BlendingInfinite

Not surprised. You are funny.

I thought you are not interested in this discussion lol. So we can end it now.

There is something llke objective truth. You nevet now they really walked your path. I dont care what you do and what people you found.

Yes, it would be hard to admit to yourself that you hardly could change much. Maybe if you are really dedicated over years you could. There is also much scientific evidence available. It is basically proven, so you dont have to trust me. Using your gut is following ego most of the time. Rationality is important and inclusive for success, too.

Anf it took me 3 years to achieve, not 20 or more.

Yes, more than that. Even if I wasnt it would still be true because it is true now.

Leader is Not about leading people. A leadership personality is emotionally stable, self confident, low in neurotism etc. I am not here to lie to you and Tell you fairytails so you feel better. That is because i dont Do it to myself. You can Hardy change your personality.

You not a leader. You habe to be a certain type to work Hard.

It is obvious that she is looking for something better and holds you as a card in her backhand, if she isn’t successful. So she wont feel the fear of being alone. Relationships growing that fast are most of the time not healthy. And you should be very alert, this will very likely turn into a disaster and you will be the fucled one. Not in a good way. Your sense of self worth seems to be very low. She just uses you and you fully commit. If I were you, I would cut off the whole thing immediately.

Because I experienced it and it makes sense to apply to everybody if you look at the psychiatric literature.

Freelance sex is not healthy for anybody. And like jerking off. It is not worth the effort.

Yes I am willing to, but there must be reasonable and justified. Otherwise, anyone could say anything and I would have to accept it as true by default? I think you know what I mean - be humble and think about it before posting an answer. Best is you don't answer to practice humility.

@Mandy You often come across as spiritually elevated, like someone who simply makes assumptions about others, knows everything better, projects and can't admit any mistakes, then tries to turn things around or present them differently. Even if it is obvious. That is then of course also unpleasant. On the other hand, sometimes very useful things are there 🙂 I know you try your best and the intentions are good. I am grateful for everybody who tries to do good in the world.

I already felt turned off, because many things you said to me sounded like prejustices and like I am the person to blame on by default (like I have to apologize even though you don't know how it went apart). And no I am not your lab rat and instead of assigning psychological deficits to others you may look at your self. There is more benefit to gain from. And many people like to talk to me, but I am not that agreeable so of course other people can get upset because I am straight forward.

@Mandy When I once smoked cannabis, every person was so interesting to me. Just for what he is. Kind of like an interesting character like in a movie. I agree on that level and I would like to manifest that feeling permanently. So in that sense I think the advice is good. But I don't resonate with the others.

You didn't get it. To repeat: You said: And I responded: And now you are saying: To make it more understandable as you don't get what I am saying: You say I have to make amends, because I did something wrong and I have to apologize (in your interpretation). Then I respond, that maybe there is nothing to apologize for on my side or maybe it is. But you don't know. So it is like you are making assumptions and now you want to justify yourself, so you don't look stupid. But dear - it is too obvious to obfuscate.

Or maybe something else or nothing. It is interesting that the first thing that appears to you as a possibility is a failure on my side or some negative thing.

I don't dislike people. Often times, they aren't just interesting to me, because they don't say interesting things and are boring. You don't know the situation so you don't know if I have to make amends.

I guess it was something like a pedo grabbed his ass in the 4th grade. And that's it. Leo wants to be the guy on the heros journey, because everyone slightly famous needs such a story.

I was in a bar today and spoke with people. If they laugh I didn't feel anything. What is that🤔 It feels like I lost this feeling of togetherness or communion.

I lost all my friends and it somehow pressures me, because today someone told me, if you get older it gets harder to find friends. What if I missed an important part in my life🤔 I am 33 and it gets scary now from all the sudden. I don't know why but I feel l8mited by my age.. I miss my old friends.. But it is not possible to get them back.

Not true.

Lol now phil gave me a warning because he felt triggered

You should study philosophy and AI, do a phd or something like Bernado Kastrov. Creating a/multiple companies and/or invest. Using your brother to get better in handling people. Because, you would need this anyways for the goals you mentioned. Feels ugly to tell people what they should do 🤮If it is done by 'questions' or not. Idk. maybe buy a cat or something.

Translation: You saying someone is a toxic person is negative, that is why you should apologize for having said it. Moreover, you feel the discord with someone else's thoughts. Translation: You are hypocritical yourself and you yourself is toxic. This is rationalizing & justifying denial & a victim mindset. Summary: I know what you are thinking and feeling. And what I say about you is definitely true. Because, I know it better than most people.