Kevin Posted May 19, 2023 Share Posted May 19, 2023 Recently I believe I got ghosted. It might be too early to tell as it’s only been a couple hours but I think I’m gonna be ghosted. I’m honestly so sick of it. I’m especially frustrated because I met this girl at the pool and we talked for like 30 minutes. And I could tell she was attracted too. All the signs were there that she was attracted to me. And I even asked her if she wanted to get drinks soon and she enthusiastically said yes. Then when I texted her today, no reply. I am so sick of it and then I experience jealousy and resentment. And I feel insecurity because it really seemed like she liked me but I guess not. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin Posted May 19, 2023 Author Share Posted May 19, 2023 I am also sick of thinking I need a woman to be happy. And I’m also sick of thinking that whether or not a girl likes me is my fault and my responsibility. And I’m sick of thinking it’s my fault if a girl ghosts me and that it means something about me. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin Posted May 19, 2023 Author Share Posted May 19, 2023 3 hours ago, Kevin said: I am also sick of thinking I need a woman to be happy. And I’m also sick of thinking that whether or not a girl likes me is my fault and my responsibility. And I’m sick of thinking it’s my fault if a girl ghosts me and that it means something about me. All this is still relevant but I’m stupid as hell. I didn’t get ghosted. Lmao. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhiteOwl Posted May 19, 2023 Share Posted May 19, 2023 (edited) Haven't you ever tried when someone wants to force you to do something, even without saying, then you don't feel like doing it? Its not a good vibration, especially not when it comes to dating/having fun. You are repelling her because she feels some underlying stuff from you. Don't make it about her. Sit down and inquire into those questions. 3 hours ago, Kevin said: I am also sick of thinking I need a woman to be happy. And I’m also sick of thinking that whether or not a girl likes me is my fault and my responsibility. And I’m sick of thinking it’s my fault if a girl ghosts me and that it means something about me. I did Byron Katies The work on some questions the other day. I was not disappointed, it was really great and easy'd(is that how you would spell that?) a lot of perspectives. Edited May 19, 2023 by WhiteOwl Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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