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Just an update. I didn't really do anything different except start playing this game called RuneScape. I've been playing it since September and life has got more tolerable. My tension headaches aren't as bad and my restlessness from my medication isn't as bad either. I no longer experience derealization. My life is still really boring from the outside looking in, but I'm quite content with it. I love just spending all day alone with my laptop. Life doesn't need to get any better from here on until the day I reincarnate. I still have existential fears about radical implications of oneness but that's probably some bs that Leo came up with. My life had no indications that there would be eternal torture, if I look at my childhood if you told that young boy that he'd experience the life of everyone who ever lived that would be the cruelest thing to hear. The thing is my childhood and the time and place I was born, it can't be random. But only I can understand that.
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Hahaha. I dare you to make a non-duality video in a crowded subway
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@Phil Yeah I never show my anger, I internalize it. I hate showing it, I see it as a sign of weakness. Also my parents treat me like a little kid if I get angry. Can I create a dreamboard on my phone? I find it so cringe that my parents will come in my room and see what's on my dreamboard
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Every say is the same. Wake up, avoid my parents, eat peanut butter on toast at 12, go for a jog, drink orange juice, spend all day on my phone or staring at the ceiling, go for a walk, watch TV have dinner bedtime. Now that I found out other people don't have their own consciousness and are characters in my dream I've lost the ambition to do anything. All my ambition before came from impressing my friends, making them laugh. I suffered for decades for others and now I find out it was all for nothing. I'm not a real human being. The only people I feel love for in my life is my parents. And it's only because they look after me and help maintain my sanity, and add a little drama to my life. I recorded 2 videos yesterday and all I could think to talk about was how much I despise the non-dual community. I have no positive message to share with anyone. I respect Phil and Mandy because atleast their message has a light at the end of the tunnel, and they also give me good albeit confusing advice 😘 Idk what to do with myself
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@Phil I admit I have been falling into the trap of thinking things are never gonna change and I will have this headache forever. The expressing is helping, it's like if I get it out on this forum, then I don't need to be ruminating on it all day in my head. Appreciate your replies, I feel like I'm heading in the right direction.
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@Mandy I'd smoke weed and play on my phone while in bed all day. I can't smoke weed anymore though because it apparently have me psychosis. As for using my phone, I'm on it every day all day, looking at Reddit, watching skateboarding videos, stuff like that. The rest of my time I either go for a walk or a jog while listening to music or Phil's videos. The medication I'm on makes my mood really flat, hopefully I can taper off it as some point, but part of me enjoys feeling neutral all the time, there's less suffering, but no joy either. I'll check out yoga nidra, sounds interesting 🙂
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I woke up today did the meditation felt ok, had my breakfast, took my pills, listened to Bernardo kastrup, then I start to feel restless in my legs, start pacing around my room, try focusing on my breath, it doesn't work, then realize I still have 11 hours of the day left. I have to go for a jog I have to shower, I really can't be bothered. I'll do it anyway. Writing this makes me feel better. It's so annoying living with parents especially if you have mental illness. They come in and check up on you throughout the day and you feel like such a victim. I wish they'd just leave me alone. I'd love to move out but then I think what is the point. I'd just be wasting money, I can't look after myself like I used to. I used to travel and always be doing stuff. Not anymore.