Let’s sum up the year - biggest realizations of 2023 for you

[Rose]

Wanted to start this thread to talk about the biggest revelations we’ve had this year.
 

One thing that really helped me this year is to start live life as a “C” student instead of trying to chance the “A+”s all the time. On one of my trips I saw myself as a baby that is just learning to live a life, it helped me to stop judging my “mistakes” and accept failures as part of my learning process. 

 

Also I realized that to live a happy life I need to fuck off from myself, because I’ve been destroying myself with some ideal unrealistic mold I’ve been trying to put myself in - and then getting really upset if I fail.

 

Another thing that helped me this year is realizing the importance of overcoming being radical in my thinking and trying to think in a more complex way - for example for each situation I try to think of both “good” and “bad” sides to it.

 

Please share yours!

Edited December 21, 2023 by Rose

[Phil]

I love it.