Eternal Posted March 8, 2023 Share Posted March 8, 2023 I find my brother's never make an effort to contact me and when I make an effort, they don't really communicate with me that much. Ideally I would like a better relationship with my brothers but everything feels so distanced and has been for as long as I can remember. Does anyone have any advice on how I can have a better relationship with my brothers? I have 2 Brothers btw, and they live close-by Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eternal Posted March 10, 2023 Author Share Posted March 10, 2023 11 hours ago, Faith said: @Eternal Do you have them over your house? Do you ask them to go places, like a sport game or concert? My family is out of state and I wish I had my sister to go places with... Not really, they just always seem to be occupied with their own lives, like I am making all the effort. Quote Mention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted March 10, 2023 Share Posted March 10, 2023 If you ‘turn it around’ it might be insightful. That would sound like… I never make an effort to contact them, and when they do, I haven’t really communicated with them that much. Ideally they would like a better relationship with me but I’ve been so distanced for as long as I can remember. The ‘turn around’ also helps clarify if what you want and what you’re focusing on thought or interpretation wise are a match. When discord is felt it might seem like it’s between you and them, when it might just be between thought & feeling. Quote Mention YouTube Website Sessions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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