WhiteOwl Posted May 9, 2022 Share Posted May 9, 2022 (edited) I have been a very competitive person throughout my life, always sizing people up. Wanting to be better than other people and caring about status. I think this is a big hinderance to where i want to go with my life, and i frequently have competitive/negative/judgemental thoughts about other people. I have a big bunch of people that i have a "negative" impression of, and thoughts about them don't feel good. How do i change such a dynamic around? Loving the people that i don't have good associations with? I was thinking about writing a letter to each person (big task), apologising and forgiving them, or something a like, to really try to let them go. (not giving them the letter, just for myself. Anyone done something similar or have advice? I am tired of being small and hurt and negative Edited May 9, 2022 by WhiteOwl Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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