Romantic Relationships are Unnatural

[Blessed2]

3 minutes ago, Orb said:

What?! 😭😂😂 i dont even watch that content 

 

Maybe not specifically but

 

1 hour ago, Orb said:

The problem with these swipe right or left dating apps is that men disproportionately have WAY LESS matches than women. 

 

So dating apps have become like the female equivalent of what porn does for men. Its an app that provides you with an unnaturally high amount of options with males. Imagine you have a couple matches and youre texting those girls, those girls youre texting have a shitload of matches and on top of that they are getting 5-10 matches every 5 minutes maybe even less. 

 

The problem with this is that it leads to women becoming more and more picky and 80% of the guys on these apps are ignored completely. 

 

Where'd you get this information from?

 

[Blessed2]

1 minute ago, Orb said:

I dont just want sex this is a misunderstanding.

 

Yeah didn't mean that there isn't anything else you want, but what are those things?

 

5 minutes ago, Orb said:

but in the meantime im horny asf. 

 

 

[Phil]

@Orb

On self inherent self-love, self-worth… I have a hole in my backyard I keep tripping on. I’m gonna fill it with more holes. What do you think of my strategy?

[Orb]

14 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

Maybe not specifically but

 

 

Where'd you get this information from?

 

My experience and what my friends have experienced. All my friends have given up on online dating. There could be some cultural differences here too. 

 

4 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

Yeah didn't mean that there isn't anything else you want, but what are those things?

 

 

 

I go down a rabbit hole with porn use and masturbation. Its a destructive habit in the sense that it only makes me crave more sex. 

[Orb]

1 minute ago, Phil said:

@Orb

On self inherent self-love, self-worth… I have a hole in my backyard I keep tripping on. I’m gonna fill it with more holes. What do you think of my strategy?

Impossible.

[Phil]

2 minutes ago, Orb said:

Impossible.

Could you expand and articulate a little?

[Orb]

6 minutes ago, Phil said:

Could you expand and articulate a little?

Filling holes with holes is impossible. 

[Phil]

@Orb

Thanks. That’s not quite what I’m saying though. I have one singular hole I keep tripping on, and I am going to fill it with a multiplicity of holes. 

[Orb]

1 minute ago, Phil said:

@Orb

Thanks. That’s not quite what I’m saying though. I have one singular hole I keep tripping on, and I am going to fill it with a multiplicity of holes. 

Im not sure whats meant maybe its too early in the morning for me lol

[Isagi Yoichi]

1 hour ago, Orb said:

Im not sure whats meant maybe its too early in the morning for me lol

Its a Big Hole , inside it there will be small holes 

[Blessed2]

2 hours ago, Orb said:

My experience and what my friends have experienced. All my friends have given up on online dating.

 

You and your friends have experienced what it's like to be a woman on dating apps?

 

You really take the beliefs so seriously that you won't even consider going back on Tinder?

 

Wouldn't it just be fun to create a profile and get some matches?

 

You really think that there isn't a single woman on that app who's looking for someone like you, whom you'd like to start a relationship with?

 

[Orb]

2 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

You and your friends have experienced what it's like to be a woman on dating apps?

 

You really take the beliefs so seriously that you won't even consider going back on Tinder?

 

Wouldn't it just be fun to create a profile and get some matches?

 

You really think that there isn't a single woman on that app who's looking for someone like you, whom you'd like to start a relationship with?

 

The 1st question originally you asked is essentially how i know that dating apps are rigged horribly in favor of women for very natural reasons. So thats why i referred to my own experience and my friends experience. 

 

That has nothing to do with us knowing what its like to be a woman on a dating app and isnt relevant imo. 

 

If guys are consistently having issues even being seen by a girl that could be a great match bc theres literally 10s if not 100s of matches piled on top of their profile and all of them are all simultaneously texting them that experience is sufficient enough to show you how rigged the apps are. 

 

You dont need to know what its like to be a woman on a dating app to find that out. 

 

And hell no i will not use a dating app ever again lol, its nonsense. Maybe the culture in your area is different. But over here your chances of finding the one on a dating app is slim to none. Why would a girl i like choose me when she has 100s of matches of college dudes who are popular and good looking guys in their 40s (young women love guys in their 40s, its kind of an unspoken thing here) 

 

And Phil and Mandy didnt grow up in our generation so they literally have no experience of trying to get a partner these days at a young age and how maddening it is. Their relationships came from organic circumstances, that is, meeting someone physically and experiencing the full range of the person. 

[Orb]

13 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

You and your friends have experienced what it's like to be a woman on dating apps?

 

You really take the beliefs so seriously that you won't even consider going back on Tinder?

 

Wouldn't it just be fun to create a profile and get some matches?

 

You really think that there isn't a single woman on that app who's looking for someone like you, whom you'd like to start a relationship with?

 

It can definitely be fun to make a profile and get matches but with these women whos brains are so desensitized, its not enough to just have a conversation about getting to know each other, you have to say extreme things and really grab their attention. 

 

Because when your phone is buzzing with so many texts a simple "Hey hows it going nice to meet you 🙂" isnt gonna cut it.

[Blessed2]

9 minutes ago, Orb said:

Maybe the culture in your area is different.

 

There are guys expressing the exact same emotions and beliefs as you are. And guys going on Tinder dates and starting relationships.

 

[Orb]

11 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

There are guys expressing the exact same emotions and beliefs as you are. And guys going on Tinder dates and starting relationships.

 

Yea theres a reason for that, they have traits that are more desirable. 

[Blessed2]

9 minutes ago, Orb said:

Yea theres a reason for that, they have traits that are more desirable. 

 

Not really, just regular everyday normal mfs like me and you.

 

[Orb]

6 minutes ago, Blessed2 said:

 

Not really, just regular everyday normal mfs like me and you.

 

Theyre more efficient in either acquiring resources or attracting women. Yea those people that are getting dates and relationships are like the 20% of men. 

Edited Tuesday at 05:36 PM by Orb

[Orb]

Okay guys maybe youre right, let me start a new dating profile, make a nice bio, and add good pictures for the 5th time 🙂

[Phil]

@Orb

For the first time. Unless of course, the momentum around it is awesomeness. Otherwise it’s just a story which isn’t serving you or what you want, to let go of. This truly is the first time. This has never happened before.
 

How can it be, that in one experience, someone uses dating sites and experiences dissatisfaction and frustration, while yet another uses the same or similar dating sites and experiences finding someone to happily share with?

The outer is a projection through the inner. The outer can no more change or affect the inner in truth than a mirror could change what’s looking in it.

 

[Orb]

3 minutes ago, Phil said:

@Orb

For the first time. Unless of course, the momentum around it is awesomeness. Otherwise it’s just a story which isn’t serving you or what you want, to let go of. This truly is the first time. This has never happened before.
 

How can it be, that in one experience, someone uses dating sites and experiences dissatisfaction and frustration, while yet another uses the same or similar dating sites and experiences finding someone to happily share with?

The outer is a projection through the inner. The outer can no more change or affect the inner in truth than a mirror could change what’s looking in it.

 

Idk about those happy people in relationships from those apps, are there relationships really that good? Thats a whole different story. Is it a girl you really want?