bnyland

Consider yourself lucky then

Hey, stop parroting Phil!!!!

Are you judging judgemental people? You must be annoyed "with yourself".

Are you asking for more thoughts? 🐘

Meaningless has no meaning, so why cry about it.

Thought is the veil that hides truth. You're using the veil to tie yourself in knots, hoping that the veil will finally show you the truth. It won't . But what it will do, is keep veiling

Because disproving anything involves more thinking, and thinking is NEVER truth.

Ps. Whatever you do, try not taking it personally. Simple advice, hard to follow 🙂

What do you want from the relationship, how do you expect her to behave differently? Neediness might work with certain people that either have unmet needs themselves or are the carer type. But when you evolve and don't have the same needs anymore, or they feel like not being that caring anymore, what happens to the relationship? Sounds like you need to date lots more women, find some that satisfy your perceived needs for a while, then move on to the next one... Until maybe you progress and clarify where the neediness is coming from. What are the beliefs that manifest as neediness? Unworthiness, fear of abandonment etc? That's for you to explore.

What are you offering in the relationship?

So many complicated words and sentences to justify rolling around in your self created victim mentality mud puddle. Once identified as a victim, it is very difficult, statistically speaking, to get out of it. Better luck next life.

He's like a broken ChatGPT

Are you using kratom, or is kratom using you? 🤔

Invest in Bitcoin, maybe learn how to trade

It's easy to feel equanimous when there's no perceived suffering, right? That's why real equanimity is especially tested in difficult conditions. You have 2 choices: - the hard path: disidentify your bodily sensations and resulting mind states/thoughts from your identity, which means that even if the body/mind is perceived to not feel alright , that's not who you are, so while not ideal, you could live with these sensations for the rest of your life, and use the ups and downs as teachers - the harder path: getting clean of your addictions. I used kratom for about 5.5 years, and took me about 6-8 months to feel 'normal' again after giving it up. I learned people used kratom to get rid of opiate addictions, I only used it recreationally in the beginning, until I realized I was addicted. At one point I was using valium/diazepam to make the withdrawal symptoms easier to manage 🙂 I feel lucky that I never got addicted to valium, I can go for months/for ever without taking it, especially since giving up caffeine and my sleep is amazing now. Today I'm in day 5 of quitting caffeine and it seems to be much easier than quitting kratom. While the kratom effects are obvious, caffeine in my case is quite insidious, in that after a few days with no caffeine, thoughts appear of "surely it's not as bad as I thought", "millions/billions of people drink it everyday and they're alright", and next thing I know I'm back to 4 cups a day and poor sleep... Both kratom and caffeine affect the body in multiple ways, the most important seemed to me the dopamine effect. Caffeine apparently puts your body in fight-or-flight mode which can feel amazing for the modern person, but after a long time (ab)using it the additional stress catches up to you. If you need motivation quitting caffeine, look up various caffeine quitting videos on youtube...