My way of "enjoying" duality would be to finish the process of reintegration of my personal unconsciouss. To heal all my wounds, let the Light shine through my shadows, so that i don't have to run away from my relative, hurt self by employing different defence strategies. Then my soul, a point value of the Supreme, could live in communion with the Supreme even on the "surface", in my daily life.
I intuit more and more, that my path is not merging with God, but to exist in communion with Him/Her.
So for me this would be a "sacred duality", and not egoic duality...