Anger Towards Women

[Mandy]

@Orb Would you like me to move the thread to Emptying? Either section is fine. 

 

Imagine how Awareness must feel? If we personified it like we just did Mother Earth. "My God is a jealous God. "

 

[Rose]

12 minutes ago, Orb said:

If you're gonna get triggered then don't read my post. This section is for emptying and honest expression. 

 

Oh whoops it's not in the emptying section, still I'd rather be honest than act nice and walk on egg shells around equally entitled women.

And I am honestly expressing to you to look into why you are so entitled? What did you achieve in life? What do you have? Who are you? Low self esteem and low achievement in life go hand in hand with high entitlement.

There’s no philosophizing about this… it’s like a kid crying at the candy store that he wants all the candy and doesn’t understand why can’t he just be given all the candy. This is the level you’re at right now, a toddler.

Edited March 21, 2023 by Rose

[Mandy]

@Rose Honest inspection and pre-judgement cannot be kept together in the same cage, one will kill the other. 

[Orb]

@Mandy I think this can stay here thank you. 

 

@Rose Its complicated, i went through abuse as a child that made me hypersexual, it could be that combined with a porn addiction which I'm currently recovering from. When I see a hot woman I wanna have sex with her, it's like a craving for pleasure, of course I'd never force myself on a woman, but the sexual craving is there to sleep with the woman. 

 

I think a lot of men deal w this but are scared to honestly express it. We don't wanna be seen as monsters we wanna be loved and also to love and treat women well.

[Rose]

Just now, Mandy said:

@Rose Honest inspection and pre-judgement cannot be kept together in the same cage, one will kill the other. 

Is it judgment though when it is obvious? Can call someone entitled without negative connotation to it, just like calling a blind person blind?

[Rose]

1 minute ago, Orb said:

@Mandy I think this can stay here thank you. 

 

@Rose Its complicated, i went through abuse as a child that made me hypersexual, it could be that combined with a porn addiction which I'm currently recovering from. When I see a hot woman I wanna have sex with her, it's like a craving for pleasure, of course I'd never force myself on a woman, but the sexual craving is there to sleep with the woman. 

 

I think a lot of men deal w this but are scared to honestly express it. We don't wanna be seen as monsters we wanna be loved and also to love and treat women well.

 What a sad and noble story *yawn*

Edited March 21, 2023 by Rose

[Orb]

Just now, Rose said:

 What a sad story *yawn*

You see everyone? This is why men stay quiet about this topic, bc some women are insensitive to what we deal with. 

[Joseph Maynor]

Women can smell neediness in men with a high degree of perception.  Women are not attracted to little boys.  This is similar to men not being attracted to overweight and physically unattractive women.

Edited March 21, 2023 by Joseph Maynor

[Rose]

1 minute ago, Orb said:

You see everyone? This is why men stay quiet about this topic, bc some women are insensitive to what we deal with. 

I am insensitive to anyone, including myself, whenever someone plays victim 

 

There is no power in victimhood, nothing changes through victimhood 

[Mandy]

6 minutes ago, Rose said:

Is it judgment though when it is obvious? Can call someone entitled without negative connotation to it, just like calling a blind person blind?

It's obvious that there's a separate me and a him just like it's obvious that there's water up ahead in that there desert. You made a thread about being triggered by people who seem entitled with desire to look at that deeper, and here you are playing it out like it isn't the fantastic opportunity that it is. 

[Orb]

2 minutes ago, Rose said:

I am insensitive to anyone, including myself, whenever someone plays victim 

 

There is no power in victimhood, nothing changes through victimhood 

I never said you were being a victim in the thread where you said you were disappointed in men. And on my thread about being angry at women It seems like you're not even willing to see through my perspective and just being mean.

[Orb]

@Joseph Maynor there is truth to that. In my expressing of how i feel i am also becoming freed from these perspectives.

[Mandy]

It's the start of a beautiful love story. 

 

[Joseph Maynor]

11 minutes ago, Orb said:

@Joseph Maynor there is truth to that. In my expressing of how i feel i am also becoming freed from these perspectives.

I gotcha.  I'm just spitting a little truth why we're here.  It took me a long time to realize what turns off women in a man.  I asked a woman recently what the number one thing that turns her off about a man and she said when a man's voice cracks like he's going through puberty.  She also said most young men look like boys to her and not fully men.  This is one of the reasons women like older men.  If they see you're like a boy, that's not attractive.  This is why the nice guy fails because he doesn't appear like a real man.  Most women want a grown up man I think.  Sometimes women mistake the asshole for the mature man and get bamboozled that way.  They mistake assholishness for confidence.  Narcissists aren't really confident or mature.  This is why creepy pick artists can fool women sometimes.  The asshole player type guys.

Edited March 21, 2023 by Joseph Maynor

[Rose]

3 minutes ago, Orb said:

I never said you were being a victim in the thread where you said you were disappointed in men. And on my thread about being angry at women It seems like you're not even willing to see through my perspective and just being mean.

 You’re not really expressing here why you’re disappointed in women though - it’s more of a “wheh 😭 can’t have hot women wheh women have a choice whether they will sleep with me or not 😭”

[Orb]

3 minutes ago, Rose said:

 You’re not really expressing here why you’re disappointed in women though - it’s more of a “wheh 😭 can’t have hot women wheh women have a choice whether they will sleep with me or not 😭”

So what you're saying is I should stay quiet and not express this at all? And you're unfairly mischaracterising what I said earlier.

Edited March 21, 2023 by Orb

[Rose]

11 minutes ago, Mandy said:

It's obvious that there's a separate me and a him just like it's obvious that there's water up ahead in that there desert. You made a thread about being triggered by people who seem entitled with desire to look at that deeper, and here you are playing it out like it isn't the fantastic opportunity that it is. 

Well the only solution I see is for me is to act entitled for a while. By allowing myself to do it, I won’t be mad when others are doing it. 
 

I just don’t know which situations it would be safe to act entitled in, I definitely can’t do it at work.. 

[Rose]

9 minutes ago, Orb said:

So what you're saying is I should stay quiet and not express this at all? And you're unfairly mischaracterising what I said earlier.

You can express, but I can express in return. Instead of fighting with me about it, try to see value in my comment.

 

What do you rather want, to be whiny and victimy or to be happy and fulfilled?

 

What kind of comments did you expect under this post?  Comments that validate your victimhood or comments that try to get you out of it? 

Edited March 21, 2023 by Rose

[Orb]

@Rose I wanna be happy and fulfilled. Sorry, im naturally rebellious and got mad when you started challenging my OP. But i will listen now. 

 

I just felt hurt bc i shared something sensitive from my childhood and you just brushed it aside, while if the situation was reversed I'd look like a complete asshole. 

[Orb]

@Joseph Maynor it's a pain in the ass lol, I hope it worth it. Seems like arrogance is everywhere, or perhaps I'm projecting it out, I gotta find out for myself. Everyone's entitled. I love it lol.