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2 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Broken clock is right once in a while
Birds of a feather
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9 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Whatever grow up
Spoken like Leo Gura himself
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8 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Sounds like you are trying to say they are no good for anyone in your original post...no?
Do you see difference in depth between
"Oh, yeah, that's so good, baby. You give a good blowjob."
And
"I love you so much that I will guard you." ?
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8 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
All mine were great. Maybe not all everyone's always are, mine were, and I know lots of people enjoy them. I didn't say "based on your learning process" and I have no idea what you mean by that.
Have I somewhere denied the possibility of people liking it?
By it I mean hook ups, flings whatever?
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6 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
I would know more. I sincerely enjoy hookups and all kinds of different sexuap dynamics, you just don't, or you have judgment or trauma or baggage or social conditioning or something about your experience wasn't good. But you are trying to make a sweeping statement based on little experience that just isn't true for everyone
That seems contradictory based on yourself.
Remember you saying something alike "all my hookups were great".
So according to that logic, the amount of flings one has wouldn't matter to determine the joy factor, right?
How can you say 'based on my learning process' when you had no learning process on that regard?
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16 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Seems like i have more
How would that be relevant?
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12 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Cause I have direct experience of it
And I don't?
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51 minutes ago, BlendingInfinite said:
Freelance sex is not healthy for anybody. And like jerking off. It is not worth the effort.
How can you be so sure?
22 hours ago, Lester Retsel said:You're making too much of this. It's fine. Really. There are all kinds of ways to enjoy different sexual dynamics responsibly.
How can you be so sure?
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10 hours ago, Phil said:
Nothing at all wrong with it, but the misunderstanding is in the title. There aren’t Neo Advaita teachers or preachers. Just the message.
Well there's 2 answers here.
Ai, for real
and
I don't know, phil. I don't know.
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adding to it
really to just enjoy sex without empathic merging is to either be focused on your own sensation during sex || on that of the partner, while there is this big sentience exchange going on between 2 which is deeper than the satisfaction of lust.
one has to block it out egoically not to notice that.
that's why a lot of narcissistic people, cocaine taking people are able to engage in it so much, it's just fucking your own ego, really.
it could be because that's where they allow themselves to be a little bit more selfless.
but judging by how they do it, it's unlikely.
But it should not be done lightly since that sentience exchange can share you someone's traumas just as it can someone's pleasure.
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4 minutes ago, Eothasian said:
wel ll if you want to show him that, don't point to it directly in language is what he is communicating.
or sorry.
'don t rely heavily or repeatedly on point towards it through language' is what was conveyed I believe
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8 minutes ago, Phil said:
There aren’t any “Neo Advaita teachers”.
There isn’t a “him”.
There are no teachers which have intentions for him.
well as far as I remember this is exactly what he means which wasn't helpful to show that there's only I, in language.
but yes, the meaming helpful can be framed and so on.
8 minutes ago, Phil said:When the purporting as“spiritual teacher”, which doesn’t exist and is really “spiritual ego”, is confronted with the recognition of ‘their own’ thought attachment, emotional suppression and therein mis-identification…
wel ll if you want to show him that, don't point to it directly in language is what he is communicating.
8 minutes ago, Phil said:Into what?
source? enlightenment? I?
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And it was really bad...
Sex without love is not worth it, you guys.
I don't know what the point is of that, i feel a little bit like I got raped.
No genuine empathic engagement and all, it's all missing.
100% not worth it.
Look for a serious relationship.
That common emotional engagement is worth more than 90%.
I wish I would not have done it.
All that pick up talk and that you need sex so you know if you're compatible, total bs.
You need deep love for one another.
Masturbating is better that this.
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On 9/30/2022 at 11:50 AM, Phil said:
It’s not really ‘someone on Neo Advaita’. Advaita means nondual, not-two. “It” is literally you telling yourself you are infinite unconditional love, the Truth… and the ego, the belief in separate selves, popping up…. refuting the Truth of yourself… by calling yourself… a “Neo Advaita teacher”. It’s supposed to be funny. Well, supposed to be is going to far. It can be allowed to be funny. You can allow yourself to rejoice in the Truth of yourself and the absurdity of this whole situation. It feels good when you do, because you are not the person, you are that good feeling, which is infinite & eternal. 🤍 The Good News is that you are the eternal Good News.
I think what he means is that the conceptual pointers towards it don't do effectively for him what is intended by the teachers.
it would be better to guide through the experience he has eventually into it
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only if they know themselves better than you know yourself
or maybe only if they don't know themselves really well
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Psychedelics are "Portals" for your mind into unconventional worlds that correlate to "where you are", Sometimes even too seriously dark realities that could kill you or maybe worse.
As I did ayahuasca what I experienced on that trip only few have.
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21 hours ago, Faith said:
Actually, I said, "It sounds like he has Stockholm Syndrome", because it does. You can think it's shit all day long, but it doesn't change the fact that it "SOUNDS" like it.
Btw, I don't have the credentials to "diagnose" someone. So, relax. 🙄
Fiiiiiine. But only for you 🥰.
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36 minutes ago, Lester Retsel said:
Aww you're cute when you're triggered😘
I'm fine, don't worry about it.
It's better if you turn your gaze towards how you think about someone's vulnerability.
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Just now, Lester Retsel said:
To piss you off.
Well then piss of from here
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1 minute ago, Lester Retsel said:
Worlds smallest violin for leo. And for you.
Why are you on this forum again?
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Just now, DMT Elf said:
@Eothasian Oh whatever! 🙄 Go moralize somewhere else! Leo is a public figure with a massive audience and huge influence over people, not a close friend confessing things to you over coffee.
No, not whatever. Public figure or not he is a fkn human.
Leo already had problems emotionally engaging with people, all this does is strengthen it.
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Guys, when someone shares such a vulnerable experience of his/her life.
This is exactly how you don't react.
This Thread is unreasonable. Especially its theme. @Lester Retsel
Giving him diagnosis like he has "stockholm syndrome" is shit. @Faith
Bringing up a subconscious intellectual conflict is autistic af. @Adeptus Psychonautica
You guys seriously need to reflect on how you deal with this.
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