BlendingInfinite
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1 minute ago, Orb said:
I thought you are not interested in this discussion lol. So we can end it now.
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4 minutes ago, Orb said:
Those are your beliefs, if they served you well then good, otherwise I'm no longer interested in this discussion.
I am on a different path than you, I will seek guidance from those who have walked the path I'm on now, and I've found plenty people for that.
There is something llke objective truth.
You nevet now they really walked your path. I dont care what you do and what people you found.
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1 minute ago, Orb said:
Yes, it would be hard to admit to yourself that you hardly could change much.
Maybe if you are really dedicated over years you could.
There is also much scientific evidence available. It is basically proven, so you dont have to trust me.
Using your gut is following ego most of the time. Rationality is important and inclusive for success, too.
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Anf it took me 3 years to achieve, not 20 or more.
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1 minute ago, Orb said:
@BlendingInfinite are you in a position where you're financially successful? Im talking like making more than 500k+ a year.
Are you in a leadership position?
Yes, more than that.
Even if I wasnt it would still be true because it is true now.
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23 hours ago, Orb said:
@BlendingInfinite I'm fine, i got all those things completed already lol.
I'm not interested in being a leader or a follower personally.
Leader is Not about leading people. A leadership personality is emotionally stable, self confident, low in neurotism etc. I am not here to lie to you and Tell you fairytails so you feel better. That is because i dont Do it to myself. You can Hardy change your personality.
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You not a leader.
You habe to be a certain type to work Hard.
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It is obvious that she is looking for something better and holds you as a card in her backhand, if she isn’t successful. So she wont feel the fear of being alone.
Relationships growing that fast are most of the time not healthy. And you should be very alert, this will very likely turn into a disaster and you will be the fucled one. Not in a good way.
Your sense of self worth seems to be very low. She just uses you and you fully commit. If I were you, I would cut off the whole thing immediately.
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20 hours ago, Eothasian said:
How can you be so sure?
How can you be so sure?
Because I experienced it and it makes sense to apply to everybody if you look at the psychiatric literature.
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Freelance sex is not healthy for anybody. And like jerking off. It is not worth the effort.
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30 minutes ago, Mandy said:
not at all willing to take them about yourself
Yes I am willing to, but there must be reasonable and justified. Otherwise, anyone could say anything and I would have to accept it as true by default?
I think you know what I mean - be humble and think about it before posting an answer. Best is you don't answer to practice humility.
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You often come across as spiritually elevated, like someone who simply makes assumptions about others, knows everything better, projects and can't admit any mistakes, then tries to turn things around or present them differently. Even if it is obvious. That is then of course also unpleasant.
On the other hand, sometimes very useful things are there 🙂
I know you try your best and the intentions are good. I am grateful for everybody who tries to do good in the world.
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31 minutes ago, Mandy said:
Do you think when you talk to people like you just did with me here, that they are interested in talking with you more, or sticking around and being your friend? Because to be totally honest with you, I feel very turned off as to continuing this conversation asides from my interest in the psychology behind it. You don't seem open, you don't seem appreciative of my time or like you even respect me as a fellow human being. I could talk more about how reaching out to people and apologizing in my personal experience was life changing, but it's likely you'd pick it apart and personally try to fault me for something, so why should I bother?
I already felt turned off, because many things you said to me sounded like prejustices and like I am the person to blame on by default (like I have to apologize even though you don't know how it went apart). And no I am not your lab rat and instead of assigning psychological deficits to others you may look at your self. There is more benefit to gain from.
And many people like to talk to me, but I am not that agreeable so of course other people can get upset because I am straight forward.
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When I once smoked cannabis, every person was so interesting to me. Just for what he is. Kind of like an interesting character like in a movie.
I agree on that level and I would like to manifest that feeling permanently. So in that sense I think the advice is good. But I don't resonate with the others.
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45 minutes ago, Mandy said:
Maybe you just aren't asking them good questions.
The situation has less to do with it than you might think. That's the sneakiness of it.
You didn't get it.
To repeat:
You said:
On 10/2/2022 at 12:23 AM, Mandy said:Make amends with your old friends. Reach out, be willing to apologize for your part
And I responded:
1 hour ago, BlendingInfinite said:You don't know the situation so you don't know if I have to make amends
And now you are saying:
45 minutes ago, Mandy said:The situation has less to do with it than you might think
To make it more understandable as you don't get what I am saying:
You say I have to make amends, because I did something wrong and I have to apologize (in your interpretation). Then I respond, that maybe there is nothing to apologize for on my side or maybe it is. But you don't know.
