hard to accept a gift or a kindness? What thoughts might come up other than just appreciation?
Why does it sometimes seem hard to clear our minds in meditation and get into a receptive mode? What thoughts might come up?
How are the two scenarios not really two different scenarios?
I think being overly conscious of the worst case scenario is what make us feel less receptive.
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Look! sometimes life throw you a big problem and you feel the heavy burden on your shoulder and that is that - it is time to take action and make the right decision. Sadge for me. Jokes aside, I feel now is my time to do some good for my people and myself.
Love you all!
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Don’t save your money! Dont give them away either! Dont wait shit in return - if it comes it comes! Maximize life with what you have. There is a good book die with zero check that out. I didnt take this from
yhe book still have not read it.
Steal as much as you can from others. If you cant steal from anyone else steal from these words.
If you are boring you are boring. Dont fool others into liking you and put manuver them and so on and so forth.
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On 2/17/2023 at 2:37 PM, Blessed2 said:
I is the ultimate reality! Of course!
I goes "all the way"! Whatever the ultimate reality is, I is not separate from it.
Ultimate reality is "in" "all aspects" of I! Like a party in every cell!
So intimate! Inseparable!
"All there is, is the face of God."
"A current in the ocean in search of water." 😂
"As above, so below."
"The bottom of the bucket has fallen out."
It's pretty small still, just a tiiiiny peak. A ton of clouds in the way. Though very reassuring!
You have to eat good food and do what makes you feel good. Don’t get over your head. The reality is that reality changes all the time.
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On 2/14/2023 at 3:59 AM, j3w3lsth3l1zardw1zard said:
So I’m starting to realize that Everything Everyone is saying is talking about Itself, Forever. Like literally everything, even what I’m typing right now. But “I” whatever the hell that means, doesn’t understand. I’ve seen this a few times, just a few glimpses. I’m (trying?) to get back there. Honestly I can’t really speak a word of language without… without what? Not sure. Anywho, I’m just confused. Any… “advice”?
Now you already know what you need to know and time is to do. If you make mistakes that is okay. You have to stay persistent.
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On 2/14/2023 at 3:59 AM, j3w3lsth3l1zardw1zard said:
So I’m starting to realize that Everything Everyone is saying is talking about Itself, Forever. Like literally everything, even what I’m typing right now. But “I” whatever the hell that means, doesn’t understand. I’ve seen this a few times, just a few glimpses. I’m (trying?) to get back there. Honestly I can’t really speak a word of language without… without what? Not sure. Anywho, I’m just confused. Any… “advice”?
That's is just one aspect of life. Imagine this: all the knowledge that will ever be lies within your present experience and awareness. This is why I believe sometimes people say awareness/knowledge is a guide. But you can point this knowledge to speech or thoughts people have about themselves then you will notice the entire knowledge of that at once. All you ever need to know you already know. But don't limit yourself and focus only on one aspect of your life. Just as you are noticing the truth about this aspect you are mentioning you can notice the truth about life. You can play a crucial role - if you want, in your family, your city and ze world. The guide it is you and I am saying to you if you sometimes rest into this "knowledge" you will know exactly what to do.
One more point to say; hope to clarify you were this knowledge is coming from and why is it coming like this. In a closed <space of knowledge> (i will use this made up term) like 2+2 you will get 4 always - but if 2 was awareness and the other 2 was awareness then they could speak eternally about how this came to be a 2. In a game of chess if the other team start the game with more paws(whatever they called) than the other and if they were to ask pure awareness to play the game then the team with more paws will win. This is what I would call a close <space of knowledge>. Now the interesting part is that this knowledge is what makes up our world(you would know this from the nonduality teachings or w/e) and ze world there are many closed if not infinite spaces of knowledge.
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3 hours ago, Phil said:
Who believes it’s worthwhile?
What makes it worthwhile, which isn’t a belief?
How do you know that’s true?
How come?
what i expected you to say here is to say why isnt worthwhile or while is worthwhile
Belive in each other and everything will be fine/better
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Hope you have any thoughts regarding this topic but what i noticed is that when i believe in other people it feels that i am getting better in time. I feel like my adhd has been improved and i find it easier to connect with other people without feeling too embarsees about mhy self or my past.