Orb Posted May 14, 2022 Share Posted May 14, 2022 Got my social life and things are really kicking into gear for me fast! I want to **** a lot of girls as I'm a young guy, how do I make this happen? The pickup stuff seems stupid to me so I reject that, what are some ways to **** women? Any advice appreciated 😈......oh I mean 😇🙏. Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 14, 2022 Share Posted May 14, 2022 No girl is ever going to be a lot of girls. So your desire is both effortless and also impossible. 😂 Well, I guess there are threesomes, orgies and multiple personalities and roleplaying. So, whatever you like, it's your reality. 🤷♂️ My point is though, if you make it about the achievement, and not about the moment you psyche yourself out. Make it about the One and Only, not the one and only girl, but the One that you already aren't separate from. Also just go meet people, do what you like, have fun and let go of self doubting thoughts. You are attracting at every moment. People are attracted to happy people. It's just that simple. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MazE Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 On 5/14/2022 at 11:28 PM, Mandy said: 🤷♂️ People are attracted to happy people. It's just that simple. Fuck! It is so simple. Never thought about it this way. What's not so simple though is to be happy when nobody else around is. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 On 5/14/2022 at 4:40 PM, Orb said: Got my social life and things are really kicking into gear for me fast! I want to **** a lot of girls as I'm a young guy, how do I make this happen? The pickup stuff seems stupid to me so I reject that, what are some ways to **** women? Any advice appreciated 😈......oh I mean 😇🙏. You could just google it, but you’ll attract prostitutes / escorts easily nonetheless, as attraction is in kind and they **** a lot of guys. Not saying there’s anything wrong with that at either end, just how loa works. I apologize for the either end pun. Terrible. If you wanted something more, or specifics, you’d also attract something more and those specifics. Meeting girls might be far easier than you think, as they are virtually everywhere you could go. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted May 16, 2022 Author Share Posted May 16, 2022 46 minutes ago, Phil said: Not saying there’s anything wrong with that at either end, just how loa works. I apologize for the either end pun. Terrible. @Phil I missed the pun, maybe it's lack of experience. 😅😬 46 minutes ago, Phil said: Meeting girls might be far easier than you think, as they are virtually everywhere you could go. They really are, it is extremely easy to find girls 😊. I want to take things further with the girls I see out in the world. I want the inspiration to arise in me, some sign of what to do "next" after seeing a girl out in the world. 51 minutes ago, Phil said: You could just google it, but you’ll attract prostitutes / escorts easily nonetheless, as attraction is in kind and they **** a lot of guys. I've just now fully realized that it's not the quantity of women that matters, but the richness of being with the "one" as you've called it. I actually have the image of this "one" and hold it very often throughout the day, Ive even had dreams about her. I would like her to appear.....but in the meantime while I wait I'd like to casually date different women. I don't wanna go celibate until I meet this dream girl. Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 9 hours ago, MazE said: Fuck! It is so simple. Never thought about it this way. What's not so simple though is to be happy when nobody else around is. Stop caring about them, and love them anyway. Two things you can do to tap into this is the practice of tonglen, breathe in thier suffering breathe out relief and peace. See what happens. The other is to love your surroundings. No matter where you are there's something beautiful to behold if you'll look for it. Might be the way the light reflects off a glass. If you feel overlooked, look for what's overlooked. If everyone is using everyone else as an excuse to be unhappy no one is going to budge. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 8 hours ago, Orb said: @Phil😅😬 They really are, it is extremely easy to find girls 😊. I would like her to appear.....but in the meantime while I wait I'd like to casually date different women. I don't wanna go celibate until I meet this dream girl. "Dream" girl. Huh. The dream girl has to be far in the future, she can't just show up today. Some girls are dream girls and others aren't. Huh. Whose dream is it anyway? Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted May 16, 2022 Author Share Posted May 16, 2022 @Mandy 23 minutes ago, Mandy said: Some girls are dream girls and others aren't. Huh. Whose dream is it anyway? Yes, when I see the dream girl I am super attracted at all levels to her. Nothing personal for the girls who aren't, they are still attractive it's just that I wouldn't want a relationship with them. Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MazE Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 54 minutes ago, Mandy said: If everyone is using everyone else as an excuse to be unhappy no one is going to budge. That's true. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 @Orb Just a friendly reminder. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted May 17, 2022 Author Share Posted May 17, 2022 @Phil Haha thanks! Actually feeling inspired to go the online dating route, realized my previous dating profiles were half-assed at best 😄. I get what I put in, guys get all mad about putting love/care into their dating profiles. I put in love/care, I get love/care 💞. Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 @Orb 🧡 🤯 Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 4 hours ago, Orb said: I put in love/care, I get love/care 💞. May I say, this ^ sounds much better then this- On 5/14/2022 at 4:40 PM, Orb said: I want to **** a lot of girls 😒 Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted May 18, 2022 Author Share Posted May 18, 2022 @Faith haha totally agree with that. Those two posts are on a whole different vibe ❤️ Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 @Orb Yes, they are, save that vibe for the women. The other vibe just use a fleshlight. Lol 😂 Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 😊❤️ Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted May 18, 2022 Author Share Posted May 18, 2022 9 minutes ago, Faith said: @Orb Yes, they are, save that vibe for the women. The other vibe just use a fleshlight. Lol 😂 @Faith feedback taken 🤓 @Mandy 🥰 Quote Mention "Mediocrity is gone. Mind is clear of limitation. I seek no state of enlightenment. Neither do I remain where no enlightenment exists. Since I linger in neither condition, eyes cannot see me. If hundreds of birds strew my path with flowers, such praise would be meaningless." - A Comment on the 8th Ox Herding Picture Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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