Eothasian Posted October 8, 2022 Share Posted October 8, 2022 And it was really bad... Sex without love is not worth it, you guys. I don't know what the point is of that, i feel a little bit like I got raped. No genuine empathic engagement and all, it's all missing. 100% not worth it. Look for a serious relationship. That common emotional engagement is worth more than 90%. I wish I would not have done it. All that pick up talk and that you need sex so you know if you're compatible, total bs. You need deep love for one another. Masturbating is better that this. Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 8, 2022 Share Posted October 8, 2022 Again, this is something you did not enjoy. No need to extrapolate or put judgments on those who do. Why do you feel this thread will go better this time? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 9, 2022 Author Share Posted October 9, 2022 (edited) adding to it really to just enjoy sex without empathic merging is to either be focused on your own sensation during sex || on that of the partner, while there is this big sentience exchange going on between 2 which is deeper than the satisfaction of lust. one has to block it out egoically not to notice that. that's why a lot of narcissistic people, cocaine taking people are able to engage in it so much, it's just fucking your own ego, really. it could be because that's where they allow themselves to be a little bit more selfless. but judging by how they do it, it's unlikely. But it should not be done lightly since that sentience exchange can share you someone's traumas just as it can someone's pleasure. Edited October 9, 2022 by Eothasian Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 9, 2022 Share Posted October 9, 2022 12 hours ago, Eothasian said: adding to it really to just enjoy sex without empathic merging is to either be focused on your own sensation during sex || on that of the partner, while there is this big sentience exchange going on between 2 which is deeper than the satisfaction of lust. one has to block it out egoically not to notice that. that's why a lot of narcissistic people, cocaine taking people are able to engage in it so much, it's just fucking your own ego, really. it could be because that's where they allow themselves to be a little bit more selfless. but judging by how they do it, it's unlikely. But it should not be done lightly since that sentience exchange can share you someone's traumas just as it can someone's pleasure. You're making too much of this. It's fine. Really. There are all kinds of ways to enjoy different sexual dynamics responsibly. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlendingInfinite Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 (edited) Freelance sex is not healthy for anybody. And like jerking off. It is not worth the effort. Edited October 10, 2022 by BlendingInfinite Quote Mention You can derive it from simple logic Left means not right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 51 minutes ago, BlendingInfinite said: Freelance sex is not healthy for anybody. And like jerking off. It is not worth the effort. How can you be so sure? 22 hours ago, Lester Retsel said: You're making too much of this. It's fine. Really. There are all kinds of ways to enjoy different sexual dynamics responsibly. How can you be so sure? Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 55 minutes ago, Eothasian said: How can you be so sure? How can you be so sure? Cause I have direct experience of it Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 12 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: Cause I have direct experience of it And I don't? Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 17 minutes ago, Eothasian said: And I don't? Seems like i have more Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 16 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: Seems like i have more How would that be relevant? Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 16 minutes ago, Eothasian said: How would that be relevant? I would know more. I sincerely enjoy hookups and all kinds of different sexuap dynamics, you just don't, or you have judgment or trauma or baggage or social conditioning or something about your experience wasn't good. But you are trying to make a sweeping statement based on little experience that just isn't true for everyone Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: I would know more. I sincerely enjoy hookups and all kinds of different sexuap dynamics, you just don't, or you have judgment or trauma or baggage or social conditioning or something about your experience wasn't good. But you are trying to make a sweeping statement based on little experience that just isn't true for everyone That seems contradictory based on yourself. Remember you saying something alike "all my hookups were great". So according to that logic, the amount of flings one has wouldn't matter to determine the joy factor, right? How can you say 'based on my learning process' when you had no learning process on that regard? Edited October 10, 2022 by Eothasian Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 12 minutes ago, Eothasian said: That seems contradictory based on yourself. Remember you saying something alike "all my hookups were great". So according to that logic, the amount of flings one has wouldn't matter to determine the joy factor, right? How can you say 'based on my learning process' when you had no learning process on that regard? All mine were great. Maybe not all everyone's always are, mine were, and I know lots of people enjoy them. I didn't say "based on your learning process" and I have no idea what you mean by that. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: All mine were great. Maybe not all everyone's always are, mine were, and I know lots of people enjoy them. I didn't say "based on your learning process" and I have no idea what you mean by that. Have I somewhere denied the possibility of people liking it? By it I mean hook ups, flings whatever? Edited October 10, 2022 by Eothasian Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 4 minutes ago, Eothasian said: Have I somewhere denied the possibility of people liking it? By it I mean hook ups, flings whatever? Sounds like you are trying to say they are no good for anyone in your original post...no? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: Sounds like you are trying to say they are no good for anyone in your original post...no? Do you see difference in depth between "Oh, yeah, that's so good, baby. You give a good blowjob." And "I love you so much that I will guard you." ? Edited October 10, 2022 by Eothasian Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 2 minutes ago, Eothasian said: Do you see difference in depth between "Oh, yeah, that's so good, baby. You give a good blowjob." And "I love you so much that I will guard you." ? Whatever grow up Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 9 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: Whatever grow up Spoken like Leo Gura himself Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonas Long Posted October 10, 2022 Share Posted October 10, 2022 13 minutes ago, Eothasian said: Spoken like Leo Gura himself Broken clock is right once in a while Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eothasian Posted October 10, 2022 Author Share Posted October 10, 2022 2 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said: Broken clock is right once in a while Birds of a feather Quote Mention Animals are good people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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