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Hope you have any thoughts regarding this topic but what i noticed is that when i believe in other people it feels that i am getting better in time. I feel like my adhd has been improved and i find it easier to connect with other people without feeling too embarsees about mhy self or my past.

@Philvery practical pointer for me. Big thanks!

You are nowhere fiuuu 😄 😛. You are experiencing this moment. Direct experience is just a way how to explain your phenomenal experience; mind is like a sponge but no state last forever. When you feel lost just go to sleep or talk to a person that is close to you. Don't overthink it too much. Stay with people around you. Sleep as much as possible. Drink water. Dean Kontz says " a great deal of phenomenal experience has been fostered in me a flexibility of the mind and imagination that some might call madness"

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You have to understand or realize that you are as good as you are. You don’t have to change who you are all the time. Keep going forward. Take your past and present with you and overcome it. If you accept that you are who you have become then you will have a future. You will live live in present and be able to unstuck yourself from the past much easier. More embodied and stable. If you stuck in trying to find a new road every day a better way of functioning, Trying to hide your Actual self in hope of showing the world a better self than you are just wasting time. Your actual self might relate to the world in unconventional or odd manner but that is fine. This is for myself. For you it might be different you might find your happiness and comfort in your own terms.

Expression is hard to describe the how but it is really based on what happens to you and how you contain that thing (emotionally, thought like, words). The key is to believe in yourself, detach from what is happening and let it express itself. I don't know how to put it in words but it will make you feel really good.

By default one let's go of its past but sometimes this process is slower. For some it might take longer - in my case it takes longer time to "forget" someone. I notice that in my case grief is a necessary step(maybe the final step) before i let go of someone.

i change my vibration by laughin.

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Why sometimes it is not Now?

+ I recently felt at moments that conditioning and direct experience were not at odds and it felt good, like tranquility, joy and self leadership. Do you mean something what i am mentioning here? @Mandy Is so hard not to take things personally, but I will try. !!

Very good topic and very good responses! Ty.

Best for realizing no self is socializing as much as you can. Try to make friends that want to understand you and that make you feel that everything will be alright.

I cant clean my body people have to say i forgive you or something like this in order that it get clean.

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Dont give up! 🙂

I think being overly conscious of the worst case scenario is what make us feel less receptive.

Look! sometimes life throw you a big problem and you feel the heavy burden on your shoulder and that is that - it is time to take action and make the right decision. Sadge for me. Jokes aside, I feel now is my time to do some good for my people and myself. Love you all!

Don’t save your money! Dont give them away either! Dont wait shit in return - if it comes it comes! Maximize life with what you have. There is a good book die with zero check that out. I didnt take this from yhe book still have not read it. Steal as much as you can from others. If you cant steal from anyone else steal from these words. If you are boring you are boring. Dont fool others into liking you and put manuver them and so on and so forth.

https://www.nowaboutmeditation.com/p/mindfulness-beyond-non-judgemental-attention

be the self it feels best to you! @Phil

You have to eat good food and do what makes you feel good. Don’t get over your head. The reality is that reality changes all the time.

Now you already know what you need to know and time is to do. If you make mistakes that is okay. You have to stay persistent.

That's is just one aspect of life. Imagine this: all the knowledge that will ever be lies within your present experience and awareness. This is why I believe sometimes people say awareness/knowledge is a guide. But you can point this knowledge to speech or thoughts people have about themselves then you will notice the entire knowledge of that at once. All you ever need to know you already know. But don't limit yourself and focus only on one aspect of your life. Just as you are noticing the truth about this aspect you are mentioning you can notice the truth about life. You can play a crucial role - if you want, in your family, your city and ze world. The guide it is you and I am saying to you if you sometimes rest into this "knowledge" you will know exactly what to do. One more point to say; hope to clarify you were this knowledge is coming from and why is it coming like this. In a closed <space of knowledge> (i will use this made up term) like 2+2 you will get 4 always - but if 2 was awareness and the other 2 was awareness then they could speak eternally about how this came to be a 2. In a game of chess if the other team start the game with more paws(whatever they called) than the other and if they were to ask pure awareness to play the game then the team with more paws will win. This is what I would call a close <space of knowledge>. Now the interesting part is that this knowledge is what makes up our world(you would know this from the nonduality teachings or w/e) and ze world there are many closed if not infinite spaces of knowledge.

what i expected you to say here is to say why isnt worthwhile or while is worthwhile