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Ges

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  1. 1 minute ago, Annie said:

    How do we get to a point where everyone says what they need to about Leo or Phil, and we all decide to do productive things instead of arguing with one another?

    What steps would need to be taken for that to happen, so that everyone is at peace with one another and no feelings are too hurt?

     

    Step1: People need to stop worshiping authority.

    Step2: People need to start listening to reason.

    Step3: I'll be on Actulaized if you ever decide to come back there.

     

  2. For those who don't know what a flying monkey is:

    https://narcissistabusesupport.com/red-flags/use-flying-monkeys/

    "The term ‘flying monkeys’ is another way of saying ‘abuse by proxy’ or having someone else do the bidding of in this case a narcissist. The term flying monkey was coined after the flying monkeys in the Wizard of Oz that were under the spell of the Wicked Witch of the East, to do her bidding against Dorothy and her friends."

     

    🤤🙉🍼

     

  3. 42 minutes ago, Faith said:

    Saturday morning you called out 4 separate ppl with there posts (Phil, Mandy, Robed Mystic and blendinginfinite) looking for a fight. You posted one after another. I replied to you "who pissed in your cheerios today" which made you come to your senses.

     

    That's a narrative that you've constructed by misconstruing the original context, dear 💘

    1. Phil was talking to me originally.
    2. Mandy was defending him (a mod who replied to me first).
    3. Dave and I are good.
    4. blendinginfinite was defending Phil (a member/flying monkey who replied to me first).
    5. You were defending Phil too (another mod who replied to me first), by projecting this story of being pissed onto me. I reflected and found out that my way of interaction was reactive, but I denied being pissed. You kept projecting that I was pissed, told me you were sorry about the electrical problem that I had, and I ignored that and thanked you 🙋‍♂️🌍

    Conclusion: My story holds up. Your story doesn't 🤗

  4. 5 hours ago, Faith said:

    truly you seem like you are just trying to start trouble. Day after day now you are having a problem with someone, if not multiple someone's.

     

    After reflecting, I sadly conclude that your perception is wrong 🤙😸💕

    What you are calling "trying to start trouble" is basically two events:

    • The first event with that person, I don't want to talk about that anymore.
    • The second event with Phil and his never-ending "trying to reach clarity" even after clarifying time and time again that I answered his original question 🧏‍♀️

    The rest is just you and other people chiming in and telling me that I'm wrong etc. and me replying to some of your comments, entertaining your feedback and changing some of my behaviors. But when I reply to you and you don't like it, you make it to be all about me, the evil devil who is starting trouble. Not too convenient of a narrative to construct about me, if you think about it, is it? 💅

    Basically the same cult dynamics that we used to see on Actualized where the admin can do no wrong and the mods immediately jump to his defense, and let's not forget about the flying monkeys 😏🤹‍♂️

    Apparently, cults don't necessarily form consciously or on purpose. It's almost like the natural trajectory of any hierarchical structure that humans build 🤣🐳

     

  5. 24 minutes ago, Faith said:

    Because, I can read. 

     

    I can read, and think, too 🐣👻

     

    24 minutes ago, Faith said:

    Yep, because you are trying to portray your opinions and assumptions, as facts

     

    Take what you like and leave the rest 💫👀

     

    24 minutes ago, Faith said:

    and truly you seem like you are just trying to start trouble. Day after day now you are having a problem with someone, if not multiple someone's.

     

    It's no trouble for me, but people are different 🏄‍♂️🛰️

     

  6. 9 hours ago, Faith said:

    There was no twisting of meanings and deflecting of a point with a straw-man answer!

     

    You seem so sure. Not really sure why 👒🥰🤩

     

    9 hours ago, Faith said:

     You need to do some more of that self-reflecting stuff my dear

     

    Self-reflection is exclusive to me, it seems. That's fine, it never hurt me anyway 👦🍇

     

  7. How to deal with snowflakes online? Use emojis after each statement to make them sound less serious, less masculine, more feminine, etc. You can use inappropriate emojis as long as they look colorful and positive, or at least not negative. The more emojis, the better.

    For example:

    • I don't like you 🙈💰🌈
    • The weather looks great 🦷🥲👾
    • How are you doing? 🍦1️⃣✂️
    • Thank you dear 🐝🏍️

    Emojis are probably the main antagonist of the masculine frame. Many girls lost attraction after I started using them while texting. Now I keep it to a minimum, and let them use all the emojis that they want. For online forums, the masculine frame is not necessary, and many people here seem to have a shadow/traumas around masculinity in general, so emojis are fine as they decrease the overall masculine tone of the communication. I'll just attach random emojis to the end of each statement from now on 🍽️👗🏝️

  8. 4 minutes ago, Phil said:

    Seeing feedback, prior to the feedback transpiring? Do you mean like precognition, clairvoyance or something along those lines?

     

    Feedback: This is super annoying. It's clear what Joseph meant. Yet, you twisted the meaning around and made sarcasm out of it, while pretending that you are being serious. You deflected the point with this straw-man answer, as you always do. But of course, this is all my projection, etc.

     

    4 minutes ago, Phil said:

    There aren’t people who are awake and people who aren’t.

     

    False. My roommate is sleeping right here in the same room, while I'm awake replying to you.

    Don't be surprised. That's just typical Phil twisting around of the point.

  9. 44 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

    I did 5-MeO-DMT for the first time a day or two ago just to see wtf Leo Gura has been yammering about for so long using all his terminology.  Here's the trip report.
     

     

     

    I think I have had a milder version of this experience a couple of times during prolonged meditation sessions. Lost the sense of "I" and became the surroundings, so basically awareness. Though, I didn't experience this shock state that feels like a vegetative state. But it was clear that I was not here in the middle of the experience, behind the eyes, nor really anywhere.

  10. 22 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

     

    If you were awake Phil, you would see that feedback before anyone said it to you.  You would acknowledge the egoic shadow side of things instead of pretending they don't apply to you.  That's what I picked up on right away and said to myself -- this is why I can't be on anyone else's community for very long.  Once I start to unpack the teacher and that doesn't go well, there's nowhere else for me to go but out.  I'm not a huge fan of people who hold themselves out as spiritual teachers because I think it's pretending.  The convoluted language is pretending too.  If you have something to say to someone, you can always find a way to say it clearly.  So, when someone seems to always speak with a kind of mumbo-jumbo that tells me (1) they don't know what they're talking about, (2) they really don't want you to know what they're talking about, or (3) they're trying to give themselves a superficial air of spiritual-ness.  So, I see you and Leo Gura kind of playing the same game with the spiritual teacher schtick, and that's fine, but I'm not doing that in my work.

     

    I'm going to tell you why this is true.  The secret to spiritual enlightenment is only to be found in you.  Period.  There's no teacher but you. 

     

    This is gold! And it is what I actually like the most about you, man. I am not even a philosophy student, nor do I read philosophy books or anything like that. But in your videos, you make it sound super easy, it's all clear and understandable. You give me clarity. Every time I watch a video of yours, I notice that I gain some more clarity. The same happens every time I read one of your posts. I think you should market yourself some more to gain more audience, because the value you provide is enormous, imo.

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