spiritual dreams Posted May 9, 2023 Share Posted May 9, 2023 My career is extremely intellectually challenging and I love it. However, the job is very lacking in social experience. I'm worried that I'll become more logical and stiff mentally instead of feelings and going with the flow, lost in concepts rather than being in the present moment. Think Sheldon cooper from big bang theory. Since I'm single and looking for a social circle, sex and relationships, I'm worried that all this high level symbolic reasoning might be detrimental to my goals. Am I overthinking this? and if not, what can I do to balance out my mind? leaving the job is not an option as this is my dream job and potentially my life purpose. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 If it's your dream job and you love it and you're in the flow, inspired, enthused when you're doing it, it's just as attractive as being the lead singer of a band, or a man in uniform, etc,. Maybe not every woman, but for one that you want to attract. Doing what you love and are passionate about IS attractive. There is no criteria it must meet first to be attractive, it's about the way you feel, which then attracts. Look into the history of Tesla, he drove women absolutely crazy. 😆 When you're doing what you like careerwise, it makes hobbies even more engaging and fun, if you want hobbies that are more extroverted in nature, do those, it's not an "either/or" question, it's "hell yes, and". Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 Are you worried, or are you receiving the guidance of worry? What about doubt? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 On 5/10/2023 at 2:45 PM, Phil said: Are you worried, or are you receiving the guidance of worry? what's the difference between the 2? On 5/10/2023 at 2:45 PM, Phil said: What about doubt? There's a lot of doubt in my life right now as well. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 12 minutes ago, spiritual dreams said: what's the difference between the 2? The first is only a concept while the second acknowledges what’s felt. 13 minutes ago, spiritual dreams said: There's a lot of doubt in my life right now as well. Is doubt in your life or is doubt felt? Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 On 5/10/2023 at 11:48 AM, Mandy said: Look into the history of Tesla, he drove women absolutely crazy. This probably isn't the best example because tesla died a virgin 😂 But i get your point. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 5 minutes ago, Phil said: The first is only a concept while the second acknowledges what’s felt. Ok then I guess I am receiving the guidance of worry then. 6 minutes ago, Phil said: Is doubt in your life or is doubt felt? They are the same thing 😅 But yeah, doubt is felt. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 2 minutes ago, spiritual dreams said: Ok then I guess I am receiving the guidance of worry then. It’s always telling you that you don’t have to - by how it feels. 7 minutes ago, spiritual dreams said: They are the same thing 😅 But yeah, doubt is felt. ‘They’ are the same in that ‘they’ are no thing, but not quite the same experientially. Doubt is not found in life. That conceptualization of emotion is the overlooking of emotion, which is a not-receiving the guidance of, which is essentially denial (though there’s no one ‘in’ denial, just like doubt isn’t ‘in’ life.) What you’re saying in you op is that you want to feel more and conceptualize less. This is it, and it has nothing to do with what job anyone has or doesn’t have. Guidance helps point out discordant beliefs, like lack, becoming, high level, and more. What’s wanted, as far as ‘having enough energy’, feeling great, etc… is alignment. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 @Phil I see. How do I align myself? Or lack thereof? Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 1 hour ago, spiritual dreams said: This probably isn't the best example because tesla died a virgin 😂 But i get your point. He died a virgin not because of lack of interest in him, just lack of his own interest. Quote Mention Youtube Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 31 minutes ago, spiritual dreams said: @Phil I see. How do I align myself? Or lack thereof? Alignment is of thoughts with feeling. https://www.actualityofbeing.com/aligning-thought-with-feeling Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 37 minutes ago, Mandy said: He died a virgin not because of lack of interest in him, just lack of his own interest. True 🤣 Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiritual dreams Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 @Phil ok I'll give that a read Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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