Phil Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 16 minutes ago, Someone here said: I watch porn and bust a nut whenever I want . Any antagonism? How do you assume I have" porn addiction" ? Did I say that ? Dont put words on my mouth which I don't say please. The OP is sharing their experience and asking for support and said “suggestions or experiences from others who've faced similar challenges would be appreciated”. You have mentioned many times on this forum you experienced / experience what the OP shared. So there is no assumption… 53 minutes ago, Someone here said: Get serious. Get real .stop this habbit. You are destroying your manhood. Porn is ruined by satanic forces. It ruins everything beautiful about the most beautiful thing in existence which is sex and utterly distort your view about it . Just do it man. Grow some balls . … and this makes it sound like you’re giving advice, sharing from what worked. 16 minutes ago, Someone here said: However..I'm 27 now ..so my testosterone levels kinda stabilised and I'm not that horny anymore . But when I was a teenager I swear I could get "it " up for a female cat. I fapped to porn of course and was hooked 😂..but that's something from the past . Porn and excessive masturbation have its phase in life ..which is when you are a high school kid . Not when you are a grown ass man. You might hugely disagree(probably due to cultural reasons) but whatever. It doesn’t sound like ‘getting serious’, ‘getting real’, ‘stopping this habit’, ‘just do it’ or ‘grow some balls’ is advice from direct experience of what actually worked, is all. So it leads me to wonder why you’re saying these things. Let alone beliefs about ‘destroying your manhood’, and ‘satanic forces’. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 10 minutes ago, Reena said: It can work for someone who doesn't wish to masturbate anymore. In my case it didn't work because I don't want to abandon masturbation forever. Making it such that one can no longer masturbate - you are saying is defined as having actually worked…? And more so, you previously said, “Then one day you might want your ability to masturbate back”. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 @Reena OK I apologise. I mean we are in the 21st century..so like ..we are Not living in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan or something like that ..there must be some decency sure ..but if you don't mind you can share . Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 11 minutes ago, Someone here said: @Reena why can't you masturbate ? What exactly is the problem "down there "? BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHH Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 @Phil you are not paying attention to what I'm saying..I doubt that there is a single male in the entire world who didn't have issues regarding porn and masturbation. It has its phase .it ebbs and flows .as of late ..I'm 100% not in a rush for my next masturbation session. I'm deeply sexually satisfied. I enjoy music and the birds and sun ..nature etc more . Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 @Isagi Yoichi yes ? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 4 minutes ago, Someone here said: Not living in Saudi Arabia Did you really say Saudi Arabia lmfao ? Saudi is like 100x more powerful now compared to the past not to mention that ur are living in India where the Middle East is like heaven compared to India like how Europe and America are better than the middle east, as long as the cast system in India that enslaves people vanish u can't talk shit about other countries Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 @Isagi Yoichi go get wasted . I'm Not in the mood for dabbling nonsense and talking shit with a random NPC. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reena Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 7 minutes ago, Phil said: Making it such that one can no longer masturbate - you are saying is defined as having actually worked…? I mean if you don't want it anymore(because of addiction) then exhausting it is the way to get rid of it the way I did. But if you want it back then exhausting it can be a mistake. Porn addiction is the easiest to get rid of. It goes away eventually. If overdoing it further fuels the addiction then time for a Porn rehab clinic I guess. Quote Mention So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 Just now, Someone here said: @Isagi Yoichi go get wasted . I'm Not in the mood for dabbling nonsense and talking shit with a random NPC. U are really brainwashed with the youtube bs of NPC and real MEN, SATANIC, NO FAP and all this sigma bs propaganda Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 I don't give a shit about convincing anyone about my usage of the word "satanic " regarding that industry . You just either know this or you are yet to awaken to it . Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 (edited) I like seeing porn addicts who give advice get exposed Edited July 15 by Isagi Yoichi Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 16 minutes ago, Someone here said: .I doubt that there is a single male in the entire world who didn't have issues regarding porn and masturbation. It has its phase .it ebbs and flows BELIEFS Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 @Isagi Yoichi just like yourself ? I said clearly that i masturbate to porn ..I literally said it and not ashamed of it . And I'm not sitting here moralising or lecturing anyone. Everyone does whatever he wants with his dick .chopp it off and become a sissy pretty girl for all I care . Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Someone here Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 15 minutes ago, Someone here said: Everyone does whatever he wants with his dick .chopp it off and become a sissy pretty girl for all I care Never knew about myself that I have good sense of humour 😂 Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 1 hour ago, Someone here said: Get serious. Get real .stop this habbit. You are destroying your manhood. Porn is ruined by satanic forces. It ruins everything beautiful about the most beautiful thing in existence which is sex and utterly distort your view about it . Just do it man. Grow some balls . 1 hour ago, Someone here said: Which approach? Me saying porn industry is ruined by satanic forces? That's literally the case . that's been the case since Hugh Hefner's sexual revolution in mid 60s (the founder of Playboy). And it does ruin how you view sex and what expectations to have ..sex in porn (the professional sites not the homemade trash) is so flashy and fantastic and has nothing to do with real sex . Sex is a sacred thing .I'm not saying one should only have a sexual release with a spouse as I am not religious or close minded ..but I do think that it must be done only with someone you deeply love and care about . As for masturbation its just stupid I have nothing more to describe about it . 24 minutes ago, Someone here said: And I'm not sitting here moralising or lecturing anyone. LMFAO Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isagi Yoichi Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 (edited) 1 hour ago, Someone here said: ..there must be some decency sure ..but if you don't mind you can share . Why tf u wanna know creep? and saying we are in the 21st century as a justification for your creepy behaviour lmao Edited July 15 by Isagi Yoichi Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blessed2 Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 On 7/13/2024 at 7:43 PM, Menungso said: Does anyone else struggle with quitting pornography and reducing masturbation? I've realized it's become excessive for me. In the past, I used these as coping mechanisms for childhood issues. Now that I've worked through that trauma, the habits persist. I've noticed my erections aren't as strong as they used to be. Additionally, I'm in a relationship now and want to focus on my partner's needs. I'm looking for support and advice, as this topic can be difficult to discuss openly without feeling shame or guilt. Despite my efforts, I haven't been able to stop yet. Any suggestions or experiences from others who've faced similar challenges would be appreciated. Don't worry about it. When it comes to masturbation / porn addiction, the thoughts (worry, unworthiness) "I'm addicted to porn and masturbation" is a hundred times worse than any actual negative effects of masturbating or watching porn often. Rather than trying to quit, I'd go the other way. If you're going to masturbate, do it with intention and style. Plan it. Actually set some time for it, only for masturbation. Like 1hr every other day. Choose a designated place to do it. Choose designated clothes (or no clothes) to do it with. Buy some toys (and stay safe with this one btw, buy actual sex toys and use them as they're intended to be used.) Experiment with different kinds of sense experiences, such as hot, cold, taste, smell, sound. To get even more freaky, eat healthy, fresh foods to amp up the vitality. Lots of fruits and vegetables for breakfast. Exercise is good too. Like going for a run. Swimming in natural water is also awesome. How is this masturbation and porn consumption affecting your ability to focus on your partner's needs? Quote Mention I am the playful and ever-present Source, joyfully embracing every thought and emotion as part of my perfect, unfolding co-creative dream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 1 hour ago, Someone here said: @Phil you are not paying attention to what I'm saying..I doubt that there is a single male in the entire world who didn't have issues regarding porn and masturbation. It has its phase .it ebbs and flows .as of late ..I'm 100% not in a rush for my next masturbation session. I'm deeply sexually satisfied. I enjoy music and the birds and sun ..nature etc more . I was asking about the comment. 2 hours ago, Someone here said: Get serious. Get real .stop this habbit. You are destroying your manhood. Porn is ruined by satanic forces. It ruins everything beautiful about the most beautiful thing in existence which is sex and utterly distort your view about it . Just do it man. Grow some balls . Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted July 15 Share Posted July 15 1 hour ago, Someone here said: I don't give a shit about convincing anyone about my usage of the word "satanic " regarding that industry . You just either know this or you are yet to awaken to it . A you awakening to an it isn’t awakening at all, obviously right? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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