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Is it worth it to get the paid version of bumble? I was thinking of getting the unlimited subscription for 280$


The reason why I want to get it is so that I can set travel mode (to be able to match with people from other cities) and filter on languages/religion/education etc., so that I could get my perfect match.


Is it stupid to look for special someone outside of your city though? The reason why I want to look outside of my city is because I want to find someone from my culture (or Eastern European generally) and I think there’s not too many people like that in my city. Note, if I really found someone I could be in a long term relationship with or potentially marry, I would move to another city to be with them, however, I do know it’s not easy and I am worried it might have a lot of risk.

Is it bad not to be attracted to people who are outside your culture? I find it’s so much easier to relate to Eastern European people - not most of course, but the best relationships I’ve had where I felt good connection and understanding was with people from my culture. Also I find that Northern European/Western European men all look alike to me.. at least on dating apps.. it’s all Johns/Mikes/Matthews and they all have the same beard/hairstyles/types of pictures.. I don’t know why I find them very boring and uninteresting.. why is that? 

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