Bob Seeker

Furthering my career so I get to do what interests me. I understand that I’m thinking in a very limited way.

@Phil I do understand what you are saying and I’m open to hearing how to dispel it. thanks

People, please

I’m 25 y/o male and I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m not a romantic person, but clearly I feel something is missing. I can be plenty social and likable but I’ve never been able to form a real relationship. I’ve always felt different and I’m not smooth with women it seems. I have normal sex drive so of course all that gets channeled into porn and it feels pathetic. I’m currently immunocompromised while I receive chemotherapy but this will end in 4-5 months I think. I don’t want just any unconscious relationship to use a woman for sex or for entertainment but I feel like I don’t have much to offer a woman because I’m not that mature either and I am iffy about kids and about a traditional marriage where you live together and stuff. I mean I don’t know a single married couple who don’t fight all the time. I don’t like friend groups and acting all unconscious with them and I won’t drink or do drugs unconsciously. I hate bars too, so I basically have no in-person friends. I’m also afraid a relationship will take up a lot of my time and I have a fear about wasting time apparently. Putting on dream board “healthy expression of sexuality”

@Mandy makes sense. I am experimenting with living from my highest thought about myself as the Conversations with God book 1 suggests. Would you recommend dropping LOA and just being myself or keeping conscious attention of LOA and simultaneously trying to be myself, or will they conflict?

Does this point to simply attracting things that are in alignment with your vibration, or is there something fundamental about being yourself, like some sort of flow you are tapping into? If there is no self, how do we be ourselves, practically? Is attracting what I want being myself? Can I be myself even without practicing law of attraction?