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Iesu

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  1. 4 minutes ago, Aware Wolf said:

    I was a lurker on Actualized briefly. It felt toxic. It felt dirty. I could tell it was affecting me. I deleted Actualized forum windows on my computer and felt better. 

    Like putting out a dumpster fire. 

      Unnecessary and avoidable. 

  2. 7 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

     

    It's also kind underhanded to have this kind of discussion without Leo being able to respond.  I understand there are 2 lengthy threads on Actualized that do this to Phil (Nahm) too.  But one of the most fundamental principles of good faith communication is to give the person being complained about (1) notice of the complaint and (2) an ability to be heard in response (3) in a fair proceeding.

    I logged in and the first response was literally fuck nahm 

  3. 17 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

    I feel like it ain't right to continue to talk smack about Leo.   Remember this, Leo can respond too if he wants to.  So far he hasn't.  If you sow the seeds of bad karma back things come from that.  What goes around comes around.  Poor guy is obviously not making videos and is probably going through something.  I don't know what more needs to be said here.  If you disagree with this, let's try to keep the conversation from digressing into being triggered.

    The poor guy calls people idiots and stupid every other post. And treats women like dogs. If Leo responds I'm dropping my Addy 

    Only bad karma I'm getting Is on my credit score

  4. @Baller

    6 hours ago, Baller said:

    Nope.  

    Nope.

    Sure.  But they cannot have both freedom and simultaneously demand a special environment that imposes on others.  That's called "asking for privilege."

     

    See #3.

     

    Everyone is "sensitive, traumatized or vulnerable" to some degree.  I am as well.  The difference is that I'm not asking for special treatment because I feel I'm entitled to it.  If I don't like what someone is posting, I can block them or stop responding.  

     

    You first.  Your comments on this subject reek of entitlement and victim privilege.  They are a form of passive bullying, i.e. CRYBULLYING.  You should recognize that the world doesn't owe you anything -- only then will your mental health begin to improve.

     

    6 hours ago, Cupcake said:

    @Baller asking for decent treatment is not called asking for privilege. 

    And why the hell is this to do with mental disorders. Even a normal person could be driven over the edge by constant bullying. What the hell? 

    Stop justifying bullying. Enough. 

     

    Why do people like you exist on the internet? 

    Your comments are full of vitriol and absolute lack of empathy. 

    Maybe you need to be off the internet. 

     

    Have you ever heard of reddit lol @Cupcake

  5. 11 hours ago, Cupcake said:

    This place is so crazy. I can't imagine how bullying is supported, enabled, justified or simply downplayed or minimized. Like so much justifying about something that is clearly extremely extremely and insanely wrong 

     

    I don't know why online communities are so creepy and fucked up frankly. 

    Everything that is really bad and unacceptable is given the green signal in such places. 

     

    Totally not okay. Nobody is being Hyper sensitive.

    Even a normal person would go insane with this sort of attacking. 

    If people were so fundamentally strong, then Leo wouldn't have banned people on his forum. Even he can't take people constantly bad mouthing him despite being an internet personality. 

     

    You guys never received the bitter end of what it means to be harassed or bullied in the truest sense. That's why you can't relate and that's why this harshness indifference and negativity. 

     

    Wait till you face it yourself to an extreme degree where it robs your peace of mind and you'll know 

     

    You'll simply log off the forum because you won't have the balls to face it 

     

     

     

     

    11 hours ago, Cupcake said:

    @Joseph Maynor self development can only happen in a safe environment. 

     

     

    12 hours ago, Joseph Maynor said:

     

    Stop giving people the crazy/dramatic reaction they're salivating over.  And the way to do this would be to improve your life so you feel secure, powerful, sovereign, at peace, supported, etc.   Nobody bullies a person that exudes confidence, wealth, prestige, value, etc.   People who are bullied are people that give off a signal of low self-esteem or some other kind of lack of self-care or vulnerability.  There are people at stage red who will try to control people who have deficiencies in self-esteem or other disabilities.

