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So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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 Female empowerment tips      Own your own sexuality.      Don't trust people easily      Don't let someone dictate you things. When you see that attitude, immediately get up and walk away from it. It's harmful to womanhood.      Invest in creativity         Don't let someone tell you that your emotions are wrong      A lot of things can be very toxic to women.      Be surrounded by supportive people.         Be around kind men.      Immediately walk away from anything toxic 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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People will shame you for being a woman. But remember to tell yourself that it's their biases and prejudice. It has nothing to do with you. Don't let your self esteem be destroyed by someone else. You be you. You have to believe in yourself to find healing. The healing needs to come from within. Nobody will do this job for you. 

 

Eat healthy. Sleep well. As a woman don't be hard on yourself. 

 

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You have to bypass anything that takes away your power. 

You have to find comfort wherever you find it. I find comfort in sex. Big time. 

 

The most important is to keep a check on your emotional vulnerability. Is someone or something weaponizing it? 

Don't be into anything that attacks your expression and emotional vulnerability. It's not worth your time.. 

 

 

 

 

 

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So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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  Remember that divine masculinity is not the patriarchal system.    

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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 You have to crystallize all your strength. Your highest power as a woman lies in fighting emotional abuse and finding liberation.   We as women have made great strides in beating physical abuse. There was a time in history where physical abuse was normalized.   My grandmother used to be beaten up everyday.      Now we have a world where we have better laws to protect women from violence.      Yet we are still far behind our most important goal - liberation.      This liberation will come from through freedom, space and healing.      Don't settle for anything less.      The problem with generational trauma is that it creates a prison where a woman thinks there's no way out.      No. It's not like that. If you slowly build yourself up then it's possible to escape the prison. The prison of being unaccepted, unloved, judged, shamed, humiliation and un-spaceness.      What do I mean by "un-spaceness"?      Un-spaceness means a state where you have been denied and invaded. Not allowed to be you. Where you are told to dress a certain way, to look a certain way, to be a certain way and anything that doesn't conform to it is punishable. 

 

 

Don't give into this un-spaceness. 

 

 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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 Un-spaceness is the most dangerous thing. When you are removed from a space. Your expression vilified and abolished.   It's a huge downgrade for most women.      Imagine being fired from a job because you couldn't compete with a man. How does that feel?   Being judged for not being good enough when you know deep inside that you are already working very hard side by side to a man.   And still judged?   When a person is judging you and they remove you, that's when un-spaceness happens.      Women should develop better intuition to detect chances of "un-spaceness.      A lot of what women can achieve independently will squarely come from a better healthier functional intuition. 

 

 

 

 

 

That's awesome. When I build myself up financially I plan to bring more women into my life, especially underprivileged women. Right now I can't help them because I'm myself struggling.. But once I'm financially doing better, I will want to help other women find their financial independence. Also I wish to work in the sector of female sexuality because some women don't know how to explore that and they are dissatisfied their entire lives. I can't believe that we still live in a world where we are told how to dress.. Or how to be a woman. 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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Some women are deeply attached to men. That's okay too. In that respect, try to use the man in your life as your inspiration. 

 

 

 

 How we develop as women is very unique to us.. In essence there should be coaching classes for women at a young age to teach them tools of empowerment.   Navigating the whole space as a woman is incredibly difficult. 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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 As women we are very different from men. This is just undeniable. We feel emotions quite deeply. We may not show it all the time though. But women on average are more likely to suffer from mental illnesses. If you are a woman, I suggest that you make your womanhood your greatest priority in life, because nobody else will.   One of the most common problems that you will come across as a woman in social circles, spaces and workplaces is the denial of your womanhood. You'll always be made to step up instead of being given a leg up. You will always be expected to be better than you already are. It can be heavy sometimes and can feel sexist but like I said, these are the societal aspects that sort of bring you down as a woman and you have to be able to bypass these aspects. 

 

 

 As a woman.... You must not feel ashamed to express your weaknesses. Let's say if I'm not able to pick up a heavy box. It's completely okay if I'm not able to do it.   But some people will expect more out of you. They might vilify you for it. Shame you because you can't do what a man can do. Yet you shouldn't internalize any guilt or shame.     You're special and unique as a woman and it's not your job or responsibility to constantly defend yourself to an ignorant world. Your job is to seek your good and safety.      Seek your comfort. If you feel weak inside it's fine. There is no need to justify that you are a woman. It's already understood that you feel the way you feel and that shouldn't be denied. 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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If someone doesn't have the capacity to love you or understand you, again this is not your fault as a woman. You gotta have that confidence as a wall where you are able to say that it's not your fault. 

 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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I have to sufficiently remind myself that I'm a woman because I take it so much for granted. 

I used to act like a tomboy in my teenage years. 

 

Now in adulthood my womanhood has become increasingly apparent to me. Hormonal changes? I really don't know. 

 

Knowing that I feel like a woman is both a fact and a challenge. 

 

 

 

A woman can easily be stepped upon.   Her softness and gentleness making her vulnerable to such a thing.  Her cycles (large -life cycles and small- fertility cycles) demonized if she disowns her own perspective.  She wishes to remain "kore", maiden goddess at all times.  Disowning her other aspects.  She disowns her Queen of Swords, autumn goddess, inner depth.  She cannot see her own perspective any longer.  She is a disheveled mess from the disownership.   It's only when she begins to separate herself from the masculine can she begin to regain her perspective and pick up her sword again. She shines from within.  She is a rose.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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The point is, femininity has its own power.  On its own. It doesn't need to "integrate" the masculine in order to be powerful.  

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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I suppose femininity or a woman's breed of femininity is a much different experience for a woman than it is for a man as they experience cycles that can be very difficult socially.   It would be good to have some some female voices in here.   They have to navigate cycles that I don't think many masculine or males have to put up with.  In that way we need female voices.   It is also much different for someone with 'mental illness' who spirals in and out of feminine and masculine flows.  Someone who has high emotionality.  Or experiences bipolar, or schizoaffective or mystic ability.   

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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Avoid men that are total red flags.

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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I have taken a break from my work due to health reasons. I'll be back at work in a few days to a week. At least there's peace in my life.

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

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One thing that you need to tell yourself as a woman is that it's okay to want help and ask for help.

Don't be ashamed of this.

 

I often think what will happen if my life falls apart and I completely fail.

 

That's okay too. It doesn't look okay in a fast paced perfect judgemental world, but deep down everything is okay.

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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The other thing is about stage green and stage red women.

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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Be quick in detecting hate energy. One thing I'm sure most women especially sensitive women like me cannot put up with is hate. Hate is a strong emotion. It can hurt like a dagger.. 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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they don't have the mental and spiritual capacities for that... When people don't understand you. 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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Rumination.

Fixation. 

Obsession. 

 

What did I miss? 

What just happened? 

 

 

So basically I'm an autistic INFJ BPD sigma Pisces female with anger and CPTSD issues. Wow wow. 

My plate looks full. I Couldn't have been weirder than that. Now I get why I'm so idiosyncratic. 

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