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Going to get new fresh material to hate on is not the same as going back in time and making a retrospective on traumatic events for the sake the healing. Entertaining this relation of hate toward someone and constantly judging them on what they do is the opposite of healing. I'm not Leo, I don't have personal interest in you accepting Leo's flaws. And by accepting I don't mean "tolerate in your life". All I'm saying is hating on him is counter productive for you, its keeping him alive in your mind. It's nice pointing out whichever duality which makes your side of the debate look better. What if there is no victim and abuser?

Then be in accordance with my discordance 😁

No I'm not saying that. I'm just saying she shouldn't go back to her ex's Instagram every weekend just to convince herself of how bad of a person her ex was. If you don't like someone don't give them free rent in your mind. To accept the abusive person's flaws is the same as letting him go

> Debates about non duality are useless > Starts one 😂👌

Leo is love too 🙂 His character, his flaws, the limits of his guidance. Stuff to be accepted. This thread is nothing but discordance with Leo which is just a part of yourself. You can be in accordance with this discordance if you want, up to you.

Whoever keeps browsing actualized.org just to inject themselves with negativity and judgment. I'm not saying this to dunk on you, but get over your ex. This is thread is terribly sad to look at. I hope this community can be about improvement, happiness and love, not about being better than it's predecessor.

😂 Oh my god he's so bad. Imagine sucking that much as a human being. Weed? Pfft. So low level. 😏 Thank god we're not him. We're so much better than him. 😂😅🙄😟

@Phil I still think you saying Jesus was funny implied Jesus knew about the limits of his guidance. 😇😝😘

I think the answer's pretty clear already 😂

Isn't the concept of "Who" the same as the concept of "Belief"? What's a belief without a believer and who is one without a belief. Belief's another Who.

Believed by who?

What if other people don't want to see my dick???

If the statement above implies existence then I must believe in the existence blue unicorns because I brought it up once in a conversation. You could replace "labelled" by "mentioned" or "said". The fact something has been labelled implies nothing about about it beside the fact it was previously brought up, labelled, defined or mentioned.

Good! When you make a mistake, you brain brings back the memory of it so you can remember it more effectively. This is part of learning, the more cringe moments pop up the more you are growing socially. I myself this semester joined an Improv group. I can tell you every week I had all the cringiest moments poping back up in my head from my last Improv session. It's normal, the brain wants to be a social expert. We all want to be popular and show 0 insecurity. So anytime we do things we consider mistakes our brain learn to not reproduce that behavior. There is nothing you need to do about it and there is nothing you can do to stop your brain from learning from its mistakes. There is nothing to be released, there is no "shame stuck in you". Those mistakes do not have to be painful, you can just laugh at them. There was that time where I was doing Improv and we had a scene about a fucked up priest (me) and a very loyal religious follower. In the scene I was teaching her how to pray and I said "No the right way to pray is to stick your elbows together." I felt so DUMB and CRINGE for forcing her to squish her boobs in front of everyone. What kind of perverted person would force someone to do that on scene? It was very poor taste and unfunny at the time. Felt bad about it for weeks but over time I just accepted this happened I guess 😂

Imagine someone else had this problem and you wanted to force them to forgive their parents. You start telling them "You really suck for not forgiving your parents. Only mediocre people hold grudges, you should really be ashamed of yourself." Is there any good outcome that can come out of this shaming and bullying? If you "forgive" because someone shamed you for "not forgiving" is this really forgiveness or coercion? But this is essentially what you are doing to yourself. Shaming yourself for having emotions, for not being this expected version of yourself. If you want true forgiveness then you want to give yourself the actual freedom to forgive or not and this means being open to the possibility that you don't want to forgive. You have the right to not forgive them, this is your life and you can live it in whichever way you want.

In which way does defining something implies that the existence of the thing is believed? Definitions are made for the sake of conversation, I need to assume the meaning of words you use in order to have a conversation with you. Of course it doesn't imply that those definitions exist or are believed or any other duality. The statement I was making in sentence you quoted is the assertion that X = X, where X can be any concept you are referring to. Saying that X is not equal to X, or that Jesus is not Jesus or that Blue unicorn is not Blue unicorn, is non sense as far as english goes. There is no such thing as "a self", self is simply a reference to the subject in a sentence. "A camera can see itself with a mirror." It is used to imply identity or sameness. When I used "itself" in this sentence I meant "the same concept", but this doesn't define any property to the concept, including separateness. Whether you want to conceptualize concepts as separated is up to you.

If I say "blue unicorn" do you know believe that there is a blue unicorn? Introducing a concept doesn't imply anything about that concept, whether it exists or not whether its real or not. But it implies that this concept is itself, as a concept. The blue unicorn is the blue unicorn no matter what the blue unicorn actually is or whether it is.

🙂 Much love

Yeah no worries I see that. But this is deeply concerning, what is this issue I have that I require help with? How can Consciousness, Nothingness, The Universe or Oneness be helped?

Oh god, now I'm considering myself as real. What another problem. Does it ever end? I wish I could stop considering there is an issue with me... Doesn't seem to be a productive consideration. 🙂

I'm missing so much! Oh gosh I wish I could stop "missing" somehow. If only I could realize that the part I'm missing doesn't actually exist, that I'm not missing anything. Please enlighten me 😂

😂 As if.

Well I can't force you to share it if you don't want to 🙂

Just like I am a thought to you too. Why try to change what I think? I am just a piece of your imagination you imagine as "misunderstanding" you are trying to "fix" by moving your fingers funny on some keyboard.

Yeah and maybe the chair you are sitting on was actually made of chocolate all along. This is just an attempt to illustrate what a duality is. If we just go back in time to the moment when you wrote this. Why is Jesus funny in this context? (Remember you were quoting me when saying this)