So it is like you are making assumptions and now you want to justify yourself, so you don't look stupid. But dear - it is too obvious to obfuscate.
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38 minutes ago, Mandy said:
Maybe you just aren't asking them good questions.
The situation has less to do with it than you might think. That's the sneakiness of it.
Or maybe something else or nothing.
It is interesting that the first thing that appears to you as a possibility is a failure on my side or some negative thing.
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On 10/2/2022 at 12:23 AM, Mandy said:
You have to be willing to actually like people. Just like them, for who they are, see the beauty in it. Don't expect stuff from them, don't expect them to be better, don't think that their "value" is a reflection on your "value". Realize that they owe you nothing, they don't need you, you don't need them, it's all just for fun. Just have fun with people and appreciate them for exactly what they are in the moment. Appreciate diversity. Make amends with your old friends. Reach out, be willing to apologize for your part even if they may have had a part too.
I don't dislike people. Often times, they aren't just interesting to me, because they don't say interesting things and are boring.
You don't know the situation so you don't know if I have to make amends.
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On 9/16/2022 at 7:15 PM, Lester Retsel said:
He just dropped it casually on is blog on 9/15, the subject line "pedophilia is love" he was groomed at molested at 14 and claims the guy who did it truly loved him and it was a purely positive thing that led leo to God eventually. Holly. Shit. There are so many implications here that I needed to bring it here and encourage anyone to help unpack this. First off, him dropping it now so suddenly and casually is a classic sign of repression. Now so much of his sketchy sexism and views that's its totally fine to tale advantage of women under the influence and everything makes so much sense. Thoughts???
I guess it was something like a pedo grabbed his ass in the 4th grade. And that's it.
Leo wants to be the guy on the heros journey, because everyone slightly famous needs such a story.
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I was in a bar today and spoke with people. If they laugh I didn't feel anything. What is that🤔
It feels like I lost this feeling of togetherness or communion.
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I lost all my friends and it somehow pressures me, because today someone told me, if you get older it gets harder to find friends. What if I missed an important part in my life🤔
I am 33 and it gets scary now from all the sudden. I don't know why but I feel l8mited by my age..
I miss my old friends.. But it is not possible to get them back.
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On 9/17/2022 at 8:13 PM, Blessed2 said:
The philosophy and faith of the founding fathers is far more nuanced and deep than that.
The history and ideas of what the US constitution and society was built on was completely different from basic religious thought or catholic faith. US was more like a stark opposite of a religious state.
That something like the US could have even appeared on the face of this planet meant thousands of people tirelessly fighting christian fundamentalism and chruches power. It was more like "Fuck a religious state, fuck a monarchy, fuck any sort of oppression. Let's try something completely new... Let's try reason, let's try spirituality, let's try freedom." And they did. The US was founded on a completely new paradigm of nature, life and human being. Not catholicism.
Not true.
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Lol now phil gave me a warning because he felt triggered
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You should study philosophy and AI, do a phd or something like Bernado Kastrov. Creating a/multiple companies and/or invest.
Using your brother to get better in handling people. Because, you would need this anyways for the goals you mentioned.
Feels ugly to tell people what they should do 🤮If it is done by 'questions' or not.
Idk. maybe buy a cat or something.
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On 8/30/2022 at 5:07 PM, Phil said:
Is saying someone is a toxic person a positive action?
If not, would you apologize for having said it?
Do you feel discord with someone else’s thoughts?
Translation:
You saying someone is a toxic person is negative,
that is why you should apologize for having said it.
Moreover, you feel the discord with someone else's thoughts.
On 8/30/2022 at 8:43 PM, Phil said:So if I’ve got it right, he’s toxic, I don’t understand, and you can’t do it…?
Sounds like rationalizing & justifying denial & a victim mindset.
Translation:
You are hypocritical yourself and you yourself is toxic.
This is rationalizing & justifying denial & a victim mindset.
Summary:
I know what you are thinking and feeling. And what I say about you is definitely true. Because, I know it better than most people.
I'm Getting More Responsibilities and I'm Scared
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Not surprised. You are funny.