     

    Don't go to people, let them come to you.  If you have an inherent divine value, that's there for you.  That will always be there.  So you have that value, and others will appreciate this if it's given from a perspective of abundance.  But you have to wait, be patient, and not needy.  Let people suffer your absence.

     

    I would say halve (50% decrease) the time spent online on social media and use that time in other ways to begin.  Isolation is good.  It can just be mindfulness meditation, habits, planning, clarifying values, talking to real people, walking around outside, going to places where people are (like the mall or the grocery store, etc.).

     

    The way to start this would be to keep a log of daily time spent on social media.  It's just like dealing with any kind of addiction.  

     

    People who can't do anything about their condition are bullied and vulnerable.  What I try to do is help these people become independent and invulnerable.  You can't avoid avoid bullying, but what you can do is change up your approach to the bully, and also have people in your life that can coach you in dealing with a bully.  I would say the key way to deal with a bully is to deeply know and protect your own value and worth. 

     

    People tend to think, this person doesn't even care for themselves, so why should I care for them?  But something that cares for itself exudes a kind of energy that says "I'm valuable and I know it."  And then others kind of take you at your own genuine estimation of yourself.  But it has to be real, it can't be fake.  We humans can sniff out deficiencies in self-worth like a hawk.

    I literally got called bloody tampon for a semester at school. Because I dyed my hair red.  What Joseph said was pretty much par for the course. 

    But I feel like being a female online and in general is a lot different. 

    Also I was in the army self development can happen anywhere 

  6. @Robed Mystic and don't call me connor murphy. Connor was recording shit for his 2 million sub audience trolling leo. He deadass said he was some 5th dimension star seed. 

    I wasnt chewing on my shirt screaming I have physcosis. I was actively pursing help and setting goals and working to be more mature. 

    And truth pulled me out of the abyss. 

    Leo literally said there is a bubble and when you're head moves the bubble moves combined with other people are a fantasy. And you wonder why people have a problem with him 

     

    There has never been any emotional discord from Phil, frank yang, Anna brown, tolle, Spira, sadguru, osho, ONLY Leo 

    And his behavior has been the most shady 

  7. 8 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

    Right because they were taken out of context and out of order far before you had the foundations or even the life experience.   This again is why psychedelics can shatter one's life if they aren't ready.  If you have been listening to spiritual teachings at age 16 then take DMT you may be shown something you were not prepared for.

    My first trip was at 15 or 16 and it was amazing. As 90% plus of my trips have been too. As I told you and many others. When I first realized self=other it was fucking amazing. But leos content was not suited for me not that I can't handle truth but the guy is misleading as fuck. And quite frankly after seeing his behavior over the years he's not exactly the nicest person setting spirituality aside 

  8. N@Robed Mystic no I have tripped many times before and after Leo. ALL my dmt trips have been amazing as the other trips too. I have tripped almost 60 times at 21. The way self=other was explained combined and taking beliefs about it. That was the issue not truth or love or even psychedelics. Phil and every other person was assuring me that it was that good. But I put authority in Leo when that was a foolish thing to do. 

  9. 4 minutes ago, Robed Mystic said:

    Josh - come on man I've brought you back from the abyss becaise you took the stuff as a belief and you weren't ready for everything.   You were a Connor Murphy basically.  So you can be vindictive towards Actualized or you can realize that you got too deep into spirituality too fast.  And that is why I don't personally throw all this stuff at you.  It's too much for you and you are no where near ready.  That's also why it is better to take all of the deeper material and shield it from young impressionable eyes - like yourself.  And that is being done as we speak.  At the same time you also have to man up.

    I left my revenge at the door. I should have stopped watching Leo and gone solo.  Truth is love. But messages like I had a traumatic experience I imagined my mom aren't exactly the best pointers. 

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