What would your perfect parent be like?

[Devin]

Please describe in your own way what your perfect parent would be like?

 

For example, looking back

How would they be "loving"?

How would they guide and discipline?

How would they teach?

How would they be as a person?

What would their life priorities be?

What would their values be?

....

[Mandy]

Why would anyone want perfect? 

[Devin]

29 minutes ago, Mandy said:

Why would anyone want perfect? 

per·fect

adjective

/ˈpərfək(t)/

1.

having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be.

[Mandy]

@Devin Do you desire or require perfection? Cause I don't. Perfection would be really boring, which wouldn't be perfect or therefore desired. 

[Devin]

Just now, Mandy said:

@Devin Do you desire or require perfection? 

Yep

[Mandy]

@Devin Oh, ok. 

[Devin]

@Mandy what would be your ideal traits for a parent?

How would they be "loving"?

How would they guide and discipline?

How would they teach?

How would they be as a person?

What would their life priorities be?

What would their values be?

[Mandy]

8 hours ago, Devin said:

@Mandy what would be your ideal traits for a parent?

How would they be "loving"?

How would they guide and discipline?

How would they teach?

How would they be as a person?

What would their life priorities be?

What would their values be?

You have some kids and you tell me. 

[grace]

A good parent connects with their children from a light pleasant feeling (listening to wisdom). They minimize their parenting when they're in a bad mood. They listen to their children (and don't listen to their own thoughts and perceptions and judgements while their child is expressing and think that counts as listening). They teach their children how we are made, that they are born as perfect and teach them to listen to their own wisdom (which is really the same wisdom we all share). 

[Phil]

The kind in the exact same boat. 

[Reena]

Someone who listens rather than talk over.