Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 Is it possible? I'm in pieces right now. How can I be single and happy snd not have the desire for sex? Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 You kinda get born with the desire for sex, and it stops at some point when you die. Why fight it? Why is it stopping you from happiness? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovingPresence Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 Desire for sex is natural. Can i ask you why you have a problem with it? Happiness starts and ends with you so it doesnt matter if you have a partner or not. Relationships should be seen as an expression of your love and to share your natural joy with another human being. But if you want to be single its fine too. Imo it has nothing to do with your happiness. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 12 hours ago, Orb said: How can I be single and happy snd not have the desire for sex? How about single, happy and masterbate? 🙊🙈 @Mike @LovingPresence Welcome to the forum 💙 Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 1 hour ago, LovingPresence said: Desire for sex is natural. Can i ask you why you have a problem with it? @LovingPresence it's just too intense sometimes, it's like a black hole of lust. I am ALWAYS horny! Is this normal? I'm a young guy. And on top of that I want to have sexual experiences but it's been tough to get them, when it comes to girls that are my type I haven't had much luck. So it's like I'm hungry but I have no food to eat 😕. @Faith I don't know how this can be a solution, I've masturbated so much that I actually had to stop because I injured myself 😳. @Mike I'm concerned with it because it makes all my interactions with women a bit distorted, like theres always a little itch to get sexual stuffs from a woman and its not nice. I want to see every human equally! Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 5 minutes ago, Orb said: Faith I don't know how this can be a solution, I've masturbated so much that I actually had to stop because I injured myself 😳. Oic, then I'd say it sounds like you're addicted to sex? Sorta like when ppl are addicted to food, but still need to eat. The advice always seem to be learning to do it in moderation. Maybe try to abstain for awhile, then try slowly incorporating it back in, in moderation? Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 @Faith I've tried many times already. im not giving up, i mean what else can I do at this point lol. Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 1 minute ago, Orb said: @Faith I've tried many times already. im not giving up, i mean what else can I do at this point lol. So, what would be the other options? Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 (edited) @Faith i dont know honestly, sex is so hardwired into me that to abstain is crazy! But I'm very much obsessed with it. Sexual transmutation seems to be the way. Edited March 20, 2022 by Orb Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 14 minutes ago, Orb said: Sexual transmutation seems to be the way. I had to look up the definition of sexual transmutation and it means taking the sexual energy and channeling it into something else. So, maybe exercising, hiking, skating...dunno? Burn off the energy. What were you thinking? Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 @Faith martial arts, calisthenics, and cardio! im gonna burn all the energy, starting....tomorrow 😉 Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 I notice when I commit to sexual transmutation, I get so much energy that I NEED to release it, so twice a day workouts become the norm. The longest I've gone is 25 days. Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 7 minutes ago, Orb said: @Faith martial arts, calisthenics, and cardio! im gonna burn all the energy, starting....tomorrow 😉 2 minutes ago, Orb said: I notice when I commit to sexual transmutation, I get so much energy that I NEED to release it, so twice a day workouts become the norm. The longest I've gone is 25 days. That sounds really good! Good luck with it.💙 Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 @Faith thanks! I'm feeling inspired! Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 26 minutes ago, Orb said: @Faith thanks! I'm feeling inspired! 🥰 Quote Mention You're a thought. Do you think a thought is going to occupy 'no thought'. The 'changeless' can be realized only when the ever-changing thought-flow stops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ELove Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/20/2022 at 2:52 PM, Orb said: Is it possible? I'm in pieces right now. How can I be single and happy snd not have the desire for sex? I'm so sorry hun, have you gone through a breakup recently?!?! 💙 Wishing you well 🐩🌷 Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 21, 2022 Author Share Posted March 21, 2022 @ELove hey, yes kind of went through one, all is well now. I'm focusing on sexual transmutation/creating awesome life. Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ELove Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 @Orb I'm so happy for you! 💙 I know how difficult breakups and well even just breaks can be in relatoinships. Wow... I guess that could work... do you read any books there like I know sexuality and books in spirituality they just kinda go with one another? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orb Posted March 21, 2022 Author Share Posted March 21, 2022 @ELove I've read a bit of this one book for semen retention. I think its called Semen Retention Miracle. Quote Mention ♾️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ELove Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 Just now, Orb said: @ELove I've read a bit of this one book for semen retention. I think its called Semen Retention Miracle. Okay so nothing for both sexes, great 🤣 I'll pass on that one... 😛 Just hope you are doing okay though hun. Love. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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