Romantic Relationships are Unnatural

[Mandy]

1 minute ago, Orb said:

Oh noooo, she CAN have it thats the thing. Shes getting it all the time lol. 

She can have millions of dollars without working for it and a confident man who doesn't need her to validate his existence? 

[Orb]

3 minutes ago, Mandy said:

Perfect match. Very synchronistic that we just recently had a conversation about how humans already reproduce asexually. 

Asexually? Not in my experience.

[Orb]

Just now, Mandy said:

She can have millions of dollars without working for it and a confident man who doesn't need her to validate his existence? 

Yea

[Phil]

4 minutes ago, Orb said:

Oh well you said what would i say about this so i took it as what would i say about dating apps. Im just fed up with women but i can never really not be truly fed up. Yea ill make the ideal partner then she'll find someone else to fuck who she thinks is more interesting eventually. Its happened to me before! Arg

I just allow resentment, doubt, fear & insecurity or whatever else is discordant to be felt, illuminated, and therein dispelled & released. Getting out of my own way, she just shows up. But that’s just me. Obviously it’s not for you. You is more about not getting the message from past experience and mentally, suppressively, insuring it repeats. Nothing wrong with that, just not me. 

[Orb]

1 minute ago, Phil said:

I just allow resentment, doubt, fear & insecurity or whatever else is discordant to be felt, illuminated, and therein dispelled & released. Getting out of my own way, she just shows up. But that’s just me. Obviously it’s not for you. You is more about not getting the message from past experience and ensuing it repeats. Nothign wrong with that, just not me. 

Yea ive experienced what its like on clear days and i feel happy and loving to all these people. 

[Phil]

Just now, Orb said:

Yea ive experienced what it’s like on clear days and i feel happy and loving to all these people. 

😂 Sure buddy. 

[Phil]

Resentment: A deep sense of injury, the excitement of passion which proceeds from a sense of wrong offered to one's self or one's kindred or friends," especially when directed at the author of the affront.

 

Vibrational Tinder Profile: “Hi! I resent women. Let’s fuck!”

 

Outer vibrational appearance of the inner:

 

 

The core belief is all this goes away when you get laid, create a relationship or marriage. It doesn’t. It just makes your relationship or marriage as shitty as the dating experience. 

[Orb]

5 minutes ago, Phil said:

Resentment: A deep sense of injury, the excitement of passion which proceeds from a sense of wrong offered to one's self or one's kindred or friends," especially when directed at the author of the affront.

 

Vibrational Tinder Profile: “Hi! I resent women. Let’s fuck!”

Pretty much. Im vomiting. Im so horny and addicted to sex, i want my wife but in the meantime as this shit flushes out im frustrated.

[Orb]

13 minutes ago, Phil said:

😂 Sure buddy. 

What?!! Im being forreal!

[Mandy]

20 minutes ago, Orb said:

Yea

If she had that why would she write you paragraphs back? 

[Orb]

Just now, Mandy said:

If she had that why would she write you paragraphs back? 

Bc she wants more!!!

[Phil]

11 minutes ago, Orb said:

Pretty much. Im vomiting. Im so horny and addicted to sex, i want my wife but in the meantime as this shit flushes out im frustrated.

Again, weird. Not wrong, just such a weird approach. 

 

10 minutes ago, Orb said:

What?!! Im being forreal!

Utter horseshit bruh. 

 

“It puts the desire on the dreamboard & receives”. 

- with love, Puppy. 

 

What “guy”?

That, and all the statistics, odds, randomness, evidence, proof, luck and all comparisons therein supporting your righteousness - are imagined. Imagination. Works perfectly for what’s wanted too. Positive expectations, without attachment. Nice. But again, you do you. 

[Mandy]

@Orb Are you working out for a half hour to an hour every day except for rest days? 

 

 

[Orb]

2 minutes ago, Mandy said:

@Orb Are you working out for a half hour to an hour every day except for rest days? 

 

 

What relevance does this have?

[Reena]

1 hour ago, Orb said:

So dating apps have become like the female equivalent of what porn does for men. Its an app that provides you with an unnaturally high amount of options with males. Imagine you have a couple matches and youre texting those girls, those girls youre texting have a shitload of matches and on top of that they are getting 5-10 matches every 5 minutes maybe even less. 

 

The problem with this is that it leads to women becoming more and more picky and 80% of the guys on these apps are ignored completely. 

 

You have no idea how many times ive tried to start off conversations by being nice and warm and etc. only to be completely ignored 90% of the time because the girl im texting has like 50 guys messaging her all at once, this form of "dating" is simply unsustainable and will not work unless you have a lot of resources. This high volume of men that women have access to leads to them becoming bored more easily and more choosy and having unrealistic expectations (similar to how porn gives men unrealistic expectations of how women should act and look).

 

Wanna know something funny? I once matched with this really beautiful girl and i messaged her and no response whatsoever for 2 days. Then i decided id fuck around and experiment so i told her i had 3 businesses and work all the time and how i enjoy the fruits of my success but want to start dating now (subtly implying im rich asf!). 

 

Women get a lot of men, but they aren't desirable to them. Women only occasionally get attracted to some random man, it's a stroke of luck generally. So it's not easy for them either. 

[Mandy]

9 minutes ago, Orb said:

What relevance does this have?

A lot. You said I'd understand if I had testosterone, and my dog is unneutered and when he doesn't get his afternoon run and exercise he tries to hump everything that evening. 😂It's very much the same with humans, especially when you're younger.  Exercise also slows down thought activity, releases dopamine, makes you less prone to think insecure crappy thoughts about yourself, and makes you far less horny and reactive. So why not start everyday with 15 minutes of meditation, followed by a half hour to an hour of exercise? Seems like for the women situation, and all other aspects of life, it would be a win, win, win. 

[Blessed2]

1 hour ago, Orb said:

The dating apps dont work. At all. This is actually a real problem in the USA. 

 

It's not a problem in the USA, it's a problem on the Bro Joegan podcasts and Tantrew Bait instagram reels. Tune the symbolic radio to a different station.

 

1 hour ago, Orb said:

only to be completely ignored 90% of the time

 

Not being ignored 10% of the time.

 

I used Tinder a lot for years. Amount of conversations that got further than a few messages I can count with my fingers probably. Never had more than 2 tinder dates. The second one lead to a relationship. Been together for 2 and a half years.

 

I'd very much suggest that if you want a relationship, download Tinder and maybe other apps like OkCupid.

 

Write a good bio, add good pictures, and start a conversation with each match.

 

 

Appreciate this experience of "poverty". It's actually kind of fascinating. A book called Busting Loose From The Money Game is about money, but it's great for any other areas too.

[Blessed2]

36 minutes ago, Orb said:

Im so horny and addicted to sex

 

What else do you want from a relationship that sex?

 

[Orb]

7 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

It's not a problem in the USA, it's a problem on the Bro Joegan podcasts and Tantrew Bait instagram reels. Tune the symbolic radio to a different station.

What?! 😭😂😂 i dont even watch that content 

[Orb]

9 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

What else do you want from a relationship that sex?

 

I dont just want sex this is a misunderstanding. I know the one is out there for me but in the meantime im horny asf.